How to love a person rationally

How to love a person rationally? Many people fall in love with a person and don't love too much, so that the other person won't feel too burdened and he won't work so hard. Only by maintaining rational love can he know more about what kind of love he needs. This article is about how to love someone rationally. How to love a person rationally requires reason to be greater than sensibility, both men and women should be like this. My opinion is based on the consciousness of self-protection, so it will make people feel a little selfish. But it is precisely because of the rational treatment of what you love that you can better control some existing changes and difficulties. After all, we love someone ourselves, and we are not sure whether they love us or not. If we pay too much but can't get it, it will not only waste our feelings, but also make it difficult for us to get out of that shadow! Only by maintaining rational love can we know more about what kind of love we need. Because many people lose their minds as soon as they meet someone they love especially, and blindly pay all their thoughts emotionally. And if you meet someone who loves you, it may be a beautiful love story. But two of a kind this kind of thing, is only in the novel? As it turns out, many loves are pursued by one party at first, moving each other step by step, then responding to each other and finally being together? What is shown in the pursuit of love is rationality. Love is actually like investing. We will invest the principal first, and only when we see the rate of return will we rationally choose to invest more. If you use an emotional attitude, blindly think that you will get the reward you want if you invest in your feelings, and then invest without hesitation, I am afraid that when it backfires, it will be too late to regret, and it will make people feel uncomfortable to breathe. Therefore, love a person must be rational and step by step! Some people are so confident in themselves that they always think that they can try their best to win each other's hearts in front of the people they love. In fact, such self-confidence is a kind of self-righteousness, because people's hearts are separated from each other, especially the love between men and women, which is really difficult to explain clearly. Don't forget what people often say, you will never be moved by the opposite sex who has no feelings for you. Then, even how to give everything emotionally is a huge unknown and bottomless pit. In the end, I will only see that I have been moving forward, and the other party has regressed faster. The distance will be farther and farther! Pursue the person you love rationally, and then you can find the existing problems rationally. Finally, I can understand whether it is possible for my efforts to have a happy ending. Of course, reason doesn't want you to haggle over every ounce. You should give your sincere heart, but you should not be stingy. I just want you to observe each other and yourself more rationally, observe how much you have paid, and observe each other's reaction to you when you love someone. Just adjust your posture from it! How can we treat love rationally? When you fall in love with someone, don't care about the romance of love and many ways of love. Everyone loves in different ways. Don't be insatiable. If you are insatiable, you will lose your rare true love. Some people say that love will not last long, but I think this is wrong. Love will last for a long time, because when you don't protect true love, it will lead to short-lived love, which you think will not last. Love a person to trust each other, love a person to understand each other, love a person to tolerate each other, love a person to be broad-minded, love a person to respect each other's ideas and opinions, love a person to support him (her) behind his/her back, don't stop loving a person, don't complain when he (she) can't accompany you, and tell him (her) with a smile that I am fine and I am happy to love a person. Don't let him (her) know that he (she) loves someone too much ~ ~ ~ too much. Maybe some people can't do it. What is important is that love should be selfless, clean and pure, and willing to do anything for him (her). When you are in love, make him (her) happy, as long as he (she) is happy. ! In fact, sometimes after separation, I will find out how much I love him. In fact, many boys don't know that girls turn around after being angry with them, but just keep sobbing. In fact, many boys don't know that girls are never really angry with them, because she really likes and cares about him. In fact, many boys don't know that girls only nag at boys they like and only play with people they like. You know, if she doesn't like you, she won't care about you at all, lest you do something wrong. You know, she doesn't like you, she won't be angry with you at all, and she won't be spoiled for you. She is a lady in front of others. You know, if she doesn't like you, you can't make her cry at all, even if she is angry, it won't last more than two days. And all this is just because she likes you, and all this is because you don't care about her enough and don't understand her enough. So, you often quarrel, you think she has a bad temper, and she thinks you are not accommodating her enough. So, you are always cold war. You think she doesn't like you, she thinks you don't care about her. As a result, you always miss each other inexplicably. Perhaps passing by is a sad helplessness and happiness. You know, sadness is still a kind of beauty, beauty is gorgeous, and sadness and vicissitudes are even more beautiful. Because she likes you, she occasionally gets angry with you and often acts like a spoiled brat. Because she likes you, she will be angry with you; And because she likes you, she won't be angry for long. Do you know that every girl's heart is made of crystal, crystal clear, but it is easy to be bruised and broken. Do you know that every girl is defenseless? You broke into her heart so easily, leaving only harm when you left. She never knew that no one in the world could make her cry, because the one who really deserves her tears is reluctant to make her cry. She will be very reserved, she will be proud, she will be indifferent, she always says you go away, but her heart keeps telling you to stay. Please open your ears and your heart to listen to her inner voice, not her duplicity. She will watch you turn around, and then she will turn around with you. When you pass by sideways, you can't see her tears, and they all pour on your face. If you like her, please spend more time with her; If you like her, please spoil her more; If you like her, please let her go. If you like her, please listen to her inner voice. It's crying-please hug her. In love, we always hurt each other, as if only in this way can we prove that our love is fierce and powerful. However, love is not right or wrong; No one in love is more than me, and I am less than you. You love her, and she loves you. That's enough. Don't try to hurt each other and make them more vulnerable and sad. You love each other, what you need is warmth, happiness, sweetness and happiness, not harm. Don't declare war with silence, don't give in to the other side, and don't leave coldly without saying anything. You know, when you left, your eyes were foggy and her eyes were full of tears. The calmer the war, the more it spreads. This is the cold war and mutual harm-no matter how they get back together, those wounds have existed and cannot be erased. Please give her a hug, and use your hug to resolve the sadness in her heart and the tears in her eyes. She likes you, she will never refuse your hug, she will only be afraid of your indifference and turn to silence. Remember, people who love each other should not declare war easily, because the damage brought by the cold war is unexpected. Please also remember that as long as you like her, there is nothing you can't accept. As long as you like her, you like everything about her. Then all her little temper, bad temper and bad habits are spoiled in your eyes. Please also remember that she likes you, what she needs is not that you really turn around, and what she said is not what she really means. She just wants you to spoil her and hug her, even if she doesn't apologize.