People with negative energy will consider the problem from the bad side and think that not smoking or drinking is stingy! If men who don't smoke or drink are bad people, don't forget that men in China didn't smoke for thousands of years before tobacco was introduced to China!
People with positive energy understand the problem from a good perspective and think that such men are frugal, self-disciplined and pay attention to their health. Only when you are in good health can you ensure the life of your family and take good care of your family.
I would rather believe that this is a positive energy question, but some netizens understand that the answer is positive rather than negative!
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It should be a virtue and a good habit not to smoke or drink. Think of a person, a family, with limited monthly income. If you spend some money on smoking and drinking every day, it is a selfish waste in itself. Two years a year, ten years and eight years, how much does it cost to drink and smoke? Although you can make more friends by smoking and drinking, you may not make more money in many cases! Too many people smoke and drink. How many people get rich by smoking and drinking? Very few!
I saw a father riding an electric car yesterday, with a daughter sitting in front and a daughter sitting behind. It is raining in Mao Mao. He sent his daughter to a primary school two long streets away, and I took the same road. He left the road with his two daughters and stopped. He lit a cigarette before he left, with his fingers between his left hand and his right hand driving an electric car. I caught up with him from behind. On the way, he caught up with me with a cigarette, smoking while driving an electric car. It's almost at the school gate. I wonder where he put the safety of his two children for smoking.
Therefore, men who don't smoke or drink are terrible in self-discipline and demands on others. This is a good habit worthy of praise!
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