1. Love and study can be saved.
Love can bring new experience and emotional support to reading, while reading can cultivate wisdom and enhance personal cultivation, and the two complement each other.
2. Don't announce the world at the beginning.
Too eager to announce the relationship to the outside world will easily bring too much pressure and expectation to both sides, but we should slowly establish a stable relationship before making it public.
Don't give up your relationships for him.
Keeping an independent social circle in love, not completely relying on each other, is helpful for personal growth and self-identity.
4. Dare to refuse the unreasonable demands of boys
We should have enough self-esteem and bottom line in love, dare to refuse unreasonable demands and protect our rights and interests.
I would rather quarrel than have a cold war.
Quarrel can solve problems, and the cold war will only aggravate misunderstanding and sense of distance. Proper communication and expression is the key to solving problems.
6. Don't say hurtful words when quarreling.
When quarreling, we should pay attention to control our emotions, avoid words hurting each other, communicate rationally to solve problems, and maintain the healthy development of relations. Some words, once said, cannot be taken back.
7. If you plan to get engaged, at least live together.
Cohabitation is a major decision, at least when planning to get married, we should consider cohabitation on the basis of full consideration and understanding of each other.
8. Please aim at getting married.
The ultimate goal of love is to establish a family and a long-term partnership, and marriage should be the goal, so we should make preparations and efforts for it.
9. It is an important decision not to have sex too hastily before getting married. It should be carried out on the basis of ensuring mutual understanding, respect and commitment, so as to avoid premature or hasty occurrence, thus protecting personal physical and mental health and maintaining the stability of bilateral relations.