Don't deny yourself, keep telling yourself "I am the best me" and "Since God has given talents, let them find jobs!" . Don't embarrass yourself, do what you can, as long as you try your best, it doesn't matter if you don't succeed.
Nothing is more important than now. Let bygones be bygones. To accept yourself, you can start by stopping criticizing, criticizing and blaming yourself, stop demanding yourself and stay away from negative emotions. After facing the truth, I often find that the truth is not as terrible as I thought before.
2. Find someone to talk to. If you are in trouble, you must say it. Talk to someone you can trust about your troubles. Maybe others can't help you solve the problem, but at least they can let you vent.
3. Give yourself 10 minutes of thinking time every day and constantly sum up yourself, so as to constantly face new problems and challenges.
Without deliberately catering to others, we usually suppress ourselves and cater to others and the outside world in exchange for love and respect. But this not only makes the other person unable to understand the real you, but also makes you feel that this kind of communication is superficial, so you can't recall your true feelings, and the real yourself will hide further and further.
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1, the meaning of social:
Socialization is good for personal growth. Socialization is a way of cultural exchange. Social communication is the foundation of social composition and development.
2, the role of social:
First, improve individual productivity and promote the creation, maintenance, dissemination and development of social productivity;
Second, the necessary conditions for the generation, deepening and development of knowledge;
Third, it can promote the all-round development of animals.
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