Love education has no boring preaching, no grandiloquence, no vigorous heroic deeds. It only describes ordinary kind people, such as charcoal sellers, masons, blacksmiths' sons, teenage drummers, teachers who attend classes in spite of illness … and their ordinary daily lives. It is these seemingly ordinary but authentic narratives that bring readers into a world of love and let us be educated in love. This book is full of love. Full of enviable love.
In our education, the word "education of love" is easy to say, but how difficult it is to do! First of all, most people don't have the concept of "education of love". Therefore, in our life, there is no education of love. It is precisely because we lack the education of love that we lack love in our life. Love for parents, love for teachers and love for classmates are all what we lack, and this is what we need to find. With this love, our life will be full of love.
In the education of love, I walked into students' lives and witnessed how they study, live and fall in love. Their love includes tolerance, humility, affection and friendship. The education of love tells us that the noble love of human nature is the most sincere education, and education sublimates love. Although everyone's life experience is different, you will experience similar feelings you have experienced from the education of love, but our attitudes and behaviors may be different.
When young people leave their teaching posts, they are full of passionate love and hope to play the role of "being a teacher" wholeheartedly. However, in the absence of professional experience, teaching experience and good methods, they use the "authority of teachers" to discipline students with pointers, which hurts their hearts. I also force students to haggle over scores in various competitions for vanity, so as to get a lot of "false honors". Even children are judged by "scores", "appearance" and even "obedience". Every time I recall this incident, I can't help shivering and feel ashamed.
Constantly adjust the mentality and practice, but also pay more attention, love and sincerity to children, and find that children will always give "feedback" relatively. Therefore, only "education of love" can have "beautiful" memories.
My experience:
1. With education as the theme, there should be many beautiful, lovely and moving stories that happened to you and me. Everyone is engaged in education, and they are all grassroots educators. It should be the story they contacted and felt the most, but no one recorded it. If there is a chance to sort them out, it will be a good book like this.
Second, don't be too attached to an idea, a behavior pattern or a habit, but always seek a breakthrough and think positively and negatively from different angles to solve the problem. We should form the habit of self-reflection and think about everything carefully so as not to be confused by the outside world.
Third, I have read a lot of books and rarely revisit them before coming back; I have written many reports and materials and seldom read them again. In fact, I taste them again occasionally. Where should I start? Can only understand, can't express. We often move forward unconsciously, ignoring the efforts of reflection and consciousness, and often ignoring the feelings of others unconsciously.
Fourth, in the product of the times, many scholars are good at reading, and many students can only read and can't look at people; Only do things, don't be a man, pay too much attention and ignore them; ; He is a giant in academia, but a dwarf in life; You can talk to computers, machines and laboratories, but you can't communicate with people.
Engaging in education is usually a problem worth thinking about. What is "want" or "don't"? This problem is worth discussing and studying.
First, the teacher's "to":
(1) Teachers should be educated, not reprimanded: education is guidance rather than indoctrination, and students should be treated as "yes" rather than "no". Reprimand does not allow students to say "no", while education is subtle.
(2) Understand students, know students, praise and accept students in time, encourage and help students, and cultivate students' ability to judge the value of frustration and tolerance. Let students grow up happily and thrive. They will make use of various opportunities to get in touch with their parents, provide timely parenting suggestions and methods, and work together for the students' future.
(3) Teachers should understand human nature: they should understand students' feelings, reactions and voices.
(d) Teachers should be more caring and encouraging.
(5) Teachers should be professional, and their professionalism is manifested in their understanding of the country, society, schools, students, teachers and parents.
Second, the teacher's "no":
(1) Teachers should not think that this industry is an iron rice bowl! If you can't break it, you should cherish the feathers.
(2) Teachers should not reprimand and indoctrinate students or force them to study.
(3) Teachers should not dream of "education is omnipotent". Education is neither omnipotent nor specific, and it has its limitations.
(D) Teachers should not be too obsessed with "immediate", pay attention to the subtle process, pay attention to the cultivation of personality and the guidance of physical and mental health.
(5) Teachers should not be pessimistic, be optimistic and be full of hopes and ideals.
Inspire:
(A) care more about students, love education, only good memories.
(2) Stick to your post, work silently and go all out.
(3) Experience of learning organization: 1, systematic thinking 2, self-improvement 3, mental model improvement 4, team learning.
(d) In the era of knowledge economy, teachers should make continuous progress, actively study, gain more new experiences and carry out teaching work.
(5) Teachers' professional growth * moral cultivation, the practice of teachers' professional autonomy must be implemented in education, in the teaching of various subjects, and in daily life education, in order to receive the effect of setting an example.
In the education of love, I found love and love education.
Teachers' reflection on the education of love II. I finished the Education of Love in one breath. This is a book that washes the soul. It seems that what attracts me is not how high its literary value is, but the almost perfect love between parents and children, the affection between teachers and students, the friendship between friends and the love of serving the country reflected in ordinary and delicate writing ... The ordinary characters in Education of Love: masons, charcoal sellers, my father's teachers, blacksmith's sons, blind children, etc. , still emerge in front of my eyes. Education of Love tells 100 stories related to children in the simplest language: chimney sweeper, poor man, vanity, gratitude, jealousy, quarrel, farewell, etc. And sang the innocent feelings that children should have. At the same time, the book also reveals that families, schools and the whole society are creating a good environment, imperceptibly cultivating and shaping children's feelings of loving the motherland and the people.
The Education of Love touched me, and also caused me to think about love.
First of all, the topic "Education of Love" made me think, what is love in this flying world? How powerful is it that people would rather ruin their lives in order to save their love? With this question, I traveled long distances with this Italian pupil to find an unknown answer. The diary of a fourth-grade pupil for ten months in a school year contains the love between classmates, brothers and sisters, children and parents, teachers and students, and the love for the motherland. These are all read, just like growing up in the arms of love. In the process, I found the answer. Although it is not as special as expected, it really makes people feel warm. Love is more precious than pearls, sweeter than candy and brighter than stars. Love is a feeling, a feeling that makes people happy. Everyone wants it but money can't buy it. Love can turn hatred into courage in your heart. It makes you face life with a smile, and makes you stubbornly resist fate. It is a kind of fairy grass that revives the soul and gives new life to sinners. It is the loving mother who calls the prodigal son back. This is both a gain and a sacrifice. However, a hard work and a harvest, fate will not let you pay in vain, it will use the most precious love in the world to repay your life, how to love. On the move, around, because we can't see, we often ignore it. But we can't live without it. In fact, its meaning has been integrated into life and become an inseparable part of life. Just like the love between parents and children, it is so ordinary, but many people don't feel it. Amway bought a diary that my parents and I read and wrote together. Now many students still have a small lock hanging on their diaries. Why? I was thinking. The simplest things are often the most easily overlooked. Isn't it that human beings are so great that they are accustomed to the most common family ties in the world? The book "Education of Love" describes a group of young people who are full of energy, actively demanding progress and as bright as the sun. Some of them are poor, some are disabled, and of course some are bathed in happiness. They are very different from their origins to their personalities, but they all have one thing in common-their love for their motherland Italy and their sincere feelings for their relatives and friends. This is incomparable to us and enviable. What can't be ignored here is the "spiritual words" that the teacher reads to those teenagers every month. These short stories not only cultivated the characters in the book, but also shocked me as a foreign reader with the strong feelings reflected in them, which caused me deep meditation. In the face of current education, love should be the source of educational strength and the foundation of educational success, rather than making excuses for children's mistakes. But why do parents still love their children? When you are enthusiastic, no matter how long it will last, this feeling has been sublimated into a kind of love, a kind of love for life. After reading Education of Love, I walked into Enrico's life and witnessed how they studied, lived and fell in love. Moved, I found that love contains the pursuit of life, and at the same time, this mood also turned the hatred I encountered on the road of growth into the courage to overcome difficulties. This is my windfall.
Sometimes, when we encounter setbacks, we often complain, as if the whole world is against us, and even complain that no one in this world loves us. Some people who want to be more pessimistic will commit suicide and protest. So sad! There is a saying: "The greatest happiness in the world is to firmly believe that someone loves us." In fact, if we can calm down and savor everything around us, we will find that there are so many people who love me, love me and help me in this world. How happy I am! When you can feel that ordinary love, I believe you will not hesitate to give your love to some people in need. Is it a gift from a rose, with a lingering fragrance in your hand? In the education of love, love is compared to many things, which is true but not just these. "What is love?" I don't think there will be a clear answer. But I know that "love" is endless. It's as small as a smile from a casual acquaintance … as big as donating bone marrow, blood and helping the Hope Project … Although love like air is sometimes "polluted" or even "disappeared", it's all worth cherishing. So I hope more people can feel deep love in simple language. I think this good novel will bring this wonderful feeling to more people.
Clouds floating into my life from other years no longer shed raindrops or blow snowflakes, but only shed the color of love that is integrated with nature on my blue sky. The wind of the four seasons blows the wind chimes of the years, playing charming love songs, like a meteor across the sky, like a pure lyric poem, a quiet serenade, rippling in my heart. I thank God for turning me into a person and giving me a chance to experience the life of love. My friends, please dedicate yourself to the whole world with a holy love. You will find that as long as everyone gives a little love, the world will become a better tomorrow. Please take the boat of "Love" and finish your love life.
Teachers' Reflections on the Education of Love (3) I have heard about this book for a long time, but I haven't had time to sit down and read it carefully. Another summer vacation, although I spent more time taking care of my children, I still insisted on reading this book, because I think this book should be a useful educational classic for parents, teachers and children.
The Education of Love was written by the famous Italian writer Armitage. In the form of a diary, writing down children's lives and thoughts in their tone and brush strokes looks very real and intimate. The whole novel, without grandiloquence, only uses simple and plain language to create a seemingly unremarkable but actually extraordinary character image, which is natural and vivid and has strong artistic appeal. For example, a woman who sells vegetables, firewood, the son of a blacksmith, the son of an old mason, the son of a charcoal seller, a young drummer, a teacher of his father, a teacher who attends classes despite illness, and so on. These ordinary and simple little people have one thing in common: they are full of love for life and dedication to others. Because of their love, my world has become a better place.
Reading "Education of Love", I have a lot of thoughts; Close the "Education of Love", and my heart is surging. "What is love?" This question has been lingering in my mind. Love is an eternal topic of human beings and the most basic emotion of human beings. In education, love is the soul and life of education. The education of loving children is the key and basic requirement of education. Love needs education, and education also needs love. Education of Love doesn't have much space to describe teachers and students, but it is so exquisite that people can't leave. The article Death of a Lady left a deep impression on me. She makes me feel great as an ordinary teacher. Teachers are not only teachers, but also parents and psychologists of students. Teaching him to be a man affects the goal, direction and quality of students' growth, instilling and reforming students. At the memorial service for the death of the female gentleman, the students shed tears in succession, which shows that the children are very concerned and revered for the female gentleman. At the same time, I am proud of being a teacher.
Looking back on their own education and teaching work, sometimes children who are disobedient in class can't help but criticize severely, but the effect is not very good, and sometimes it is counterproductive. Because children have thoughts and ideas, as teachers, in order to make students obedient, we must first walk into them, get to know them, communicate with them, have a heart-to-heart talk, bring the distance between teachers and students closer with a sincere love, truly understand the needs of students, choose appropriate teaching methods, and make students interested in what they have learned. This will get twice the result with half the effort. Education is the cause of love. A sense of responsibility is not enough. We need teachers to care for every student, and at the same time, we should teach students to learn to love: love themselves, love their families, love their friends, and love all those who need love!
However, under the guidance of the baton of the college entrance examination, the current school education is more about the pursuit of exam results, more about the one-sided emphasis on the enrollment rate and the neglect of the cultivation of students' good character, and there is the idea that "everything will be fine if you study hard". However, the book "Education of Love" sounded the alarm for us. Children need not only grades, but also the virtue of love, which we can't wait to teach them. As educators, rejecting indifference and spreading love is not only our responsibility to ourselves, but also our responsibility to the educated and society. Let us, with simple care, bring this well in our hearts to the children walking in the desert, bring them safety and security, bring them spiritual infiltration and the source of life.
Confucius, a great writer in China, once said, "The benevolent loves others." A person with a kind heart must first have a good love. Friends, let's learn from Caron and Roberti, give more love, open people's hearts with the key of love, and then the sun will shine in every corner of the world!
Teachers' reflection on the education of love. The Education of Love was written by the Italian writer Armitage. In the name of a primary school student, the author tells short stories in the form of diaries, integrates "love education" into these stories, and cultivates the thoughts and sentiments of the younger generation.
Enrico, the hero of the book, is a little boy in the fourth grade of primary school. He grew up in a family full of love and trust. He is an optimistic and enterprising boy with pure nature and keen observation. His healthy growth is closely related to the sincere and generous interpersonal love described in the book.
Tagore once said, "Love is an eternal beacon. It watched the storm intently, but was indifferent. Love is a full life, just like a cup full of wine. "
what is love ? I think "love" is a feeling, a belief, a pursuit, and it is true ... Words can't describe the definition of love, but I know that those who love and give love will live a full life without regrets.
All kinds of human emotions mentioned in the book can shock people. Patriotism, how many of us really love our dear motherland? You may say to me, "Don't lecture me." Don't we think this is how chilling indifference! Patriotic Youth gave us an extremely shocking lesson. It tells the story of a ragged boy who returned to his hometown of Genoa, Italy by boat from Barcelona. Many hypocritical people on the road gave him a lot of money to show off, and several of them even satirized the people in the juvenile country: "inferior citizens, robbers." The angry teenager angrily threw these coins at the head of the person who gave him the money and solemnly shouted, "I don't want anything from those who say that my country is not good."
And friendship. The friendship between classmates is the guardian who always accompanies us to grow, live and study. How many people ignore its existence! The crying between Enrico, the hero of the book, and his companions is the most sincere friendship. Not without us, but it can impress a few of us. Nelly with hunchback and Roberti with crutches, if they appear in our real life, I don't think I will help them wholeheartedly. The values of adults have already penetrated into our hearts. We often hear parents say to their children, "So-and-so's grades are so poor, you should play with him less." "You see, XXX's homework is so good, you should make more friends with her." These are more or less utilitarian, devouring our pure friendship, making us less naive and more calculating. All this is because of indifference, indifference to innocence.
Of course, what excites me most in the book is the affection between parents and children, and the children's attachment and love for their parents. In the meantime, a pair of children heard that their parents' business was frustrated and took the initiative to ask their mother to give up future gifts, even in terms of diet. The father heard everything. The next day, the parents bought presents and quietly put them under the sleeping child's pillow.
The love described in The Education of Love, such as the love between parents and children, the affection between teachers and students, the friendship between friends, and the love between hometown and country, is almost perfect and makes people linger. As Mr. Xia Gaizun said in his translation of The Education of Love, "An education without emotion and love is like a pond without water. Without water, there is no pond, without love, there is no education. "
Let's work together and forge ahead towards the same goal!
After reading The Education of Love, the teacher finished the diary novel The Education of Love by Italian writer Armitage, and was deeply moved by the extraordinary ideological quality of ordinary people in the novel. This novel has no lofty aspirations or hypocritical preaching, but through a simple description of life, people feel the most fundamental thing-love.
What is love in education? After reading The Education of Love, I have a deeper understanding of it. In the education of love, love is compared to many things, which is true and not just these. I don't think there is a clear answer to "what is love", but I know that "love" is infinite, ranging from friendly conversation between classmates to encouragement from teachers to meticulous care from parents to children, even a smile from people who meet by chance ... donating bone marrow, donating blood and helping the Hope Project ... Teacher love is a persistent, dedication and ultimate responsibility. Love can build a bridge between teachers and students; Love can talk in the spring breeze and rain and water every student; Love can edify and shock students' hearts, stimulate their self-confidence and curiosity, cultivate their good emotional quality, and make them devote themselves to their studies. Yes, the intimate and harmonious relationship between teachers and students and the influence of beloved teachers on themselves are often unforgettable. I think the effect of Rosenthal experiment is the result of love. Love is sacred, and teachers love greatness!
Teachers' love is sunshine and rain, and students are flower seedlings. Love for students should shine on the earth like sunshine, treat students equally and lean towards some students who lack love. Teacher Li Zhenxi also said in the book Love and Education that "teachers should pay more attention to those students who have no love at all. The disadvantaged groups are unfortunate, because they have been under great psychological pressure for a long time, and it is difficult for them to have a healthy, happy, confident and upward spiritual life. If we can give them health, happiness, self-confidence and progress, what a good education! " Yes, "love" is just a word, but it is easier said than done. It needs sincere dedication. If you love students hypocritically for a certain benefit, it will be counterproductive and even distort the formation of students' healthy personality once the goal is achieved. I think love plays an important role in a person's character, a person's background, a person's responsibility to society and a person's future growth.
If the whole classroom is compared to a river bed, then the teacher's love is the most dazzling, brilliant and moving wave floating on the whole river bed, and it is the tide full of life in the sea. "Love is the most beautiful language of human beings, and love is selfless dedication" explains the connotation of love. Educator Mr. Tao Xingzhi's idea of "holding a heart without half a blade of grass" and running education with "loving the whole world" is not a kind of dedication to love? ! Education cannot be regarded as education without love; A teacher without love is not a competent teacher. Love is the basic psychological demand of students, the driving force for their growth and development, and the creative cohesion of life.
There is love in education, which helps students stretch and surge their individual lives. As Mr. Xia Gaizun said in his translation of The Education of Love, "An education without emotion and love is like a pond without water. Without water, there is no pond, without love, there is no education. " Love is a never-ending journey. It will be easy to walk and watch along the way, and every day will be enriched by understanding and learning new things. So, I just want to keep going, even devote myself to it, no matter how long it will last. May our teachers have endless love in their hearts and love the campus!
I recommend it carefully.