A child in primary school is doing sentence-making exercises. When he made a sentence with "mother", he wrote: My mother is like a grumpy tiger. The mother saw this sentence, controlled her emotions, and then asked the child to change it to a more reasonable answer. For example, my mother is like a princess, gentle, generous and beautiful. But the child answered very seriously: the teacher asked me to make sentences, not to make rumors! Mom was speechless after listening.
Disadvantages of growling parenting
First of all, children misunderstand the correct way of communication between people. Yelling will become a necessary way for children to communicate with others, and yelling with people will become a normal state. Obviously, this kind of communication will only make children lose friends and opportunities.
Secondly, peaceful communication in parents' environment is no longer the norm. If children are not noisy, they may not be used to it, and the communication between family members becomes the norm, without warmth; Third, the family atmosphere has become tense, the home is no longer a warm place, and children's mental health is getting worse and worse.
When a child makes a mistake, parents can take the following four ways to deal with it:
1, cold treatment, when the child makes a mistake, parents should calm down and think about the reasons for the child's mistake. In addition to principled mistakes, children make other mistakes and deal with them resolutely immediately, and try to solve them by parent-child communication.
2, set rules, everything without rules can't be Fiona Fang, the correct way of scientific parenting is to talk about rules. In the process of parenting, parents need to set rules for their children from an early age, and parents should strictly enforce them. After a long time, children can easily form good habits.
3, divert attention, when parents are in a bad mood, try not to participate in the parenting process, do something else, turn your attention to other things you are interested in, and adjust your emotions first.
4. Reflecting on one's mistakes requires the courage of parents, the ability to admit one's own shortcomings, and heartfelt reflection.