On the contrary, a plain-looking person with a plain career can marry a good man.
Many girls don't understand. I am better than her in every way. Why am I having a bad time? In fact, it has nothing to do with a good life, but people have done these three things.
0 1. Know how to be gentle
Gentleness is an important part of men's concept of mate selection. Gentleness is a rare good quality in a woman's character. Although a man is a visual animal, if he can only choose between beauty and gentleness, it must be gentleness.
Those women with average looks and poor careers know that they are not as good as beautiful women and that they have no external capital, but they are good at observing and discovering.
Those women who are beautiful and have good careers have a big temper. Because they are excellent and have no worries about the opposite sex, people have the capital to lose their temper willfully.
And those excellent men are already excellent. Women who don't want to accompany them are as powerful as themselves, but they need a gentle and lovely woman to accompany them.
Because every man wants to be worshipped by women, in order to stimulate his desire for protection and make himself feel needed by the beloved woman, the sense of existence will always inspire them to love that gentle woman.
Therefore, a gentle woman can capture a man's heart better, while a beautiful woman with a successful career, without this, a good man will naturally take a detour.
02. Know how to show weakness
Weakness is not weakness, but knowing how to tolerate and tolerate in time, giving each other enough understanding and showing their bottom line and principles at critical moments.
Most women who are beautiful and have a good career have strong personalities and a kind of self-confidence in their bones, so they will show it inadvertently when they get along with men, and they are very independent and can handle everything by themselves.
In men's eyes, this is not to reassure them, but to make them useless and cut off men's desire for conquest and possession.
And those women who are ordinary in appearance and career know how to show weakness in front of men and give them face for some unimportant things. Even if the other party is not doing well or doing wrong, they give comfort and encouragement, or pretend not to know when they know that the other party is bragging.
Doing so greatly increases men's confidence in this relationship, so that men will cherish such a woman.
A woman who knows how to show weakness makes men feel deeply concerned and distressed. They are more willing to pay and guard for such women, and those women with beautiful careers and careers, if they don't know this, will only make men afraid.
03. Know how to keep the mystery.
A woman with a sense of mystery is like a maze, which sometimes makes men unpredictable and sometimes gives them some sweetness, while a man is like a kite in her hand, flying high and far, all controlled by the thread in her hand.
Some women say that when they meet a man for the first time, every woman knows how to remain mysterious. When they fall in love with this man, there will naturally be no mystery.
Actually, it's not. Their so-called new contact can keep the mystery, which is their self-protection of distrust. It's not mysterious. Then there is no mystery in itself, so how can there be no mystery in nature?
A woman with a beautiful career always gives men a cold, inaccessible and invincible feeling, thinking that this is a mystery, but it is actually just a line of defense. Once broken, it will become a brain-loving, silly pay.
So we often see some beautiful women who can make money, but they are married to a man who doesn't know how to make progress and is a playboy.
And those women who are ordinary in appearance and career know that they can't be evenly matched with men in appearance and career, so they should work hard on their feelings.
Anything you want, you have to work hard to get it, and so does a relationship. If you want to capture the heart of the man you love, you must remain mysterious.
They don't tell men everything about themselves, because they know that everyone will be curious about the unknown and let the other person know their personality, preferences and what they are good at.
Men will be willing to explore this mysterious woman with the mentality of exploring novelty.
They like each other, but they don't show it easily, giving men a feeling of closeness and uncertainty, but at critical moments, they can also make men feel that women love them.
Although she looks average, she will not be sloppy, but she will still dress herself elegantly. They know how to dress up with three points in appearance and seven points in appearance, and they should also pay attention to the external image while improving internally.
Therefore, although their looks and careers are not as good as those of beautiful women, they know how to grasp men's psychology, grasp high-quality men, and of course they will marry excellent men.