Giving a doctor a red envelope is a stupid move, giving a doctor a red envelope is far better than giving a doctor respect.
As a common people, I hate to ask people to send red packets to others; as a doctor, I can also understand the patients hate to send red packets to doctors.
I just started working at that time, there are still some people are willing to give the doctor to send red packets, there are also some doctors will accept the patient's red packets. However, to this day I rarely see any doctors accepting red packets anymore. Of all the industries, the medical industry should be the first to stop accepting red packets.
---- They are from the heart of love ----
A major hospital, a professor received a patient's family before the operation of the red envelope, the professor pushed again and again. The family insisted on giving and said the professor received a red envelope they will be at ease. In order to take care of the family's emotions, the professor accepted the red envelope. The surgery was perfect. When the professor got off the operating table, he was greeted by colleagues from the hospital's medical department and disciplinary committee. It turned out that the family went to the hospital during the operation to report that the professor had accepted the red packet. The family members even took pictures of the number of each piece of money. In the end, the professor was dumbfounded. This story tells all the young doctors, the professor can not handle red packets, you young people dare to accept red packets.
---- Just to be responsible ----
So does giving red packets really make doctors more responsible? Is it better for patients? The answer is no.
Regardless of whether or not you give the red packet, the doctor is 100% trying to make the surgery perfect. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new computer, and then you'll be able to get your hands on a new computer, and then you'll be able to get your hands on a new computer. However, when the surgery is difficult or there is an unexpected situation, the red envelope will undoubtedly become a bomb to hurt the patient. Because in this case the doctor must first ensure the safety, some not so good risk will not be attempted. If something happens to the patient during the surgery, the red envelope in the doctor's hand may be the bomb that injures the doctor, and at this time the doctor's state of mind will fluctuate greatly, which will affect the degree of concentration during the surgery. You if you love your family, try not to send red packets.
--- This is not acting, take the red envelope can not do so ---
In fact, to teach you a simple way to communicate with the doctor .
If you want the doctor to be more attentive and enthusiastic about the patient, then you have to do the most two things - trust the doctor and respect the doctor. Suspicion of the doctor brings only when the doctor is more careful to protect themselves. So those family members with audio and video recorders will only let the doctor use the most conservative treatment to treat the head hangs a knife, who can work in peace .
There are good doctors we really did not touch, the doctor dared to play with me to block the station out, I dare to say that I dare to take responsibility, I am not only but the harm, I also have the evidence, I am a decades old patient, often hospitalized to see too much too much, some of that damage to the Yin Shande doctor looked to the individual in fact, he was already a human face, the kind of greed I wan written on his face, when he got your money later, just like a dog at your beck and call, and then he would not be able to get the money. When he got your money, like a dog at your beck and call, every day after work the first run to your bedside cheeky ask this ask that, did not give money, in the heavy patients he even look at a glance do not look at, you want to ask a question he only with the nose grunt you, and even pull a long face to give you a look, not the same treatment of fools can see out, give money to the people who do not pay money to say alas they spend less it, I give him an engineering fee, early well early day discharge what all have, in fact his Medical ethics has been sold by him, he can give the patient a good look at the disease, can't his heart early to be surrounded by money, God is watching it, sooner or later one day he should be, because he is not charging a patient's money.
I am a doctor, and I have been a family member of a patient. The first time I saw this, I was in the middle of a long journey, and it was a long time ago that I was in the middle of a long journey, and it was a long time ago that I was in the middle of a long journey. A surgeon on the operating table are dedicated to very responsible to complete the operation, who will not because the family did not send red packets on the sloppy and hasty to take the patient's life, but also to take their own career joke! Our family has a loved one hospitalized in surgery, Shanghai hospital urology department, medical staff refused to accept red packets, we have other patients in the same ward did not send red packets, medical staff did not send gifts because we are not serious about treatment and care. Objectively speaking medical personnel to receive red packets of bad customs or have. Eat people's mouth is soft, take people's hands short. The patient seized the human nature of this weakness, sent a red envelope hope that the medical staff to give themselves a little convenience.
Society As soon as we talked about sending red packets, the spearhead was directed at the medical profession, but in fact, the education sector is even more terrible. Nowadays, parents will do anything for the next generation. My baby, from kindergarten to send red envelopes until junior high school, even the kindergarten meal aunt had to send. However, there are good teachers who are clean and self-loving, the Shanghai Experimental Primary School's Mr. Guo, my family sent gifts to the door many times she refused, worthy of the people's good teachers!
I don't want red envelopes, and I sincerely advise patients not to stuff red envelopes. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new pair of shoes or boots, and then you'll be able to get your hands on a new pair of shoes or boots. The doctor will have a big psychological burden if he receives the red packet, but it is not good for his work. If you really want to give the doctor more encouragement, more trust. I remember about 10 years ago, a double holiday rain, my emergency duty, an old patient about 70 years old, beforehand has inquired about my duty day, this day accompanied by his daughter umbrella to the hospital, sent a packet of noodles, two eggs, said to me, today is my birthday, thank you for the doctor usually for me to the clinic. I was so touched by the simple language that I was even happier than receiving a red envelope. About three years ago, I retired two months ago, some patients have inquired about this matter, an 80-year-old couple, inquired about my home, for several days in the morning at seven o'clock in front of the neighborhood waiting for me to go out, one day finally waited, pulling my hand, to send a gift, a long-handled umbrella, I said the sun is so big, I take the umbrella do not be laughed at, the old man said, a little bit of thought, we will meet less, I hope the umbrella can protect you from the wind and the rain. I hope the umbrella can protect you from the wind and rain. Unfortunately, I never met this old couple on the road again. Whenever I see an umbrella, I think of the kind old man, I wonder if they are okay. Doctors and patients with long-term contact, is that people always have feelings, when you are sick and helpless, please believe that there is a doctor's help and support is selfless.
My eldest daughter is six years old, and my youngest son is two and a half years old. When they came to earth, they were received by the obstetricians and midwives at the People's Hospital.
We didn't know any of the doctors or midwives there, and we didn't look for anyone we knew to say hello to. When we stayed in the ward to wait for the birth, I tried to talk to the doctors and nurses there easily, and occasionally made a chic joke, we all feel very pleasant. After the baby was born. I quietly gave them a small red packet according to the unspoken rules. When I went to check out of the hospital, I suddenly realized that there was more money in the pre-deposit, which was just as much as the small red envelope.
Medical care is a sacred and solemn profession, but doctors are all mortals. Mortals often have good thoughts in their hearts compassionate, but they also love money, and occasionally their hearts will produce some untimely evil thoughts. Mortals definitely have favorites and dislikes, so effective communication is more important than red herrings.
So, how should we communicate effectively with doctors when visiting them? Give them a good impression is enough, a sense of sincerity, sense of positive value, sense of cultivation, sense of ease and sense of humor is the secret weapon of effective communication. When you go to the doctor, the patient and the patient's family should not pretend, do not nag, and do not blow the hair to seek fart on the doctor to pick and choose, if you commit these three, even if you give the red packet may also get the doctor's 'another look'.
The first thing you need to know is that you're not going to be able to get your hands dirty. I'll be very responsible and tell you that every time I'm stuffed with red packets I say "if you do that again, I'll get someone else to do it for you". Often when I throw that out, the patient will stop. Of course, I have also encountered a few, have followed you to the operating room, do not plug the success of the will not stop, encountered this, my way of dealing with is to turn over to the head nurse, and then through the hospital level back to the patient. So many people will ask, you do not accept is not to do surgery will do it at will? In fact, we can rest assured that you give or not really is the same.
Although the doctor is not a high-income group, but is definitely a family, but also can live a very decent career. Therefore, the family does not plug the red envelope for the operation is no effect, the doctor will not because you did not give the red envelope and irresponsible to you. On the contrary, it is that you gave the red envelope, the doctor will not be particularly attentive to you.
It is undeniable that there are some doctors in some areas who are receiving red packets, but they are in the minority. Moreover, we will find that often there are medical errors, medical malpractice patients are those who gave the red envelope. Why? Because it will affect the mentality of doctors.
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This is no doubt, I worked in the hospital, as long as you go to the regular three hospitals, no matter which patient's surgery, as long as into the operating room, the doctor will do their best to give you the best possible, this kind of thing is not to send or not to send a gift of the reasons for not doing a good job out of the problem will be a very troubling disputes, belonging to the The medical malpractice, who do not want to stall, and the hospital is regulated
Now the regular tertiary hospital doctors basically do not dare to accept the red packets, the hospital supervision is very strict, the outside world also have supervision, the main knife are the director, there is no need for that a little bit of money to take risks
Once in the eicu, the morning there is a patient is very serious, the director and a few attending a lot of effort to move the veins, the catheter through the good, the patient was not able to get to the hospital. Catheter wear good, the patient resuscitated back, the afternoon family said to give up the treatment, let the director angry, so hard to pull back, all kinds of catheter placement, the family did not save, in fact, there is a chance to save back. So every patient as long as the hospital, do not give the doctor mess, the doctor will try to save, otherwise how would there be so many night shift busy night doctors.
But the medication and equipment may be different (you know)
You think that this doctor only rely on you to achieve the title of this surgery ah? I am a person who never gives red envelopes, not in the workplace, not in the hospital, not in school, not given, not received! Once an inquiring parents to my home, the next meeting privately back to her, there is another at the bus stop, stuffed to me, but also said quickly, I have to cooperate with ...... There are also phone calls said to send fish, or invited to drink coffee ...... Reply: As the saying goes, take the people's hands soft, eat the If you really want to be good to your child, let me not eat or take. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good deal on this, but I'm sure you're going to be able to get a good deal on this," he said. This social habits, is to send red packets of their own wishful thinking whole up, the front door does not go, thinking of going through the back door, the surgeon's technology is more than ten years of cold windows plus professional accumulation, the teacher's level of instruction is the same, you think your red packets are very technical and academic content?
Seeing this problem really feel very horrible, belonging to think of all the horrible kind, and now make the doctor-patient relationship so stiff? First of all, not to mention other, talk about our hospital, a common three A, expressly prohibited to receive red packets, and our hospital doctors do not say that the receipt of red packets, that is, the patient to give a fruit to push again and again, I practiced to the present have not seen a doctor dare to receive red packets! The second point is respect. In fact, the doctor's favorite is the patient's trust and respect, you give the red envelope as you trust him occasionally give some encouragement This will make the doctor for you "worried about" but also very happy! It works better than anything else. I remember once a patient with a mop in the downstairs wrote a word of thanks, our general practitioners, including the director of a long time and a long time happy, every time I mention it is incredibly happy, I think this is the best way to do it, if you do not feel comfortable with the operation and so on, want to bring the relationship with the doctor closer, encouragement and trust is more useful than anything else