How much love can start over, how many people are worth waiting for, very often, when we are in the prime of life or smooth sailing, we often never understand our own inner world, and often do not cherish the people around us, and even more do not love themselves, in the Ling Zhijun's "Handbook of Rebirth," I almost read it down in one breath, as a nurse, I am y As a nurse, I was y moved, shocked, and helpless at the same time, this is a cancer patient from the desperate situation to the gradual recovery of the biography, but also a famous reporter on today's Chinese cancer health care system of all kinds of pros and cons of the observation and analysis, but also a full of wisdom, courage and optimism of the life of the inspirational book, but I think this miracle of survival, in addition to his firmness and wisdom, but also his relatives and friends behind him, especially his wife's invisible love and the power of not giving up. But I think this miracle survival, in addition to his determination and wisdom, there is also the invisible love of his family and friends behind him, especially his wife, and the power of not giving up, so that he had the opportunity to take his life once more, and to have the time to look at himself, to know himself, to love himself, and to realize that "many cancer patients do not die of their own disease, but die of their own fear and wrong treatment", and to become a modern cancer survivor in China. "Bringing Hope".
The book briefly describes how in 2007, Ling Zhijun was diagnosed with "lung cancer with brain metastasis", i.e. "advanced lung cancer". In a consultation with famous doctors in Beijing and Shanghai, it was almost unanimously decided that he would not live for more than three months. He and his family were plunged into unprecedented fear. Is there really no way out? The first time I saw him was when he was in the hospital. Surgery, internal medicine, traditional Chinese medicine, "Imperial Doctor", respectively, gave a very different treatment plan. To operate or not to operate? Should I do chemotherapy? What kind of doctor should I trust? Should special drugs be used? Who should I trust with my life? In the end, he adjusted his mindset, actively collected medical information, and screened for authenticity. He carefully observed the successes and failures of doctors and patients, and finally chose the best treatment plan and walked out of the road to recovery that suited him. After five years, he has not only survived, but also lived a healthier and healthier life. He truly recognizes that cancer is not a terminal disease, as long as not fear, not blindly follow, do not go on the wrong road of treatment, cancer patients have more opportunities to live.
This book, in the patient, can get strength from this book, after all, this is still a talk about cancer, cancer is equal to a terminal disease, cancer diagnosis is equal to pronounce the death sentence, has been y rooted in the hearts of everyone, everyone has a heart can not swing the fear, are afraid of not knowing which day their body's cancer cells on the victory over the normal cells, and then the cancer cells put its head high, looking down at your fear, looking at your sadness, looking at your helplessness ..... If a person has cancer, it is equivalent to, you are at war with yourself, the cancer cells win, you die, the normal cells win, you live, to put it bluntly, in fact, it is a long-term confrontation between yourself and your own body and mind. This book, a lot of methods and experiences, including psychological, can be used as a reference, to become inspired, to gain strength, "Cancer is not a terminal disease, but only a chronic disease," derived from the understanding of the guided method, i.e., the effect of naturopathic treatment. For the guide method, there is no quick method for chronic disease, but there is a clever method: open the door and beat the dog, give the cancer a way out, and it is divided into four steps, i.e., "controlling the disease, surviving with the tumor, disappearing the clinical symptoms, and recovering from the disease"; it is also the embodiment of humanization of elimination of cancer: "truncating the course of the disease, alleviating the pain, taking care of oneself in life, and having the dignity in death". "As there are fewer harms and more benefits, the treatment of lung cancer, the double champion of all cancers, has been proven to be effective, but there are no one at the door, why? People do not seek for life! In fact, people are able to survive with cancer cells ****, when you can know yourself well enough, love yourself, love others, when you are no longer for the child's poor grades and angry, when you no longer for the nagging of the loved ones around the grudges of annoyance, when you are no longer in order to their own failures and blaming themselves, when you know that you are the child's backbone, you are the continuation of the parents, you are the loved ones of the harbor ..... Maybe, the cancer cells are far away from you, love is an invisible amount, love is a miracle.
This book, in the health care workers, re-read the original "Hippocratic Oath" - I volunteer to pure and holy spirit of lifelong practice of medicine ...... no matter what to the Wherever I go, and whether the patients to be treated are men or women, free people or slave girls, I treat them the same, for their happiness is my only purpose ...... "wrong treatment", the doctor is the key. This book strongly criticizes the indifference of some extremely "authoritative" doctors and some nurses. The author has been in the crowded, chaotic and busy hospitals countless times, observing the patients, the doctors, and also the environment and facilities of the hospitals. He saw patients from all over the country, who crowded into the buildings with the signboard of "tumor clinic" at the same time every day, with their faces full of anxiety and despair; he saw those specialists in white coats, each of them possessing a large number of titles, who paid only a few minutes of their time after charging the patients a few hundred dollars of registration fees; he saw the shiny medical equipments, the doctors and nurses, and the hospital's environment and facilities. He saw all the shiny medical equipment upstairs and downstairs, and was told that it was the most advanced and expensive in the world; he saw the so-called "newest and best special effect drugs" coming out almost every week, and the so-called "combination of traditional Chinese and Western medicines" with its unique advantages! ...... As a nurse, I can't help but ask myself if this is true. I can't deny that the author has observed hospitals and doctors and nurses in great detail, and we do have inadequacies. I also can't deny that some doctors are not professional enough in certain aspects, because many of us are only specialists rather than general practitioners, and we may not be so familiar with specialties other than ours, and indeed, some famous doctors will only take a few minutes to see a patient after charging an expensive registration fee. This is a fact, but how many patients are waiting for these famous doctors to see, do you know? They may have been waiting in line for several days and have yet to be seen! Therefore, I would like to say is that no one is perfect, no doctor is perfect, I believe that most of the medical staff are a healer's heart, all want to patients to recover, and all have a wealth of clinical knowledge, not to mention "hanging sheep's head, selling dog meat," unscrupulous doctors, to save lives and help the injured is the vocation, as for our nurses, in addition to injections and medication, we are also the implementation of the overall care, you can see that we have a lot of patients waiting for the famous doctors to see, you know? As for us nurses, in addition to injecting medication, we also implement the overall care, you can see our faces are smiling, our hearts are hot, we are constantly learning outside of work, constantly taking exams, in order to make more able to enrich their knowledge and use it to the patient's body, as for the advanced equipment and instruments, I think it is necessary to keep pace with the times, although the price is a little more expensive, but the accuracy of the test is much higher, and also more time-saving, there are a lot of things can afford to wait, consume the time, and also to save time, life! There are a lot of things in life can afford to wait, consume, but only time and life.
? The author of the book also mentions something that can be followed by cancer patients *** with them, and that is - ? Must have enough strength to accept those who should accept the treatment; Must have enough courage to reject those who should not accept the treatment; Must have enough wisdom to distinguish what should be accepted, which is not to be accepted; need to know, when to meet the death calmly, when to look for the road to recovery, death is certainly honorable and admirable, knocking on the door of recovery, but more difficult and more valuable. It takes not only courage, but also wisdom to open the door to recovery, which may not be possible for everyone. This may not be everyone can do, tomorrow and the accident, who does not know which comes first, a person's life, destined to go through a lot, a road, Lang Lang laughter, aggrieved tears, ignorance of the persistence of the confusing trade-offs, failure to wake up ...... Every experience is precious, it will make you remember the wisdom, the abundance of life lies in the heart of compassion, the beauty of life is due to an ordinary heart.
? For the wise, old age, sickness and death is not so difficult, the difficulty is that even if life and death as one, want to live the heart is still so jumpy, so natural, so eager, care about the loved ones to get together more than one day is a day, I'm afraid that this is the instinct of the people, not to cultivate. Ling Zhijun with a reporter's eyes, insight into his own ward and the chronic disease of China's medical profession, the disease seems to have become a riddle in him, rather than a magic spell, much less a threat. In the end, he delivered, in his own and his family's efforts and persistence together, accompanied by love and loving care, tasted all sorts of ways, and even did not listen to the doctor, and finally defeated cancer, and even the more you live, the healthier you are, I think the significance of this book is: your attitude towards life and death, determines the distance between you and death; your wisdom on life and death, determines your power to control life; your interpretation of love and The meaning of this book is: your attitude towards life and death determines the distance between you and death; your wisdom towards life and death determines your power to control life; your interpretation of love and desire determines whether you are in heaven.
With love to live, love yourself, love others, do not love, do not complain, the heart frank, life, there is bittersweet; life, there are ups and downs, learn to wave the sleeve calmly, warm smile without death. Despair is greater than the terminal illness, life in the world, there are always some empty city old things, the years have not been centered; there are always some seasons, a season of flowers cool, full of sadness. Many things, look away, it will be peaks and valleys; many dreams, look down, it will be clouds and sunrise; many cancers, see through, it will be extinct, learn to think, learn to treasure, smile and comprehend, silently strong.
Emergency Department: Yang Ludan March 2016