As the destroyer of "perfect" marriage, Lin Youyou is undoubtedly the most controversial one in this play.
Although Xu Huanshan repeatedly told her not to meet again, she refused to give up her job in Beijing and came to Shanghai alone.
No matter what her original intention is, destroying other people's families is unacceptable in itself.
But think about it carefully, isn't there anything wrong with Xu Huanshan?
As the saying goes, flies don't bite seamless eggs. If Xu Huanshan has strong autonomy, he will not pester Lin Youyou easily.
One of the biggest shortcomings of Xu Huanshan is that he can't carry it clearly. He didn't understand the boundary between men and women, perhaps because it was too well protected by Gu Jia, but Gu Jia always tried to contain it before he found it.
Remember the first orange in 25 yuan? When Gu Jia found out that this was given to him by Xu Huanshan's female subordinate, Li Ke, he did not hesitate to visit several supermarkets and specially bought this orange for employees, suggesting that Li Ke should not move his mind;
When he learned that Li Ke had provoked Xu Huanshan, Gu Jia decided to let Li Ke resign. All her practices are for Xu Huanshan.
But this time, Gu Jia didn't stay with Xu Huanshan, so there was Lin Youyou.
First, the incident of eating ice cream, when Lin Youyou licked the ice cream in Xu Huanshan's hand, Xu Huanshan did not express any dissatisfaction, but seemed to enjoy it;
After returning home, Lin Youyou sent him a photo of himself eating, and Xu Huanshan vaguely replied: "You are too bad."
Later, Lin Youyou resigned and came to Shanghai. He knew Dorian had his own purpose and often showed kindness to her.
After seeing Lin Youyou lose his wallet in a circle of friends, he asked him if he needed help, and even opened a hotel and rented a house for Lin Youyou.
Emotional reasoning is not what married men should do.
Perhaps, at first, Xu Huanshan did not want to have feelings with Lin Youyou, but his confusion hurt two women at the same time.
If at first he refused Lin Youyou's kindness and strictly adhered to his own boundaries, there would be no later things.
Xu Huanshan's ambiguous attitude undoubtedly gave Lin Youyou hope, so Lin Youyou would approach him at all costs.
But does Xu Huanshan really like Lin Youyou?
In my opinion, Xu Huanshan never loved her from beginning to end, nor did he want to give her any birthright. He just wants to eat her. Once Lin You infringes on his own interests, he will kick her away mercilessly.
In the latest story, Xu Huanshan finally agreed to let Lin You stay in Shanghai, rented a house near her company and paid her rent for one year.
He himself, from time to time to visit Lin Youyou, can be said to be a formal woman carrying his wife.
Even when he was on a business trip in Gu Jia, he secretly took Lin Youyou to the fireworks factory.
I don't think Xu Huanshan loves Lin. What he likes is narcissism with Lin Youyou.
Maybe Gu Jia gave it to him at first, but this relationship has long been diluted by marriage, and the appearance of Lin Youyou just made up for this deficiency.
But their feelings are limited to this.
But Lin Youyou doesn't think so. Her aim is to replace Gu Jia. Everything Xu Huanshan gave her was not enough.
In order to get close to Xu Huan, she even went downstairs to be the front desk, took the initiative to talk to Gu Jia and sent a courier to Gu Jia.
Lin Youyou's series of practices gave Xu Huanshan a sense of crisis. In order to protect himself, he did not hesitate to let Lin resign and leave, regardless of old times.
I have heard a saying that nine times out of ten men who betray their marriage are selfish.
Because they only think about themselves, they want to enjoy the happiness brought by their families and experience the sweetness brought by their lovers.
When they really face the choice, they will analyze from the perspective of maximizing interests, which choice is best for them.
It's just that Song Like lives in my humble abode. Although he has betrayed his marriage, he knows that his wife is his ultimate destination, and he will not divorce anyway.
And seaweed is just a lover to him, and no matter how much you like it, you can't be with him forever.
Living with such a man is doomed to be unhappy, because they don't love anyone, and the only person they really love is themselves.
Xu Huanshan's ending is doomed to be tragic. He didn't listen to his wife's words and deliberately left the batch of blue fireworks, which led to the explosion of the fireworks factory, the loss of the company and family, and he himself was imprisoned.
Everything is related. If he had carried it clearly and rejected Lin Youyou, he wouldn't have come this far.
Now that people and money are empty, he can't blame others. He asked for it.