Growing up, I felt that those in white coats were all angels in white, and that they were chivalrous and kind-hearted, taking treating the sick and saving the lives of others as the only criterion of their careers, but now that I've grown up, and I've made many trips to the hospitals, I've subverted this notion with disappointment after disappointment, and I don't want to blacken anyone's heart, but only want to reflect the social situation from what I've experienced.
I think a lot of the responsibility for the tension between doctors and patients lies with the doctors, or with the whole medical system.
For the average family member, it's really scary to go to the doctor. A small illness can cost you thousands of dollars, and a friend who is a doctor said that their salary is linked to the amount of medication they prescribe each month, as well as the cost of the equipment, so nowadays they go to the doctor to see a small illness, but they all try to get you to pay the fee, and you don't know how much money they spend on the wrong person in the middle of it all.
The last time I took my child to see the eczema, to open a week of medicine (the specific name of the drug is not easy to say, in short, it is very expensive), go home and use a week after a slight improvement, the second time to go to the time to add a drug, he said that to be adjusted to the drug, but they went home after the Internet to find out, after the addition of the drug and the role of the original drug is the same, only to the original drug to the evening to eat the new medicine in the morning, the new medicine, in fact, are anti-histamine, but also to the effect of the drug is the same. The new medication will be taken in the morning, and in fact, they are all antihistamines, and there is no difference in their effects.
The reason for the tension between doctors and patients is also the working attitude, no one can feel the God-like service here, I doubt if the doctor is accustomed to this kind of pain and death, so he can't perceive the patient's pain, other people's pain is not good, but he is calm as if he has nothing to do with him, and even some people are still relatively cold, this kind of indifferent attitude I think also in a certain degree. I think this attitude is also affecting the doctor-patient relationship to a certain extent.