Why do our children only recognize their cell phones and not their parents?
The root of the problem lies in the parents
The children are addicted to cell phones, deserting their studies, and even because they can not play the phone self-mutilation, suicide, and parents.
Many people only see the current situation of children addicted to cell phones, but will not look deeper into the reasons behind.
"Why is my child addicted to playing with cell phones?" "Why has it become so extreme?
At the end of the day, the root cause lies in the parents.
When children learn to sing, dance and play games on their cell phones, we think that cell phones can promote the intellectual development of children.
More often than not, when a child is in trouble, a cell phone instantly makes the world quiet, and we can relax and rest. So, without realizing it, the phone has become the most convenient "electronic nanny" for us to use. We don't have the energy to coax our children, so we give them to our cell phones for a moment of peace and quiet. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a cell phone, and you'll be able to do it in a few minutes.
There are also parents who have their own cell phone addiction, usually have no time to accompany the child, communicate with the child, it is not easy to have a little time is holding a cell phone to brush the WeChat, see the shake voice of .......
The child complained: "I just see you playing with your cell phone, playing with your cell phone, you just play with your cell phone. You are almost not my father anymore, you are almost the father of the cell phone!" These children who lack companionship and have a constant sense of hopeless loneliness inside tend to be more prone to addiction.
At this point, watching their parents play with their cell phones all day, the children naturally follow suit.
So, children's addiction to cell phones is a result of adults' desire to save time and "role modeling". The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a cell phone, and you'll be able to get your hands on a cell phone that you don't have to worry about.
After a child becomes addicted to a cell phone, banning the child from playing with the cell phone is only a cure, and the child will focus more on how to play with the cell phone.
What should we do to "treat the symptoms more effectively" to help children quit cell phone addiction, so that TA initiative to put down the phone?
1, parents should be a good example
If you don't want your child to play with the phone, then parents should be a good example. When you get home from work, you have to spend more time with your children. As long as the child is around, it is best not to play with the phone.
During the children's ban on playing cell phones, parents are asked to stick with their children! Do not want to let the child addicted to the game, they first do, not addicted to the phone.
2, with the children do not play with the phone
When parents in the company of children, whether with homework or play, you can mute the phone ahead of time, and do not let the phone exposed to the children's eyes, not because the phone ignored the children, to ensure that the parents of the accompaniment of the one heart and soul. Then, the conveyance to the child is also a positive feedback, rather than the child later have a cell phone no longer need the parent's companionship!
3, the child temper tantrums do not take the phone coaxing
The child is emotionally variable species, sometimes who did not mess with him, he was alone sulking or to mess with you. Parents feel annoyed, how to coax are not listening, this time took out the big treasure - cell phone. And the child's cell phone addiction is most likely to be so infected.
Therefore, parents should adhere to their own principles, no matter how the child tantrums, do not give the child to play with the cell phone as a quick fix, do not develop children rely on the bad habits of the phone.
4, do not use the phone as a reward for children's chips
Many parents like to use the phone as a bargaining chip when their children are misbehaving or rebelling. When the child does not eat, disobedient, to let the child play with the phone in exchange for the child to obey. If the child is 'rewarded' in this way for every rebellion, then they will naturally develop a dependence on their cell phone.
5. Let children participate in outdoor and group activities more often
Parents can take their children to outdoor or and group activities more often, once they are busy, then their dependence on cell phones will decrease. At the same time, in the activities, they can also make friends and open up their horizons, which is a multi-benefit.
6, let the child realize the harm of the phone
You do not say, the child may have not felt playing the phone what harm, for example, will let the eyesight decline, affect the study, the friends to reduce, weight gain and so on. At the same time, everyone needs to help their children increase their self-control.
For children playing cell phone this matter, in addition to with some methods, the key is to start from the root.
The most fundamental thing is to build a sense of judgment in the child, so that the child realizes that playing for a long time is harmful to him. If you simply kill his interest, I'm afraid it will be counterproductive.
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