Are you a expectant mother?
Don't be intimidated by having a baby. As long as the baby weighs less than 7 kg, it will be born soon.
I gave birth naturally.
When Dabao was still in his stomach, I asked the doctor his weight, and he said six pounds and three ounces.
My idea at that time was to wait until I weighed 7 Jin before cutting.
After listening to the doctor's words, I felt that it was quite far from 7 kg, so I gave birth to it myself.
Because it is the first child, the labor process of giving birth to a child is relatively long, but after going to the delivery bed, it will be born in an hour.
I was born quickly and didn't feel much pain.
Because Dabao gave birth naturally, when Bauer was about to give birth, the doctor asked Dabao how much he weighed. After I told him, he said it was a little small.
I know Bauer will be born faster than Dabao, but I have no experience. I didn't expect it to be so much faster.
It can be said that the eldest brother spent 10 hours, and the second child was born just after squatting in the toilet.
It can be said that having a second child doesn't hurt at all.
If the child is very young, giving birth naturally is good for the mother's physical recovery.
If you want a second child, Dabao can cut it, and Bauer can only cut it.
What advice does the doctor have? Listen to the doctor.
Glad to answer this question! I gave birth to two children naturally and accumulated a little experience to share with you. Delivery is divided into three stages, and the first and second stages are more difficult. After the first and second stages, there will be a sense of relief and happiness in the third stage. That's because the baby you miss so much in October is in front of you. It's really mixed feelings.
The feeling of having a baby is complicated, but it is a kind of hopeful pain, pain and happiness. As long as I think that I can see the baby with my own eyes soon, I will endure the pain. Being a strong mother will surely give birth to a baby safely. You must have the belief that you need happiness to endure pain-the baby will support you. This power is very powerful. Almost all mothers who gave birth naturally survived under this belief. It's really nothing to suffer when you see the baby. In your eyes, the baby is your world.
Different people, different constitutions, will have different pains. (1) Opening the cervix in the first stage of labor: redness, broken amniotic fluid and regular labor pains are signs before delivery. With the gradual aggravation of labor pains, the cervix will slowly open. Generally, when the cervix is opened from one finger (about 1 cm) to the third finger, the parturient can bear it, and the pain will become more and more painful after the fourth finger. (2) In the second stage of labor, the fetus is delivered and the uterus is opened by 9 fingers. The parturient went to the maternity bed to give birth. It's the top of the sore spot. It hurts. How did you get the word "pain"? However, when the uterus opens 10 fingers, the baby will also be delivered. (3) Placenta is delivered in the third stage of labor. Before the baby gives birth, it is the most painful moment. After the baby is born, the placenta will be born later. When the delivery process is over and the happy moment comes, you will feel relieved of the burden and sigh that you have finally survived.
It should be noted that the birth of a child has to go through three stages of labor, but for every pregnant mother, the feeling of childbirth is different, because each pregnant mother's physique is different and the pain will be different. Some children feel no pain and are born quickly. Some people have to endure dozens of hours before giving birth to a baby. In addition, pregnant mothers have good conditions, wide pelvis and strong fertility, and will exert their strength after going to the delivery bed. In addition, giving birth to a child will greatly shorten the labor process, which will naturally lead to less suffering. Therefore, if you want to live fast and have less pain, you should pay attention to a balanced diet and monitor your weight in addition to regular exercise during pregnancy. Women are weak, but mothers are strong. Every arrival of life is hard-won. It feels good to be a mother! I hope my answer is helpful to you.
I still vaguely remember the pain of natural childbirth, um ... it was really unbearable.
I am the mother of a 4-month-old baby. Let me talk about my natural childbirth!
The first stage of labor is to open the uterus. Our family's due date is the 27th, and my usual period is surprisingly punctual. Everyone says that menstruation is accurate and the expected date of delivery is relatively accurate. I also believe in silence. At 4 o'clock in the morning on the 20th, I got up to go to the toilet as usual, but as soon as I got up, I felt as if I was menstruating. Then I went to the toilet and saw it was red. But there are no other symptoms at present, so something needs to be done. At 6 o'clock in the afternoon, after dinner, I am ready to go out for a walk as usual. I wanted to give birth naturally, but I still have to go out for a walk every day. I feel a little uncomfortable in my stomach, a little menstrual pain, or the kind of discomfort that makes my stomach uncomfortable. There are guests at home, I can still chat with them and then take a shower, play mobile phone and sleep as usual, because it is said that the first child is not so fast. It lasted until about 1 1 in the afternoon, and the pain worsened. I intend to have a good sleep. It is estimated that there will be a big battle tomorrow. I can't sleep because of the pain. Come here in ten minutes. I'm really sleepy. It's hard for me to fall asleep. I want to fall asleep and let him go in pain. It shouldn't be that painful, not at all. When I wake up in pain, I will sleep for a second, and then wake up in pain ... I just endure it. Every time I fall asleep, I feel that I have slept for several hours. Actually, it's only ten minutes. It's really hard. Finally, I stayed up until 5 am. I have no choice. Get up, the interval is getting shorter and shorter. After midnight, it will be about 8 minutes. Before, the obstetrician told me that it would be slower to have a baby and open the uterus. Don't rush to the hospital, you might as well be comfortable at home (because it takes 10 minutes from home to the hospital in a small county, so it's so calm), and you can go to the hospital again in five minutes. I just want to finish breakfast, and when the hospital doctor gets off work, it won't be so messy. I didn't follow your plan at all. After I got up, I lay in pain on the sofa and didn't want to move. I had breakfast between pains. After 7 o'clock, I couldn't stand it anymore, so I started to rush to the hospital. When I went to the hospital, the doctor saw that I had opened three fingers. I am still a little happy in my heart, because many people on the internet have been hospitalized for a long time and have not opened their mouths. My best friend also stayed in the hospital for a day and a night. The palace mouth didn't open at all. I can't stand it. The first three fingers are the slowest. Then all kinds of tests are pushed directly to the waiting room. When I entered the labor room, I bent down in pain and slowly moved in. The interval is about 3 minutes. The nurse told me to sit on the ball when it didn't hurt, and then count the fetal movements. I readily agreed, just went to the delivery room and lay in bed ready to rest. The pain worsened again for a short time. I grabbed my sister's hand and I was soaked to the skin. When I went to the analgesic pump, I felt no effect. The whole delivery room is my "pig barking", 1 1 pm, and I officially entered the delivery room. Take off all kinds of pants, forget to disinfect them, and lose face [see]. At this time, the 10 finger has been turned on.
The second stage of labor began to be hard. Because my amniotic fluid didn't break, the doctor broke it manually. I only felt a heat flow, which lasted for a long time. My amniotic fluid is a little too much. As soon as the amniotic fluid breaks, the child may feel that he can't stay in it, so come out quickly. At this time, I feel that my lower abdomen is going to explode. The midwife told me to follow the strength she taught me when I started to feel pain, and rest if it didn't hurt. This is not a rest, but a time to catch my breath. I shouted to the nurse while giving birth, I will die, and it really hurts beyond description. Ask while giving birth, how long will it take? I'm so wet that I don't even have a hair. I said I should wash my hair and bathe before giving birth, but I can't wash it after confinement. Everything is in vain. When the baby was born, all the blood, sweat, tears and potions were finished ... I finally saw the nurse call the doctor in, I saw hope, I knew it was going to be born, and I continued to use up my last strength. I was wondering how painful it would be to tear it. By the time I was born, my lower body was numb with pain, but on that basis, the baby came out. The whole pain disappeared instantly, and I finally came back to life! 12: 30
The third stage of labor has no feeling for me. After my child was born, I enjoyed the comfort without pain very much. I went with doctors and nurses. I heard from the doctor that the placenta seemed to be stuck, and then she went in and dialed it and came out without accusing me of anything.
Generally speaking, I should be regarded as a person with strong ability to endure pain. So I silently survived the process of opening three fingers at home and got praise at the hospital. However, it was really painful when it was officially produced. It really hurts to think of having children in the past. No one taught you how to exert your strength, and now there are not so many medical devices to reduce pain, so you feel happy. And now there is painless delivery, and you can still choose if you have the conditions. After all, people around me feel good after using it. Going to the hospital is relatively late. In the county hospital, the medical conditions are still not so perfect. It is more troublesome to ask an anesthesiologist in a higher hospital. I hope everyone can have a baby smoothly without committing any crime! [comparison] [comparison] [comparison]
I am the mother of two children, both of whom gave birth naturally, but I didn't suffer much because I chose painless delivery.
Now the country requires the popularization of painless delivery, because it really greatly reduces the pain of the parturient. If you are also the mother of a baby who is about to give birth, I suggest that you choose painless delivery when giving birth, and the cost will not be too high, usually around 1 1000 to 2000 yuan.
Generally, you can feel no pain when you open your finger to the third finger. The process of opening the first three fingers generally varies from person to person, and it takes almost 3 to 4 hours for primipara!
When the pain comes, it is like the most painful time of menstruation. I remember holding the railing of the bed with both hands and gritting my teeth. Basically, I can't feel the pain after wearing it, just like my stomach hurts when I first came to menstruation.
I hope my answer can give you reference, and I hope you will be safe and smooth in production!
Hello, I'm mother Chen, and I'm glad to answer your question.
There are three stages of childbirth. How painful is each stage?
I gave birth to two children, both of whom were born naturally, and Dabao had no experience at that time. I remember Dabao's pain was at 5-6 pm, nothing special. It's just that his waist hurts so much that he cries there! It can last for nearly three hours, and then it will be fine. Do I remember that it hurt? My husband went to see a doctor, and the doctor said that nothing could be born today. Then don't check whether the palace is open or not. Finally, at nine o'clock in the evening, did I feel something was wrong? Then I asked the doctor to check it out. The doctor was reluctant and said it could not be so soon. As a result, I opened my finger almost three times. In this way, at 12 pm, I gave birth to my big treasure. In fact, it may be that my pain nerves are not very sensitive, not that it hurts like that, but that my back pain is a bit unbearable. When I arrived in Baoxiao, I felt a little uncomfortable at two or three o'clock in the morning, but I felt very sleepy at that time and went to bed. Then at six o'clock in the morning, I told my husband that my stomach was uncomfortable, and then the pain stopped. It's so uncomfortable! Because it was the expected date of delivery, I was going to check it every two days, and then my husband said to go to the hospital. I was still at home, and I said nothing, it didn't hurt. How can I have children? I don't want to go yet. Finally, I couldn't beat my husband, and then we went to the hospital. When we arrived at the hospital, it was already half past eight. I went to the hospital, and then I usually saw a doctor. The doctor gave me the green light to go to the delivery room, saying that I would be in labor soon, and then I came to the delivery room for examination, and then the palace entrance was almost fully opened. The doctor cooked a good meal for my husband and said that it would be born at nine o'clock at the end, and then my husband was blinded. I didn't take anything at that time, but now I bought it and asked my mother to give it to me. Oh, my God, forget it. It's embarrassing. I didn't expect to have a baby, and it didn't hurt much. Then I was born like this. I suspect that I have a fake son. My husband still makes fun of me. In fact, at that time, I felt that the child was moving badly and it didn't hurt, so I didn't think much. I'm going to give birth. I'm not shy. So that when I went to the hospital, the doctor said that my husband was fine or something. Sometimes I think my children are funny.
The pain of a pregnant mother during childbirth is equivalent to an adult directly breaking about 20 bones. As a nanny who gave birth to a child, I personally think that this description is not correct at all, but the kind of pain that hurts the bones, okay?
You have to go through three delivery periods before you can really start delivery, and the pain levels in these three delivery periods are different. Not only that, but there may be others mocking "You don't mean to have children, do you?" It is natural for women to have children. "
I am really angry to death. It's a pity that I didn't have the slightest strength to dispute with others. Otherwise, I will definitely let him knock out his own bones and come back to argue with me, instead of 20, just one.
The pain in the first stage of labor actually comes from the pain caused by the opening of the uterus. In fact, with the update of new anesthetic drugs and anesthesia technology, the technology of labor analgesia has actually changed a lot. Pregnant mothers can consult the hospital preparing for delivery in advance, which can alleviate some pains and is the best for pregnant mothers and intrauterine babies. The most obvious thing is that pregnant mothers don't have to spend too much energy in the first stage of labor, and these remaining forces can help pregnant mothers in the second stage of labor.
The first stage of labor is mainly caused by uterine contraction, manifested as abdominal pain, back pain, intestinal pain and so on. In the middle and late stage, due to the flexion and extension of the cervix, there will be pain in the lower sacrum, anal orifice and even thigh root. Pregnant mothers can only relieve pain by adjusting breathing and distracting, but if they want to end this pain as soon as possible, they can only expect to open the cervix at a normal speed and enter the second stage of labor as soon as possible.
The pain in the second stage of labor is mainly labor pain, and the key points are the birth canal and vulva. Because of the dilatation of the birth canal and perineum or the assisted delivery with instruments, it is usually necessary to use drugs to relieve pain, such as labor analgesia or local anesthesia.
The pain in the third stage of labor is the persistent pain in the placenta, perineum and birth canal after delivery, especially the pain of uterine contraction after delivery, which is the most uncomfortable and lasts for a long time, ranging from days to weeks for the elderly. Of course, if the pregnant mother's wound doesn't get worse, she generally doesn't need to be treated and can rest.
Pregnancy in October is not easy for every pregnant mother. When it comes to "unloading", pregnant mothers are faced with two choices: natural delivery and caesarean section.
So, expectant mothers who choose to give birth naturally, do you really fully understand the whole production process? Do you know how to reduce your pain? Do you know whether natural delivery is suitable for you?
Before giving birth, pregnant mothers must know the whole process in advance, make psychological preparations, and then better cope with the severe pain and a series of possible problems during childbirth.
If it is a natural delivery, the whole delivery process is divided into three stages, and the situation in each stage is different, and the things that need attention are different.
? The first stage of labor: latent period and active period of delivery.
The first stage of labor is actually divided into two stages, namely, incubation period and active period.
The incubation period is usually 8 ~ 16 hours. Of course, the length of this time varies from person to person. At this time, the uterine contraction gradually strengthened and the cervical canal disappeared until the cervix was opened to 3 cm.
The duration of active period is relatively short, usually 4 ~ 8 hours. At this time, the cervix expands, and the cervix will develop from the initial 3 cm to full opening.
★ Key tips for the first stage of labor
Pregnant mothers should keep calm in the first stage of labor, don't be agitated, and have firm confidence in natural delivery. In addition, the treasure mothers should not make a hullabaloo about because of the pain at this time, but should try their best to save their physical strength and prepare for the next second and third stages of labor.
? The second stage of labor: the key stage of delivery.
The second stage of labor is the key stage of the baby's birth. The membranes will naturally rupture and the contractions will temporarily stop. But then the contractions will start again, and they will be more intense.
When the baby's head drops to the pelvic outlet, apply a little force and his whole body will come out completely. Under normal circumstances, this labor process takes about 2 to 4 hours. If it is a treasure mother who has given birth to a baby, the production speed will be faster.
★ Key tips for the second stage of labor
After the contraction stops, the pregnant mother should relax, then exhale and inhale normally according to the doctor's instructions, and use force correctly to better relieve the pain and deliver the baby quickly and smoothly. Also pay attention to one thing, that is, never use too much force to avoid tearing the lower body.
? The third stage of labor: the placenta is delivered and the delivery is completed.
After the first two stages of labor, the third stage of labor is relatively safe and much easier. At this time, the fetus has been successfully delivered, and it is only one step away from the completion of production.
At this time, just hold your breath again, peel off the placenta and send it out, and you're done. If all goes well, this stage can be completed in half an hour.
★ Key tips for the third stage of labor
Don't rush into the third stage of labor. Be sure to slowly peel off the placenta accompanied by medical staff. When you return to the ward after a successful delivery, you should also pay more attention to your postpartum reaction. If you feel uncomfortable, you should inform the doctor in time.
Mothers who choose to have children naturally know how serious this pain is, so when giving birth, there will inevitably be fear in their hearts.
In this regard, many expectant mothers have raised such a question: how can we shorten the labor process and minimize the pain of childbirth?
When a pregnant mother gives birth to a baby, if she wants to shorten the labor process as much as possible and effectively alleviate the pain of childbirth, she must try these three scientific production methods.
◆ Correct posture and accurate force.
During production, it is suggested that we can take the posture of pulling the armrest of the delivery bed, pulling it hard to the chest and kicking it out. Every time you exert yourself, you don't need to exert yourself too hard, but you should ensure that it lasts for a long time, which can speed up the delivery.
◆ Rameze production breathing method is adopted.
Rameze childbirth breathing is the most correct way for pregnant mothers to breathe during childbirth. This breathing method can make the uterus get enough oxygen, thus accelerating uterine contraction and shortening the labor process.
◆ More self-suggestion and encouragement.
It is found that giving more self-suggestion and encouragement during childbirth can alleviate the pain caused by childbirth and speed up the labor process.
In addition, during pregnancy, pregnant mothers should pay attention to weight control, exercise more, and do these prenatal work well, which will also help speed up delivery and relieve pain.
There is no denying that the pain during natural delivery is much stronger than caesarean section. But many pregnant mothers still insist on this natural delivery method. This is mainly because they think that compared with caesarean section, the benefits of natural delivery are greater.
Natural delivery is the most natural way of delivery, which is of great benefit to pregnant mothers and babies. Many expectant mothers are willing to endure the severe pain during childbirth and resolutely choose to give birth naturally. It is for this reason.
So, what are the benefits of a natural birth? Actually, I don't care about these three points.
● Helps to promote the development of baby's sensory system.
A natural baby has to go through the extrusion of the birth canal, and in this process, it can exercise the cardiopulmonary function well, which is more beneficial to its future development.
● Less harm to maternal health.
You don't need an anesthetic needle like a caesarean section when you give birth naturally, so it has no side effects on your body and can reduce many sequelae.
● The body recovers faster after delivery.
Ma Bao, who gave birth naturally, did not need to remove stitches and repair the wound after delivery. As long as your physical strength is restored, you can get out of bed and walk around. Generally, you can go home on the third day after delivery, and then you can just supplement your body with enough nutrition.
These three points are the benefits of natural delivery, far less than caesarean section. However, everything has two sides, so although it has advantages, it also has disadvantages.
Moreover, not every woman is suitable for a natural delivery, especially in some special cases, obstetricians will let pregnant mothers have a caesarean section.
Natural childbirth has both advantages and disadvantages. Some of its disadvantages are hard for pregnant mothers to accept, and even in severe cases, it will cause harm to the baby. Therefore, choosing a pregnant mother who gives birth naturally should also know something about this.
? It may harm the fetus and even lead to cerebral palsy.
When giving birth naturally, if it is difficult, the doctor will use forceps to help the pregnant mother give birth naturally. But once the operation is improper, it may accidentally hurt the baby.
In addition, if the labor process is not smooth and the delivery time is too long, the baby is in danger of suffocation, and the lack of oxygen for too long may lead to cerebral palsy.
? Postpartum vaginal relaxation, there is a risk of injury
During natural delivery, the vagina will expand vigorously, so pregnant mothers usually become slack after delivery.
Moreover, excessive force during natural childbirth will also lead to the rupture of the lower body and it is not easy to recover after childbirth. And if you don't care properly, it is easy to get infected, resulting in serious damage to the vagina.
Therefore, pregnant mothers still have to decide whether to choose the natural delivery method according to their own situation. Natural childbirth has advantages and disadvantages. The key is whether this method is suitable for you. That's all that matters.
Professional obstetricians pointed out that in general, if the following three situations need to exist, it is not recommended to give birth naturally:
① Older pregnant mothers, that is, older women, should not give birth naturally;
② The fetus is too big, but the pregnant mother's pelvis is too narrow or deformed;
(3) The pregnant mother suffers from pregnancy disease or is in danger before delivery.
During pregnancy, pregnant mothers should follow the doctor's advice, do a good job of prenatal examination on time, and understand the baby and their own situation in advance. When they are in labor, they can make better decisions, choose the delivery mode that suits them, ensure the least harm to themselves, and ensure the safety of the baby.
Xiansi's mother has something to say.
Hello, I'm glad to answer your question. I am the mother of a five-month-old baby. I gave birth to my baby naturally. I think it was really painful at the beginning and end of the three stages of labor, and now it doesn't hurt. Personally, I think we must choose painless delivery. I didn't have any serious back pain after painless delivery. On the night of August 6th, my amniotic fluid suddenly broke. At that time, I was hospitalized because of high blood sugar, and the doctor wouldn't let me get out of bed because my amniotic fluid broke. Later, the next day, the doctor opened a finger and sent me to the delivery room, saying that the conditions were good. I think it's because I exercise a lot every day before giving birth. 10 in the delivery room, given oxytocin. In order to speed up the labor process, it hurts every two or three minutes around 12. Later, I told the doctor that if I opened three fingers, I would feel no pain. Later, when I felt no pain, it stopped hurting.
I have two stages of labor, 1 stage is 1 finger pain ~3 12 hours, and the second stage is 50 minutes from the third finger to delivery. 12 hours at the beginning of work is really that kind of pain, hitting your head against the wall. I cried all the time, and then I went to the delivery room to give me oxytocin, which hurt more. It feels like a lot of people kicked you in the stomach for more than ten hours, but he wouldn't let me shout, so the whole person collapsed, and the pain was unconscious, and the result was painful to wake up. It hurt so much that I didn't feel it when he cut it sideways with me. Only heard a tearing sound, like the sound of tearing paper has been cut to one side. But there is no anesthetic when sewing the needle, and I feel that the needle passes through your flesh layer by layer. It took about 20 minutes to sew, and there were people watching how to sew. I really don't want to repeat it twice.