Second, strong willpower. Life is bound to be frustrated by various pressures, especially men, who bear more burdens and face more intense social competition. Whether in mate selection or career development, life is a contest between body and willpower.
Third, if you choose the right career, a man's life is doomed to be more lonely. If a man has no skills, no career, no ability to make money and no ambition, his marriage will be in pieces.
Fourthly, choosing the right partner and the right woman is the best investment in a man's life, which will make his family more harmonious and happy and increase his wealth and fighting spirit.
Fifth, children's education and parents' pension. This is also an important person in a man's life. One was born to you and the other was born to you. You must arrange it.
There was an uncle who was lucky enough to retire at the age of 60 and then married a 37-year-old wife. After a year of marriage, his wife gave birth to a son. He should be happy when he is old, but he is not happy at all.
This uncle is not from our village. He came to our village as a door-to-door son-in-law when he was young, but less than a year after he got married, the girl died because of a work-related injury. Because she works in a guaranteed factory, her sacrifice at work has been compensated.
He gave the compensation to the woman's parents and continued to stay at the woman's home to take care of her parents. Two years later, the woman's parents thought he was a filial son-in-law, so they gave him compensation and asked him to find a spouse while doing business in the city.
He listened to the woman's parents and went to the city to find something to do, but he didn't trust the two old people to stay in the village, so he chose to work in the city during the day and live in the village at night. I have struggled for two years and achieved nothing. I don't know what business I am suitable for.
So he chose to go back to the village to breed, which can not only start a business, but also facilitate the care of the elderly. Later, after hard work, he opened a farm on the back hill of our village and lived on the hill with two old people. With the passage of time, his breeding scale is getting bigger and bigger.
After his successful career, the woman's parents introduced him to blind date many times, but he refused. He said that he just wanted to do business to make money to take care of two old people, give them a pension and die, and didn't want to fall in love. Therefore, the woman's parents did not continue to find him a partner.
Later, when he was 60 years old, the stock of his farm was as high as 6,000 pigs and 400 cows, but he didn't want to continue working and wanted to retire, so he sold the farm to a foreign boss and then returned to the village to build a villa on the land of the woman's family for his retirement.
After retirement, he sang or played chess with his peers in the village every day, and sometimes went out to travel. Later, he traveled to Shandong, brought back a 35-year-old woman, and announced in the village that they would get married at the end of the year, hoping that the villagers would do us the honor of coming to his house for a wedding banquet.
On February 20 16, 16, he invited thirteen chefs from the city, cooked 86 tables in his house and invited all of us to his house for dinner. Because he said he didn't need a gift, almost all of us went on his wedding day.
After a year of marriage, his wife gave birth to a son. We thought he was rich and had a young wife to take care of his old age. He would be happy when he was old, but it was not.
He used to laugh when playing chess with the old people in the village, but since he had children, he has been silent, and sometimes he will be in a daze in the middle of playing chess. So the old man in the village asked him if he was ill.
He said he was in a bad mood. This sentence is a joke to the villagers, because we all think he is the happiest person. I didn't expect him to tell us that he was in a bad mood.
So, we asked him: You have money and a young wife and children. You should be the happiest person. Why are you in a bad mood?
He replied: with the growth of age, I found that my body is not as good as before, and now I feel hard to walk. I am rich and have a young wife and children, but the money always takes a year and the children are still young. I'm worried that after I die, no one will take care of them, and the children will lack fatherly love and be unhappy.
We comforted him and said, "You are still in good health. There is no need to entertain foolish ideas and affect your mood. Even if you die, can't we villagers help you take care of their mother? " . Since that conversation, every time the village organizes activities, such as holding temple fairs, building roads and bridges, he has enthusiastically donated money.
Because of his kindness, his reputation in the village is not only rich, but also a good man. It can be seen that he was worried that his wife and son would be bullied by the villagers after their death, so he chose to do good things before his death to leave a good impression on everyone and take care of his family when he was away.
Later, in 20 19, he died. After his death, the attitude of people in our village towards his wife and children has not changed. They still greet each other when they meet and invite each other when there is a banquet.
Although I don't have much contact with him, I have heard many stories from the old people in the village. After learning about his deeds, I admire him very much for three reasons.
The first reason is that he is a sentient and righteous person, which is reflected in the fact that after his wife died, he did not choose to leave our village but stayed to take care of his parents-in-law.
The second reason is that he is a low-key person, which is reflected in his wealth. He doesn't look down on the people in our village and has a good relationship with the old people in the village.
The third reason is that although there is a big age gap, his wife loves him very much, which is reflected in his wife's not leaving our village after his death.
At the same time, after knowing his deeds, I realized what is the most important thing in a person's life. Some people think it's a family and a career, but I don't think so. I think the most important thing in a person's life is to have a healthy body.
Because a healthy body is the foundation, only a healthy body can qualify for a happy family and a successful career. Without a healthy body, families need to take care of patients, and at the same time, families lack a labor force, so they are simply unhappy.
At the same time, without a good body, it is impossible to have the ability and energy to fight for your career. Just like the grandfather in our village, he had a lot of money and a happy family, but he died at the age of 63.
Therefore, I think a healthy body is the most important thing in a man's life, because having a healthy body can run a happy family and strive for career success, but career success and family happiness can't be exchanged for a healthy body!
So, no matter how busy we are at work, don't forget to exercise. Always remember that the body is the foundation of everything. Without good health, everything is a cloud.
There are three most important things in a person's life, and they are all indispensable.
The most important thing is health. The body is the capital of life hope and the guarantee of a happy life. Without a healthy body, any ideal employee or career fortune is a castle in the air and a bright moon in the water. It's useless to have ideas that can't be realized.
The second most important thing is career. A person's future, bright and dark, lies in his career. With a career, you have financial resources. With financial resources, you can achieve what you want, what you want to do, and what you want to be hoped for. So, money is very important. You can do nothing without money, but the right money is the right money. Therefore, we must have a career.
The third and most important thing is family happiness, especially a happy marriage, a capable wife, a virtuous assistant, a good assistant to help men develop their careers and make money, and a good logistics minister. A good wife will make you concentrate on your work and create the world, which is the guarantee of a man's career success.
Therefore, as long as a man does these three things well in his life, he will succeed and be happy all his life.