First, the influence of family environment factors on pupils' psychology.
1, the influence of family structure. Family structure mainly refers to the population structure of the family, and many studies have confirmed the influence of abnormal family structure on students' behavior problems. Wang Yufeng and other researches found that the detection rate of children's behavior problems in single-parent families was the highest (19. 4%), the difference is significant. Zhang Lingling found that a family with a sound and harmonious family structure is conducive to the healthy growth of pupils' body and mind, while family breakdown, parents' discord, frequent quarrels and single-parent families are obviously not conducive to the healthy growth of children's body and mind, resulting in a high proportion of children's physical diseases and psychological disorders.
Judging from the family background data of some problem students, parents' dereliction of duty is an important reason for children's abnormal development.
2. The influence of parents' role models. It is pointed out in pedagogy and psychology that imitation is a remarkable feature of primary school students' psychology, and growing primary school students test and adjust their self-awareness and behavior tendency according to their example. Therefore, what kind of example parents can provide to their children will directly affect their behavior and mental health, which is what we often say: "Example by example." Parents' cultural quality and psychological state have a subtle influence on the physical and mental health of primary school students.
3. The influence of parental rearing patterns. With regard to the relationship between parental rearing patterns and mental health, many studies at home and abroad have reached a consistent conclusion: improper parental rearing patterns can easily lead to the formation of children's bad personality characteristics that are difficult to adapt to society, which is one of the risk factors for children's neurosis. Liu Kun and other research results show that the occurrence of behavior problems of primary school students is closely related to the family environment, and the situation of democratic education and respect for children of students with behavior problems is obviously lower than that of students without behavior problems.
Parents don't respect their children's personality, and it is difficult to communicate with their children's thoughts, which is an unscientific way of upbringing. Nowadays, many parents give their children food, respect their children materially and don't respect their children spiritually, so they can't treat them equally. Many parents regard their children as "animals" and animals as children. At the same time, because adults are busy with work all day, they are slow and slow to accept new things, while children are in the learning stage and accept new things quickly. Therefore, two generations have many difficulties in the exchange of ideas.
Second, the main points of creating a good family environment
1. Establish a good family style and cultivate a civilized and healthy life interest. A good family style is an important part of a good family environment, an invisible means of education, and has an important influence on children. To establish a good family style, family members need to have good ethics and morality, and form good habits such as harmony and mutual assistance, respect for the elderly and love for the young, humility and courtesy. For uncivilized things, parents should be good at guiding and improving their children's ability to distinguish right from wrong, which is more conducive to creating a healthy growth environment for their children.
2. Maintain family harmony and help neighbors. A harmonious family, the atmosphere is stable and harmonious, harmonious and warm, democratic and equal, happy and joyful. Such a family environment can make children live a safe, happy and warm life, make them full of hope for life, and cultivate good personality qualities such as respect, understanding, trust, care, self-confidence and optimism. Mutual assistance and harmony with neighbors will help children to develop a kind, cheerful and generous character, know how to be modest, respect and care for others, and be good at understanding and forgiving others, so as to get along well with their peers, learn to deal with contradictions in interaction with others, and grow up healthily in children's groups.
3. Be strict with yourself and give full play to the exemplary role. Psychological research shows that the main ways of children's learning behavior are observation and imitation. Parents' behavior affects children's will quality and personality quality. Therefore, parents should strive to optimize their psychological quality and personality quality and be the first qualified teacher.
4. Fully respect children and carry out education of democracy and tolerance. For a long time, it seems that our parents never treat their children as "people", but "only treat their children as children", which requires every parent to think seriously. The correct attitude of parents is to treat children as independent, equal and developing individuals, respect all the rights and reasonable requirements of children, respect their individuality and personality development, and form a harmonious family environment.
5. Be good at discovering children's bright spots and treating children's problems correctly. Children should be praised more, because every good child is boasting. Edison was listed as a "silly boy" by his teacher when he was a child, but his mother kept encouraging him, saying that he would succeed and finally praised him as a great inventor. It can be seen that the encouragement and trust of parents and teachers is very important for the growth of children. There is always a bright spot in children, and there is always something different from ordinary people. Be fully tolerant of the child's personality, keep the child in a positive state with incentives, and constantly praise and affirm.
6. Master certain mental health care knowledge and discover children's psychological problems in time. Parents should pay attention to the abnormalities shown by their children in the details of life, and find and guide their children's psychological problems and bad habits in time.
7. Actively cooperate with schools to implement home-school linkage. Both schools and families have a great responsibility to train children to become talents. Only when parents attach importance to and do a good job in cooperating with schools to educate their children can they achieve the best results. Judging from many phenomena, parents and teachers have the same understanding of children's learning, emotion and personality, but they don't have enough details and comprehensive grasp of children. Therefore, parents should actively communicate with the school in order to make a comprehensive and objective evaluation of their children's mental health and give reasonable guidance.
In a word, family is the main place for children to live, and family education is the foundation of education. The cultivation of people's morality and personality is gradually formed and cultivated in a subtle environment, so the family environment is very important for children's growth and must be carefully created.