Everyone has a different understanding of happiness, because happiness in this world is actually contentment.
So what is happiness? I asked five people who have experienced it to see their understanding of happiness.
1. Ms. Zhuang: Happiness means not going to the hospital.
My understanding of happiness is that the family is healthy and never set foot in the hospital.
I am 47 years old. I was diagnosed with breast cancer last year. A year of chemotherapy and radiotherapy made me miserable.
Before, I always felt lucky that this disease would never happen to me. Now I know that no one can be lucky forever, otherwise, the hospital will not be overcrowded.
I never took health seriously before, but once I was really sick, I found that my inexplicable fears were uncontrollable.
Don't take your health seriously, really, once you get sick, it's really too late. Compared with health, those things are not important. The greatest happiness in this world is not how much money you have, nor how big a house you have, but that you can only enjoy it if you are in good health.
Don't always say that you can't stand it. If you have nothing to do, go to ICU, take a look, take a look at the indifference of this world, take a look at the warmth of this world, and take a look at the life and death of this world.
Only when you see it with your own eyes can you really understand that everything between heaven and earth is a trivial matter before life and death.
When you have experienced the experience of making an appointment one week in advance for hospitalization, you will know what real despair is.
Second, Teacher Zhang: Happiness is to let the children have enough to eat.
I work so hard to make money just because I don't want my children to be worse off than others. Whenever I see my child with that innocent smile, I feel it's worth it.
I feel happy, that is, let the children have enough to eat and afford the toys they want. His smile is my happiness. What he wants is my motivation; I was sad to see him cry.
Before I had children, I thought happiness was money. I think I can enjoy a beautiful life, which is happiness. So I used to earn money hard, all for myself. Then I had a baby, and everything was different. That kind of kinship, blood is thicker than water, is really the most selfless and sincere love in the world.
Children are everything to me, and the happiness of children is my happiness. I want my wife and children to live a hot life. I like to take my child to the playground and appreciate his heartfelt smile.
Teacher Hu: Happiness means being able to marry the woman you love.
I think happiness is to be able to marry the woman I love, hold your hand and grow old with your son, and never give up for a lifetime, step by step.
I admire love, but what I admire more is that when I am too old to walk, someone can hold my hand and accompany me to watch the sunrise and sunset and enjoy the best feelings in the world.
The happiness I want is to marry the woman I love, and in winter, we sit on the balcony and bask in the sun together; In summer, we hide in the air-conditioned room and fight together. The family is full of laughter, which is happiness.
4. Mr. Liu: Happiness means being able to afford what she likes.
I spent half a year's salary and secretly bought her a necklace, which she had long wanted.
At that time, she said she didn't like it and didn't want it, but I could still see the enthusiasm and love in her eyes. At first, I just wanted to satisfy her wishes, thinking that she had been with me for so long that I hadn't given her anything seriously.
I will never forget her smile when I give her the necklace. Even, I saw her tearful eyes. At that moment, I felt I was happy.
I think happiness means that I can afford what she likes. No matter how much money is spent, no matter how much bitterness is paid behind, at the moment when she is satisfied, I think all the efforts are worth it.
Fifth, Ms. Yang: Happiness means being taken care of when you are sick.
I think happiness means being taken care of when you are sick. Last year, I had a high fever and was bedridden. When I vaguely opened my eyes and saw his careful care for me, I was satisfied and happy at that moment.
I think this is the real husband and wife. No matter which side encounters difficulties, the other side can provide the most sincere and selfless help.
Happiness means marrying the right person, happiness means marrying the right person, and happiness means having love in marriage.
Marriage is like a double-edged sword, which can protect you or hurt you, so I think if you want to get married, you must marry love.