Parents now have the same characteristics. They feel that children's living environment is particularly good now, and there is no reason not to study hard and listen to their parents. So parents like to compare their children and see who is better.
However, this kind of comparison is not good for children's growth, but it is satisfying parents' vanity, which eventually leads to children's psychological problems, and parents still don't know it.
When children remain depressed for a long time, their hearts are prone to fluctuations and even cracks. Finally, children will have psychological problems and may even induce depression.
Less than 15 years old is in a rebellious period. Generally speaking, rebellious children are hostile to their parents, but less than 65438 is to listen to their mothers.
Especially in learning, as long as the child is not up to standard, then the mother will carry out all kinds of education for the child, and even stop all his extracurricular activities and entertainment equipment until his son's grades improve.
Although Xiao Shao listened to his mother's words, he was always in a state of dissatisfaction. Until one time, most of the children went to play in the class, and there was only one person, no matter how much less than pleading with his mother, his mother still felt that going out to play was a waste of time and money. It was more affordable to have the money for Xiao Shao to sign up for a make-up class.
This time, however, Mix didn't listen to her mother and even yelled at her. Why can other students go? Why do other students have entertainment time? Why do other students do whatever they want? What did I miss? Mom, will you leave me alone and let me die?
In the face of her son's retort, her mother froze. This is not the first time that she has rebelled against her mother, so fierce, and her mother didn't expect her son to say this, and she couldn't be calm for a long time.
The mother knows that she pushes her child too hard, and the child may have psychological problems. In the next few days, Xiao Shao never spoke to his mother again, and her mother was afraid. She invited a psychologist to her parents and was finally diagnosed with depression.
1) Children are full of negative energy.
The most characteristic "signal" of children's psychological problems is that children are full of negative energy.
When the child's heart begins to collapse, he will complain about the people and things around him, and even think that the world is dark and full of negative energy. Parents can see at a glance that their children have psychological problems, but most parents don't understand their children with their heart.
2) Not good at talking
Once people have psychological problems, they don't like to express themselves, let alone reveal their feelings to others.
If the child was a lively and cheerful personality before, he suddenly became silent and even unwilling to communicate with others, then parents should pay attention, and the child is likely to have problems in his heart.
3) suddenly don't want to socialize
When there is psychological barrier, not only the language becomes less, but also people are unwilling to go out with others. This is obviously a psychological problem.
Once children have psychological problems, these "signals" will appear, and parents should pay attention to them so as not to affect their growth and health because of psychology.