The ancients said: people can't make friends without addiction, because there is no affection; People can't communicate without shortcomings, so there is no true qi. What does this sentence mean? This sentence means that if a person has no hobbies, he is often not allowed to associate because he has no deep feelings; If a person has no flaws, he can't associate with him, because he has no true qi. Although this sentence has a certain one-sidedness, it actually shows the fireworks atmosphere of a person living in secular desires. Therefore, the elderly often tell us: people are addicted and can't make friends? . And people who have these three hobbies are often temperamental people, which deserves our good communication.
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First of all, people who like to drink a little wine are often temperamental people.
Around us, some people always like to drink a little wine in their daily lives. Although wine is harmful to people's health, drinking a little wine properly can cheer our body and mind and release our depressed mood. It is said that a new study by Oxford University in England shows that men should get together with friends and drink alcohol at least twice a week to ensure their physical and mental health! Research says this? A party between men? Can effectively reduce the incidence of depression.
In fact, around us, some long-lived old people always have the habit of drinking a little wine. Perhaps, the benefits of drinking far outweigh the benefits of not drinking. Those who like to drink a little wine are often temperamental people. Such people are frank and nontoxic, and we will not be wary of associating with them. Moreover, people who are addicted to drinking a little wine are often generous, but they can restrain themselves. They are trustworthy and really worth communicating with.
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Secondly, people who like to grow flowers and vegetables are often temperamental people.
Some people around us like to grow flowers and vegetables. They have made some achievements in their careers, but in their spare time, they prefer reading, drinking tea and growing flowers and vegetables. Such people like Tao Yuanming? Planting beans in Shannan, the grass is full of bean seedlings? Artistic conception, but also like taste? Flowers in the next pot of wine, no friends, drink alone. Until, holding up my cup, I asked the bright moon to bring me my shadow and let the three of us? Loneliness. People like this, you know? People live a lifetime, plants grow an autumn? So, they prefer it? Life is beautiful like summer flowers and death is beautiful like autumn leaves? The concept of life and death.
More often, we will calm down, plant a pot of green Shanghai green in our hometown in the countryside, or raise a pool of water lilies that have been flooded, and lead our leisure time to the sky and light clouds. With such people, we can not only learn from their humiliation, but also appreciate their generous outlook on life. Therefore, people who like to grow flowers and vegetables and live a high life are often temperamental people. When we associate with such people, we will feel that our life realm has risen to a new height and we will feel happier. Therefore, such people really deserve our good contacts.
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Third, like it? Happy people? People are often moody people.
The ancients said:? Having fun alone is not as good as having fun with others? . What does this sentence mean? This sentence means that one person is not as happy as others. Around us, there are always some people who are relatively low-key and calm. Some people even hide their thoughts and don't like to tell others what they think. And there are always some people who are more willing to share their happiness and gains with you. Such people like telling jokes and sharing some fruits and vegetables with their distant relatives and neighbors.
Do you like this? Happy people? People sometimes give us the feeling of a big mouth, but do you like it? Happy people? People, but nothing, they are spontaneous and natural, they are generous. With such people, we can always get laughter and happiness. You can say you like it? Happy people? Man is also a kind of temperament middleman. With them, we can have no bad feelings and laugh happily. With such benefits, how can you not associate with these temperament middlemen more?