Sharing: it is our respect for the law of children's growth to cultivate their awareness of property rights and let them have the right to control their own things. Children benefit themselves first, then others. He gradually established the concept of "I" by controlling his own things. Children who have the courage to protect their belongings are children with a sense of boundaries. So don't force children to share until they are ready. When children's self-concept is gradually established, they will understand that others and themselves are different individuals, and they will also understand the boundaries of respecting others. In the process of establishing boundaries, children will gradually learn to interact with people and society. Such children have a clear sense of self, not only know what they want, but also know what kind of person they want to be.
205438+09.438+0.25 Understanding of Pigeon Proverbs;
As parents, it is very important to cultivate children's awareness of property rights, which can guide children to make correct behaviors. The cultivation of real right consciousness is an important event in the process of children's growth.
Significance of cultivating children's awareness of property rights
Parents may have neglected the establishment of children's awareness of "property rights". But it is very important for children's growth. It is extremely important for children to establish a sense of independence and make them realize that they should manage their own affairs, know how to safeguard their legitimate rights and interests and respect others. When children's real rights are respected, they can promote their development in all aspects. When children understand that they should respect other people's property rights, it means that they have mastered a social rule, which will make them more popular in communication.
Although children are still young, they also have many personal belongings, such as their own small tables and stools, books and toys, personal space and so on. Although these items are provided by their parents, when they are provided to them, it means that the ownership of these items belongs to the children. When children realize that they have been respected in this respect, other aspects of development will also be promoted to a certain extent.
1. timely emphasize
Every time parents buy something new for their children, they should emphasize to them in time: "This is for you". Then, the name, purpose, usage and precautions of this item should be introduced to help children find a suitable place to put it.
Regular registration
Parents should prepare a register for their children, guide them to register things, and explain to them how to make good use of the register to manage their own things. For example, pictorial registration: draw a water gun and mark the date, indicating that you bought a water gun one day. Of course, parents and children can discuss together and create more interesting and effective registration methods.
Regular organization
No matter how busy parents are, they should take time out to guide and lead their children to sort out their belongings regularly and classify them. Children are still young, and without the guidance and guidance of adults, they can't achieve the expected results. Of course, what parents should do is to lead and guide, not to do everything. In this process, parents should be patient and help their children develop this good habit of regular finishing. When they can finish their work alone, their parents can let go.
4. Establish exclusive space
It would be better if parents could set up a small space for their children (for example, arrange a small cupboard for their children) to put their children's books, toys and so on. Tell children that this is their exclusive space, and they can decorate this space according to their own ideas.
5. Don't handle children's belongings at will.
Some adults throw away, collect and move things they have put away without their children's permission, which often makes them feel disrespected. Sometimes, things that are not important in parents' eyes are very important in children's hearts. Parents' random disposal often hurts children's enthusiasm for storing things. If the frequency is frequent, it is likely that children will develop the habit of littering. When children form this bad habit, parents will often have no good effect if they correct and criticize it. Therefore, parents should help their children develop good habits of taking and putting things away, set a good example for their children, and don't dispose of their belongings at will.
6. Respect children's ownership
When an adult or a child comes home as a guest, he must first get the consent of the child and return it in time. In addition, parents should also educate their children to learn to share their favorite things with friends, or take their children to school to enjoy with more friends.
Benefits of respecting children's property rights
1. Feel the care of parents
When children's property rights are respected by their parents, they can obviously feel their parents' care and enhance their love for their parents and family. Items given by adults to children may be treasured by children as a symbol of love for life. For example, when children keep the baby hat made by their mothers in those years, they will definitely feel the greatness of maternal love (parents had better provide them with special storage boxes).
reduce one's dependency (on)
When children's property rights are respected, they can understand their ownership of these items more clearly, and their sense of autonomy and ownership will be strengthened, thus reducing their dependence on adults and becoming more independent.
3. Exercise independent ability
When children organize their small storage space, the process of using and keeping their own things is also a process of cultivating their own management ability, self-care ability and labor ability. The education they get in this process is not passive, but natural.
4. Family life is more enjoyable
When children's good habits are gradually cultivated, there will be no destructive "little demons" at home, things at home will be more orderly, and life will become more enjoyable.
Understanding of 20 19 438+0.25 think tank proverbs;
Cultivate children's awareness of property rights, let children have the right to control their own things, and at the same time know how to respect the property rights of others, so that children can become a person with a sense of boundaries. In our life, we often see children playing together and fighting for things. At this time, parents' practices are very important for children. Most parents will ask their children's owners to let their guests go, and older children will let younger children go. But this is not good for children's awareness of property rights. The effective way is to respect children's right to dispose of personal belongings, patiently communicate which items children can share, and let children choose from items that are not particularly beloved. At the same time, guide children to get the consent of others when playing with other children's items. After long-term cultivation, children's sense of boundaries will be clear and many unnecessary disputes will be reduced.
20 19. 1.25 think tank testimony: to cultivate children's awareness of property rights is to respect children as independent individuals. Many times, when children compete for toys, or when children at home are unwilling to share, we care about our own face. Therefore, parents should learn to communicate with their children, safeguard their sovereignty, find ways to resolve this situation, let them see more possibilities, guide them to communicate well, let them know where they belong, and learn to respect the belonging of others, learn to wait and control their own desires, and better establish a sense of border.
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Learning sentiment
Property rights awareness, children know something, and everything they see and like is his! [Covering his face] Our youngest son thinks his mother is his own. When my sisters or I want to hug my mother, this little guy will definitely protest loudly! The smug look when his mother hugged him made people angry and funny! ? If he wants something, he must get it. No matter how you stop him, he won't stop! ? He will put a lot of things back in place now, and he must put them back in place! [Cover your face]
However, when he takes something from others, you rob him, and he cries desperately (this is his weapon)! But if you ask him for it, put your hand in front of him and he will give it to you well! Of course, you have to praise him, such as: thumbs up and applause!
20 19.6438+0.25 proverb sentiment sharing
To cultivate children's awareness of property rights is to let children manage and control their own belongings! Many times, children's toys are taken fancy to by other children, and I will instinctively let him out, which makes children very unhappy! We all consider problems from the perspective of our own adults, but we don't consider the feelings of our children! Children have a sense of property rights, not only cherish their own things, but also know that other people's things can't cross the border without permission! I bought clothes for the children for the Spring Festival two days ago. We didn't wear it until the Spring Festival, but the second one couldn't wait to put it on. She has the right to choose when to wear her clothes, and she is slowly letting them make their own decisions!
? Understanding of 20 19 438+0.25 think tank education proverbs;
To cultivate children's awareness of property rights, we must first let him know that those things are children's, and then let him control and manage them by himself. We should praise him for his good management, and let him be responsible for his poor management, and finally guide and encourage the children correctly!
? When he learns to manage his own property, he will also cherish and care for other people's property! [fuel] [fuel] [fuel]
Think tank proverb:
I haven't paid much attention to my belongings since I was a child. When the child plays, he always gives it to the other party generously, and finally he doesn't remember to come back. On the contrary, when he doesn't play with others' things, he will return them in time. It turns out that I just use the view of "let the children decide for themselves" and don't participate in the opinions. Now it seems that it is necessary to cultivate children's awareness of property rights, let them have the right to control their own things, cultivate their sense of autonomy, and learn to cherish their own things, safeguard their rights, and become people with clear boundaries. My cognition also needs to change.
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Today's point of view:
Cultivating children's awareness of property rights and giving them the right to control their own things will not only help to cultivate children's sense of autonomy, but also help children cherish their own things and safeguard their rights. It will also make him a person with a sense of boundaries, understand other people's affairs, ask for their consent, respect other people's commodity awareness, and make himself a popular person. Respect children's sense of autonomy, sometimes there is no need to force children to share their belongings. While safeguarding our own rights and interests, we also understand that the rights and interests of others are equally inviolable.
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Think tank proverb:
Consciously cultivating children's concept of "real right", making children have a sense of self-esteem, educating children to cherish their own property, safeguard their rights, and respect other people's property and children's real right will promote the beneficial development of children in all aspects. Let children know that it is a social rule to respect other people's property. Abiding by this law will make children popular in communication and successful in social interaction, which is of positive significance to their healthy growth.