For a long time, most people in our country have been secretive about sex. Even when I was studying, the teacher only said "read it by myself" in the chapter about the physiological knowledge of both sexes in biology class.
When I was in college, the girls who slept had to hide when they bought sanitary napkins. If the cashier is a man, they even choose not to buy it.
Prior to this proposal, on 20 14, Wuhan distributed the textbook "Life Safety Education" to every primary school student, which introduced the female physiological structure, physiological changes and other related knowledge in detail. This teaching arrangement has aroused the concern of the society and is accused of being "too large". Some parents think it is too early to give sex education to primary school students. Even think that such knowledge will have a bad influence on children.
This has to remind people of Fang Siqi's first love paradise. Fang Siqi once tried: "Our family education seems to have everything except sex education." In this regard, her mother said: "What sex education? Sex education is for those who need sex. "
Obviously, Li Guohua won't stop because Fang Siqi doesn't need sex, and a person's sexual needs won't disappear because of ignorance.
When you think sex education for primary school students is too early, Li Guohua thinks Fang Siqi is just right.
Ignorance of sex can only do harm to children. Not only girls but also boys may be hurt.
Even without Li Guohua, the lack of sexual knowledge will still hurt children. Some children don't even know what happened after being violated, and they can't describe it to their families and ask for help.
Most people in our country do not exclude talking about "having children", whether it is an advertisement of "painless abortion" or having an elder on holidays. But we almost never talk about sex before having children.
We often come into contact with the advertisements of "painless abortion" on the street, some on bus advertisements, and some on leaflets or lighters issued by these hospitals. But we hardly see advertisements for condoms.
This is not a good thing.
Condoms can effectively prevent contraception and prevent the spread of most sexually transmitted diseases.
A person will not have sex just because he doesn't understand sex and doesn't talk about it.
The risk of sexual behavior will not disappear. No matter the spread of sexually transmitted diseases, pregnancy or cervical cancer, they will not let us go because we don't understand.
With the development of society, children can actually come into contact with sex-related content from all aspects. Avoiding being talked about by parents and teachers is not good for children's psychological growth.
As psychoanalyst Freud said, the more repressed thoughts and behaviors, the more people want to be close. In this contradictory state of depression and closeness, people will have negative emotional experiences of anxiety and anxiety.
Children aged 3-5 are full of curiosity. They sometimes ask their parents, "How did I get here?" At this time, you can start to explain some simple sexual knowledge to them.
From the perspective of protecting children's physical and mental health, sex education should not be too late.
From the school's point of view, schools can set up corresponding physiology courses and psychology courses according to the theory of personality development stages. Let students look at the changes of sex and physiology correctly under the guidance of teachers.
At the same time, parents can also take their children to watch some inspiring sex education short films, and slowly guide their children to learn and think.
The promotion of sex education depends not only on schools and parents, but also on the strength of all walks of life.
The propaganda of sexual knowledge and the popularization of science are not equal to the dissemination of yellow information. We need to spread correct and positive sexual knowledge and crack down on yellow information that has a bad influence on children's psychological development.
Sex is not the original sin.
Only when we stop being secretive about sex can we face it frankly, popularize scientific knowledge seriously and protect more children.