Crying is a manifestation of children's unsatisfied needs and a normal reaction during their growth.
For example, if a child wants to drink milk when he is hungry, he will definitely cry before drinking milk. If you not only fail to meet his needs, but also lose your temper with him, it may be that the child is hungry and the need for milk is temporarily suppressed. You are also "lucky" to find that the child has stopped crying and become a good boy. In fact, the child is still hungry, which is very bad for the child.
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Children of different ages have a temporal color in emotional development, perceptual development, thinking mode and memory mode.
The general characteristics of psychological development of children aged 2-3 are as follows:
Children aged 2 ~ 3 are naive, naive, innocent and lively, with rapid physical and mental development and rapid changes in all aspects. It's really the most pleasing.
The 2-year-old child began to communicate with people in language. Although his language with the smell of milk is extremely simple, it marks a new milestone for human beings to master communication tools. By the age of 2, he can freely express his demands, wishes, opinions, etc.
Children aged 2 ~ 3 are the easiest to receive adult education. Tell him what to do, and he will accept it and remember it. He can abide by simple rules and requirements. For example, he won't sit on the ground and play with mud as adults ask. By the age of 4, he can "get used to many rules of life and collective rules, and can tell simple truths." For example, talking in a sleeping room will disturb other children's sleep. "
Children aged 2 ~ 3 have independent requirements and like to undress and fold quilts by themselves. Although he can't or can't, this will is very strong. By the age of 4, I can put on and take off my clothes independently, fold small quilts and wash handkerchiefs and socks by myself. He not only does this, but also takes pride in "growing up by himself" and "doing his own thing".
Children aged 2 ~ 3 are helpful and like to work. As soon as mother swept the floor, he went to get a dustpan; Grandpa picks up the newspaper, he will send glasses ... by the age of 4, he will be able to help adults and companions consciously. For example, if a companion cries, help him wipe his tears; When his mother sets the table, he knows how to help set chopsticks. He knows that helping others is a good thing.
Children aged 2 ~ 3 have a good memory, and he can recite a children's song and an ancient poem quickly. Follow an adult to a relative's house, and you can tell whose house it is when you pass by. By the age of 4, he can not only remember these things, but also consciously remember many things, and his understanding and memory are improving rapidly.
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Baidu encyclopedia-children