Because the parents who help their children take care of a child are older, and the social nursing industry (providing nursing services for children under 3 years old) is developing slowly, many working mothers are being attacked by "two-child care anxiety" and even crazy.
Raising a baby has become a pain point for people's livelihood.
Working mothers are caught in "two-child parenting anxiety"
Talking about the working life after giving birth to two children, Yan Qinghua, a teacher at Hainan University, described it as "a mess".
As a "post-70s", after the implementation of the comprehensive two-child policy, she and her husband got up the courage to give birth to Bao Shunshun. However, it is easier to have children than to bring them up. The old people on both sides who promised to help take care of the children before they were born offered to take them back to their hometown after a period of time. "They are really old and can't bear the hard work of bringing a baby physically."
In the case that several nannies are not suitable, Yan Qinghua can only take care of the baby while going to work, and the bad life begins.
"During class time, I left my baby at my colleague's house downstairs for a long time, and I came back after class. I also rushed to work. I am nervous and unkempt every day. Dabao complained to me, and I didn't have time for scientific research. " Yan Qinghua said: "I thought I had two treasures, and a lovely little life came at home." At this time, I was like a foreign' little monster', which disturbed the life of the whole family. "
There is no place to entrust, no trust to entrust, no financial resources to entrust, and working mother is crazy.
In Haikou, except for some kindergartens that recruit children over 2 years old, most of them can recruit children aged 0-3 years old, such as small kindergartens, small dining tables, parent support groups, etc., and a few child care centers have also opened child care centers by the way.
According to Er Qiao, a girl in charge of enrollment in Jubilee Conference Child Care Center, their boss started to run the child care center at the suggestion of many pregnant women. Their advantage in running a child care institution lies in the rich experience of baby nurses and practical nurse. As for what standards the center is decorated according to, what teaching AIDS are used, and how to train children from an early age, Er Qiao can't say.
In Haikou, Gaomi International, a nursery institution that completely copies the management model and educational concept of Taiwan Province Province, is favored by parents. Although the monthly care cost for children under 3 years old is at least 3200 yuan, it is still in short supply. The seven branches and 250 nursery places of this institution are all full.
"High fees are one thing. As a mother, my biggest concern is safety. " Yan Qinghua said that preschool education has been implemented for many years and the management rules and regulations are relatively mature. There are still various safety incidents, such as overfeeding children, school buses choking children and food poisoning. "Children aged 0-3 are younger and are the' softest group'. Can the nursery take care of my children? "
"Children aged 0-3 have no resistance. To set up nursery institutions, we must put safety at the top of every link, such as accommodation and education. Most of the small dining tables and small classrooms that are not set in strict accordance with national standards have potential safety hazards and are prone to disputes such as food safety accidents and children's bruises. " Wu Shuo, member of Hainan CPPCC and president of Hainan Early Education Research Association.
It is urgent to standardize the supervision of nursery industry.
According to a survey, at present, the enrollment rate of infants and young children in various care service institutions in China is only 4. 1%, which is far lower than 50% in some developed countries such as the United States and Britain.
In China, nearly 80% of infants are cared for and cared for by their ancestors, and the society generally reflects the heavy burden of family infant care. According to some surveys, the time cost, economic cost and care burden of raising two children are considered to be the three important factors affecting the fertility willingness of women of childbearing age.
Despite the booming business, Gomi International strongly calls for government regulation. Chen Zexing, general manager of Hainan Gaomi Education Service Co., Ltd. said that when Gaomi 20 16 was founded, the state and other provinces and cities had no guiding opinions on the management of the baby-sitter industry, and the baby-sitter industry was a field that nobody cared about.
"Looking for the Education Bureau, the Education Bureau said that they are only responsible for preschool education of 3-6 years old, looking for the Civil Affairs Bureau, and the Civil Affairs Bureau does not care. Finally, they had to register with the industrial and commercial bureau. I also encountered difficulties in running the canteen, and I applied to the food and drug supervision department. They said that there is no category of nursery institutions, and finally they can only register in the name of kindergarten canteens. " Xing suggested that relevant departments should standardize the nursery industry as soon as possible.
Liang Jianghong believes that in the state of "unattended", some child care institutions that accept children under 3 years old do have some safety problems, such as food safety, environmental safety, fire control and sanitation. And most of the teachers are preschool teachers, and they are not familiar with the nursing methods for children under 3 years old.
In May this year, the General Office of the State Council issued the Guiding Opinions on Promoting the Development of Infant Care Services under 3 years old, proposing that by 2020, a standard system of policies, regulations and standards for infant care services will be initially established, and by 2025, a diversified and diversified infant care service system covering urban and rural areas will be basically formed. Subsequently, Shanghai, Nanjing and other places have issued relevant guidance, but there are still many provinces and cities including Hainan that are still in preparation.
"Children can't just use it as an experiment." Wu believes that policy norms are only the first step. If the policy is to be put in place, it is necessary to show the sword of supervision. "It is necessary to standardize the development of the nursery industry with a highly responsible attitude towards families and children. The first is high standards, putting safety first, and then strict supervision to promote the healthy development of the nursery industry from the beginning, rather than waiting for chaos and then governance. "
Wu also suggested that the early nursing specialty for children aged 0-3 should be set up in secondary vocational schools or junior colleges, and early education courses should be added to the nursing specialty; Or add nursing content to the early education major and train more qualified nurses.
(Source: Talk about WeChat WeChat official account in half a month)