Bring the two children closer together.
For Dabao, Bauer's existence is equivalent to a "predator", taking away the love of parents, the attention of relatives, and his favorite toys and snacks. Especially when I saw my parents taking good care of Bauer, I wondered if my parents no longer loved me. When Dabao has such an idea, Bao's parents should not be vague and perfunctory. From the beginning, they should close the distance between the two children and seriously tell Dabao the significance of Bao Xiao's arrival. The arrival of Bao Xiao doesn't mean that you have been invaded and plundered. You are also the darling of your parents, and you will become relatives and good friends who grew up together.
Give them the same love.
Many parents know in their hearts that we should treat every child equally, but in real life, it is even difficult to level a bowl of water. Because of his young age, Bauer inevitably gets more attention from his family, while Dabao is more delicate and sensitive at this time. Baby parents should never ignore Dabao's feelings. The baby's parents should chat with Dabao on an equal footing, so that Dabao can understand why Bauer was born. With Bauer, you will have more fun than ever before. Mom and dad won't love you less because of Bauer. Bauer will love you when he grows up. If Bao's father, Ma Bao, can't love every child equally, and let the children grow up in a strange environment for a long time, it will cause irreparable scars and may not be released when they grow up. Su Mingyu in the TV series Everything is Fine, even though she later became a strong woman with a successful career, she still couldn't let go of the harm caused by her family's partiality to her parents.
Let children take the initiative to love.
Respecting the old and loving the young is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, but some parents are counterproductive because they force their children to be modest. If Dabao is unwilling to share and pay, it is actually a moral kidnapping for them. When two children quarrel, Bao's father and Ma Bao should never be referees and accuse Dabao indiscriminately. In the world of children, the sense of right and wrong is not strong. If Bao Dad blames Ma Bao blindly, TA may only love another child, because you just don't love TA.
Bao's father Ma Bao can teach them to love each other and cultivate Dabao's sense of responsibility, but don't force Dabao to always give in to Bauer. For children, love is also formed in long-term coexistence. If too many families love each other because blood is thicker than water, they should be taught how to love and let them support each other from an early age. Although they had quarrels when they were growing up, they were always inseparable. Of course, all this is based on the premise that Bob Baba watered it with love. Besides Bao Dad's words and deeds in his daily life, we can also solve the problems of the second-child family through books and picture books.