Teacher Xiaojin is a young post-90s primary school teacher. One summer two years ago, I came to the dormitory with great troubles, and this trouble was the relationship between her and her mother. She is very gentle, excellent and filial. She has a mother who doesn't agree with her, and then projects this disapproval on her daughter. No matter how good her grades are from childhood, no matter how excellent she is compared with other children, her mother is always dissatisfied and even scolds her. On the one hand, she loves her mother dearly, on the other hand, she is always depressed by negative treatment, which makes this love very painful and at a loss. We talked for a long time about the choice, acceptance and transcendence of everyone's life route. Trouble is bodhi. Behind every worry, there is a kind of wisdom that needs to be transformed. When she left, she happily took away a copy of Tao Te Ching, and since then, she has forged a deep fate.
Because the school where Mr. Xiaojin works is in Kunshan, he can't come to chat or book club every time, so he has always insisted on studying in the group, reading the moral classics, learning enlightenment and praying. With continuous enlightenment and self-awareness, I can understand my mother more and more, accept and even enjoy her expression. She often writes long thoughts and exchanges with me, and has a deep understanding of the wisdom in Tao Te Ching: all life relationships in life are an achievement. Whenever I have troubles, I remind myself to improve my energy, so I use the wisdom of Tao Te Ching to transform it. More than a year has passed, and my relationship with my mother is getting more and more harmonious. When I met her again, I saw that she was full.
It is precisely because of her growth in parent-child relationship that she has a heavy responsibility for the growth of children and parents in her class. She is determined to practice with her own life and put the best wisdom that can benefit children from life into the bag of children's life, so as not to live up to the growth of children's life.
So I began to arrange morning reading time to read classics with my children. Some parents don't understand. They came to Mr. Jin and said that the exam was coming soon. How to make children not spend a lot of time doing problems and reading textbooks every day? Teacher Xiaojin communicated with his parents attentively: The score of this exam is very important, but have you ever thought about how many social exams, life exams and even life exams a child has to go through in his life, so what he seems to be doing now is "inaction" and "uselessness", but classics are thousands of years of truth and wisdom, so it is really important and long to let children plant a seed of great wisdom!
. In this way, during the epidemic, I was isolated at home, punching cards with my children every day and reading Chinese classics such as Tao Te Ching. In the beautiful language, I spent a quiet and orderly time with my children. I was delighted to leave a message saying that the children recited the Tao Te Ching so quickly. I originally planned to read one chapter a day, but now I can read 4-6 chapters in two days. I unconsciously recited the Tao Te Ching with my children! In this process, she learned the important role of every quality in life, taught her children beyond words with her own practice, relieved her parents' anxiety with her own wisdom, and became a relaxed, harmonious and warm environment with her parents, nourishing her children's flower of life.
B At the beginning of school, this class, which was considered as "average", was among the best in several basic tests and achieved stable and excellent results. Teachers in other classes are surprised. They asked Mr. Jin, "Don't learn by rote" and "Don't let students be test sites". How did an average class improve rapidly after the epidemic ended?
In fact, many scientists, such as Dr. Yang, a Chinese-American scientist, have long found that reading classics can develop the connection between children's left and right brains at the same time, and open up children's inner wisdom, stillness and concentration. According to media reports, after the outbreak, many children have emotional problems, are unwilling to go to school, or are depressed. Many schools have psychological counseling teachers. Even so, many things should not happen. From the perspective of traditional Chinese medicine, "five tones nourish the five internal organs", and reading classics is not only to cultivate "wisdom", but also to cultivate "righteousness". "Righteousness exists, and evil cannot be done" children read classics every day, which is closer to nature. In a harmonious and relaxed environment, life energy is more likely to be nourished and increased.
The improvement of learning ability comes from teachers and parents working together to create a happy and loving environment. More importantly, teachers and parents influence children's quality and correct values in their daily life and study, so that children can easily surpass them in a happy and harmonious environment.
Teacher Jin's life has been changed, thanks to his study. He is determined to teach the wisdom of thousands of years of ancient sages in China to the people around him, and sow it in children's lives with wisdom, which will have an unimaginable impact on children's lives! Thank you for having such a teacher, tracing back to the source, inheriting the wisdom of Chinese traditional culture, influencing life with life, and illuminating children's hearts with life-long wisdom!
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