Su Dongpo argued with the abbot. Su Dongpo said: "The abbot is a pile of cow dung in my eyes." The abbot smiled and said, "The benefactor is a flower in my eyes." Su Dongpo tried to insult the abbot, but he shot himself in the foot. Because he has cow dung in his heart, he will treat others as cow dung. This is the problem of mentality.
The same rose, someone said: Oh, my God! There is such a beautiful flower on this thorn. Others said: bah! There is such a vicious thorn hidden under this flower. The same Venus, yes. Some people see lewdness, while others see art and beauty!
Han Niu has a famous saying: no matter how ugly things are, children can draw beautifully; No matter how beautiful a thing is, adults may paint it ugly. Yes, the child's heart is the most pure and flawless. In their eyes, all ugliness magically turned into beauty! However, some people have lost the opportunity to get close to beauty, appreciate beauty, experience beauty and understand beauty forever because of the injury of their hearts, which has caused great regret in life.
Unhealthy mentality not only keeps them away from beauty, but also makes them lose the chance of success. The wise Zhuangzi left us a thought-provoking story: a player who gambles with a casserole can give full play to his skills, but he gambles with gold, which is a big loss. Isn't this a matter of mentality? Excessive desire to win made Warren da's foot slip off the tightrope and die, which made Wang Hao miss the upcoming Olympic gold medal. However, Liu Xiang became a sprinter overnight, which shocked the whole world!
A healthy attitude gives people success, and also makes people who are temporarily in a gloomy life full of hope. Some people will feel depressed and depressed when they encounter difficulties. Listen to the voices of other people who have the same experience-"If winter comes, can spring be far behind?" As long as you have confidence, you can smell the breath of spring, and you have the courage to challenge difficulties, you will surely usher in the dawn after darkness. ""No matter how stormy it is, it's better than walking around. "This is what people in adversity really need.
Now, in the face of increasingly fierce social competition, some people have backed out. It is fear and inferiority that bind them! I am not as talented as he is; I am not as eloquent as he is; I'm not as bold as he is ... they often think so. The real enemy of these people is not their opponents, but themselves; They were not knocked down by others, but by their own inferiority. Their unhealthy mentality made them miss the opportunity. In fact, like others, you are also a landscape. You are not as talented as him, but you are diligent. You are not as eloquent as he is, but you are practical; You are not as bold as he is, but you are kind. Do you know all this?
We need a healthy attitude to make us feel beautiful, win success, tide over difficulties, dare to compete, forget and have no regrets. Friends, approach a healthy mind! Let's "bear the burden of humiliation and watch the flowers bloom in front of the court; I have no intention of staying, I am looking at the clouds in the sky. "