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Reading is not born to children. Only through edification and cultivation can children really embark on the road of reading. Let's take a look at this article, "Educating children, I am difficult before easy".
I saw an article today, which was very touching. It probably means educating children that it is easy first and then difficult, and easy first and then difficult. You always have to choose one. Remind parents that to educate their children well, they should cultivate good habits in all aspects at the initial stage of reading. Don't wait until junior high school has learning problems, and it's too late to get angry again. An example is used in this paper-a clever daughter, who didn't pay attention to her study in primary school, had a hard time studying in middle school, and her parents were very anxious and her children were also very anxious. Then the author focuses on how to cultivate children's good habits of doing homework and doing their own things as soon as they get home.
Here, I very much agree with the author's point of view. Difficult before easy. We should help children form good habits at the early stage of their growth, so that they can be in an invincible position in their future study and life. Gradually, family education can become simple and smooth. But I also found a loophole. Among the habits that need to be formed, the author pays attention to the habit of living and consciously doing homework, but ignores an important good habit. It is this good habit that determines whether children can gradually become relaxed and comfortable in their future studies.
Give a chestnut first. That's a student I taught. At that time, she was in grade six. Many children complain about too much homework and heavy homework pressure, but she gets excellent grades and is easy to learn. She always goes to school quietly, and has never seen her carrying a bag like a turtle shell. All her textbooks and exercise books are put in the school cupboard, and all her homework is done at school. Even if there is any homework completed on any day, it is only a small amount. When she comes home from school, there are only one or two books and a kettle in her small schoolbag. It's like going on an outing. What about extracurricular classes? There is only one English class. When I was in the fourth grade of primary school, I had written a book "M's Daughter", which was full of twists and turns, beautiful stories and gripping stories. Not self-funded, but officially published. Every year, she receives copyright fees from the publishing house. Maybe you will say that the child is a genius. Wrong, no genius, just because her parents love reading, she was lucky enough to be born in a scholarly family. According to her mother, when she was young, she often saw her parents reading and writing at their desks. In her childhood memory, reading has penetrated into the bone marrow and become a very normal thing. She is also very lucky to grow up to be a child who loves reading. The benefits of reading are definitely not only reflected in writing and publishing books, but also envied by many parents. In junior high school, of course, I was still the top one, and I easily won the second place in my grade. Not only is it easy to study, but she is also a successful person. She is a very popular figure in the class. She is humorous and eloquent, and she can often use language to resolve some minor disputes. I have deep thinking and understanding of human nature, but I am peaceful and honest with everyone and never offend anyone, even my best classmates. So she has many friends.
This is a real case. At present, she is still writing a new book while reading. Perhaps this talented young woman can only be regarded as "someone else's child" in the eyes of many parents. But in my teaching career of more than ten years, such students are not uncommon. No matter whether a book is published or not, children who have good reading habits and love reading books are very relaxed and familiar with people and things, and there are few signs of immaturity. Especially after the senior grade of primary school and junior high school, it highlights the deep imprint left by this ability on children.
So what makes them so loved by God?
I think reading habits open a door for them to know the world. Let their hearts be nourished and moistened in reading, and let their lives become richer and more open.
They cultivate good learning ability through reading, such as reading a book intently and intently, reading a book repeatedly and reading an author's works partially. When reading, students can predict, analyze, think, evaluate, compare, connect, demonstrate, draw conclusions and form ideas ... This kind of learning ability can't be taught by any teacher and is naturally acquired by students in reading. This kind of learning ability will inevitably be transferred to the study of other disciplines, which has a great influence.
In the early years of children's schooling, parents' main task is to help children develop the habit of reading in their mother tongue. Only when mother tongue reading keeps up, can other subjects keep up, and children's minds are in an excellent state of independent thinking and good at analysis. I remember Teacher Xiao Lai mentioned in an article that English learning has encountered an unbreakable bottleneck. Don't look for reasons in English. If you look for the key elsewhere, you will find that his or her mother tongue is not well studied. How can you improve your English? That's true. The acquisition level of mother tongue directly affects the acquisition level of English, mathematics and other subjects. The expressive ability of mother tongue has a direct impact on other subjects and even on various performances after work.
In the first few years of school, it is really not easy to cultivate children's reading habits. Because this age is a fun age, an exciting age, let him calm down and devote himself to the world described in books. How can he do it without some painstaking efforts? However, this painstaking effort must not be felt by children. What children need to understand is only the happiness and sense of accomplishment in reading. It's hard work, parents just have to bear it. It's easy before it's difficult, and time won't be owed to concerned parents.
Family Education Forum Comment Essay 2 Educating children is a very complicated matter and a great undertaking. It is the wish of parents all over the world to "look forward to the success of children and the success of women". From a small point of view, this desire can make a person proud and glorious. In a big way, it may create a nation's pride and even become a representative of civilization and progress. Unfortunately, as far as some parents are concerned, it is difficult to realize their desire to make their children successful. The following are my personal views on educating children.
1. Love children, respect children and be their bosom friends.
In life, we should respect children, treat them equally, establish a relationship of mutual trust and form close friends with them. Only in this way can we win their trust. Parents should love their children, maybe you will say that this truth is simple enough. What parents don't love their children? But some parents' love can't be accepted and recognized by children, so I often give my naughty son a kind hug, a shallow smile, a persuasive persuasion and a small gift, which will naturally make the child feel the love given by his parents and enhance his trust in his parents, so we parents should use love to cultivate his good behavior habits.
2. The premise of good communication between parents and children is listening.
Parents should put down their lofty posture, learn to communicate with their children on an equal footing, and calm down and listen to everything their children have to say. Even if you are busy and tired at this time, you should listen attentively and ask your child from time to time: "Is there anything interesting in school?" Are you satisfied with your performance in class? Did your smiling face increase again today? Whenever I ask my son this question, he is always excited to report everything to me. When he expresses his views on things, I will respect his opinions, discuss with him and give him enough confidence and self-confidence. I think it is very important to cultivate children's character. Listening is an art as well as a kind of learning.
3. Encourage children to dare to meet challenges
Today's era is an era of fierce competition, so it is necessary to cultivate children's sense of competition and the spirit of daring to meet challenges from an early age. In study, I often encourage my son to say: You are great, you are really smart, and you can answer such a difficult knowledge correctly. My mother admires you. He was very happy to hear this, which also aroused his enthusiasm for learning. When he was in trouble, I kept cheering him up. At this time, I will work hard with my child and infect him with practical actions, which has also been achieved.
Fourth, educate children to face setbacks correctly.
People will inevitably encounter setbacks in their lives. Suffering is a great wealth of life. Misfortune and frustration can make people sink, and can also cast a strong will and achieve a full life. Suffering is a good teacher in life. He can teach children to learn to treat all problems with gratitude and positive attitude, and bravely participate in social competition.
Verbs (abbreviation of verb) cultivate children's adaptability.
In practice, we use our intelligence and other factors to control ourselves, transform ourselves, and realize the unity of subjectivity and objectivity, thus ensuring the normal operation of Ming practice activities. It has been the basic ability to survive since ancient times. In today's era of rapid changes and fierce competition in human society, people need stronger adaptability. Whoever has strong adaptability will survive, develop better and succeed on the other side.
6. Reading with children
Parents and children can get happiness and satisfaction from reading together, feel love and warmth, and sometimes even fall in love with the book itself.
Daughter _ _ is x and a half years old this year, and she is a student in Class X, Grade X, experimental primary school in _ _ District. At present, she has excellent grades and a wide range of hobbies. Of course, this is inseparable from the hard education and patient guidance of teachers. Here, I would like to express my heartfelt thanks to all the teachers. Family is the second classroom for children's education, and parents are teachers' assistants. Children's education cannot be separated from parents' cooperation. Here I want to talk about my feelings about children's growth education:
1. Actively guide but don't force her hobbies: _ _ At present, the extracurricular interest classes mainly include painting and piano, and my educational method is mainly to guide her hobbies. I asked her for advice before she learned the piano. She didn't want to learn at that time, and I didn't force her. When she was almost X years old, I showed her a movie "The Pianist". She was moved by _ _ pianist's wonderful performance and humorous performance, and took the initiative to learn the piano, and has maintained a strong interest until now.
2. Love in life, but not love: As the child grows up day by day, we will let her do some small things in life, and sometimes we will let her help adults do something within their power. We want her to understand that she should not only read good books, but also learn to live and care for everyone around her.
3. Praise more when you get achievements, encourage more when you encounter difficulties, and face and solve them with your children: _ _ I have been learning painting for almost X years. X years ago, you studied gouache and drew very well. She once represented the Youth Palace in the _ _ Campus Painting Competition. At that time, she was the youngest participant in the Youth Palace and won the X prize in the children's group. This year, she began to learn sketch, which was much more difficult. At first, the posture of holding the pen was always wrong, and the ribbon cable didn't know where to start. The advantages before were gone, and she gradually lost interest in painting. She once said to me, "Mom, I don't want to learn to draw." I don't know anything about painting, but I don't want my children to give up halfway, so I look for videos online. Every time she paints, I stay with her and teach her patiently in the way I saw in the video. Sometimes I take her to draw while watching videos, and she makes rapid progress. Now every time she hands in her homework, the teacher says it's great and her interest is restored.
4. Communicate with the teacher more, keep abreast of the children's situation at school, and cooperate with the teacher to solve problems in time.
5. In addition, we should adhere to the principle: parents should grasp the general direction, cooperate with teachers to do a good job in students' study, strive to improve their academic performance, don't spoil them, and let their children learn to be independent from an early age and develop good study and living habits, such as packing their schoolbags after finishing their homework and preparing books for tomorrow's class.
6. In addition, parents should spend as much time with their children as possible, talk to them more, be their good friends, and let them play happily in their spare time instead of always being in a state of high pressure.
There are many methods of education, and different people have different views. I hope to have more exchanges and discussions with parents, improve their ability to educate their children, so that every child can grow up healthily and happily and have a wonderful childhood.
As the saying goes, "family is the first school for children, parents are the first teachers for children, and they are also role models for children to learn when they grow up." Therefore, good family education plays a vital role in children's life. When children were born, I attached great importance to their family education. Of course, I don't just teach my children to recite a few Tang poems, read a few children's songs and be familiar with a few Chinese characters, but teach them the truth and skills of dealing with people, so that they can develop a person with healthy mind and sound personality. Of course, for children who are only over two years old, vague teaching of abstruse truth can't make him understand the meaning, and children naturally won't accept it, so they need to start from bit by bit in life.
(A) to create a good family environment
Family harmony is very important for children's growth. Love between family members will help children learn tolerance, understanding, love, love others and love themselves. Without family care, children will become more and more indifferent and selfish. I have seen many cases, such as children's depravity, numbness and so on, all because the family lacks love. Imagine a child who doesn't even love his parents and family, will he still care about strangers? Therefore, we must create a warm and harmonious family life for our children and let them live a happy and worry-free life.
(2) Parents should set an example.
In family education, parents are role models for children, and what parents say and do will have a great influence on children inadvertently. Therefore, when parents ask their children to be polite and respect others, can they think about whether they have done so? I remember once, Han Han made a mistake, and I severely reprimanded him and said some harsh words, saying that if you do this again, I will hit you. I didn't think there was a problem at first, but later he actually learned this sentence and kept saying that I hit you. This makes me very sorry and sad. I regret that I shouldn't have said this to my children before. Sadly, my child said this to his mother. Therefore, when children can still correct, we parents must be cautious and think twice about our every move. No matter how angry you are, think about what effect I will have on the children.
(3) Appropriate rewards and punishments, seeking truth from facts, children losing their temper, cold treatment.
If the child is right, we should praise him positively. If the child is wrong, we should correct him in time. Reward and punishment should be measured, and enough is enough. Although education experts advocate praising children more now, I think this is something else because I have personal experience. Han Han played with building blocks when he was one year old. It was a mistake, but I think he gave him praise and encouragement the first time he played. I tried to promote his progress, but it backfired. On the contrary, every time I made a mistake, I became particularly stubborn. No matter what I said, he still wouldn't listen or accept it, which made me think that if I had corrected him when he first built it, maybe he wouldn't have appeared at this moment. Therefore, I insist that parents should seek truth from facts when praising their children, and should not praise them blindly. Of course, the criticism is more moderate. If you criticize too much, or even hit your child, your child will gradually become rebellious. The child did something wrong, but still insisted on using reason to persuade him that he could not turn over the old account. The most important thing is that what you say can make children understand and listen. Han Han did something wrong before, and I will tell him a lot of truth. As a result, he still went his own way. Later, after listening to the expert's advice, he made what you said more acceptable to children, instead of saying some vague truth. And when the child loses his temper willfully, he won't listen to anything you say, so my approach is to treat it coldly and let the child make trouble by himself. Parents can look on coldly. When the child feels that crying is meaningless, when he calms down, we will try to reason with him again, which will make him more acceptable. If we continue to tell him this and that when he loses his temper, it will only aggravate the situation. If the crying continues, then we can only take him away from the scene and distract the child, which may be better.
Let children learn to respect others.
Let children learn to respect others. First of all, parents should learn to respect their children. This is my consistent insistence. When Han Han was very young, I could squat down and listen to his advice. Some people may say what such a young child can think, but it is not. Although the child is young, he is still an individual. He has thoughts, and we should respect him more. For example, Han Han always brings toys when he goes out. At first, the child's grandfather always refused to let him bring toys, but after a long time, he didn't go out. Although the toy is put down, he will still cry for a long time. Now think about it, crying at that time may be because of dissatisfaction with the disrespect of adults. Later I discussed it with Han Han. At first, I discussed with him what toys to take out. Gradually, he took the initiative to discuss with me and became obedient. Even outside, when Han Han is with his children, I will teach him to respect others. For example, when he saw other children's toys and wanted to play with them, I taught him to discuss with them. "When you are not playing, you can give me the toy for a while, ok?" When other children want his toys, I will teach him, "Give the toy to this child for a while, will you?" Everything depends on the child's own wishes, and the wishes of adults cannot be imposed. I've made such a mistake before. When I was playing with my friend's children, I saw my friend's children crying and asking Han Han for toys. I always grabbed Han Han's toys for other children without thinking, so later Han Han got into the habit of grabbing them and crying as soon as he took them off while sleeping. I think that's when I hurt his self-esteem, and my disrespect for him caused him serious consequences, although at this moment, after time, Han Han has faded.
(5) Let children learn their own things as soon as possible, do it themselves, and cultivate their labor habits.
When Han Han just knew how to sit, we had put him on a stool to have dinner with his family. Although he couldn't eat by himself at that time, we insisted on showing him how adults eat, so Han Han slowly learned to eat by himself and learned to eat with chopsticks very early. As long as he can do things at home, he insists on doing them himself, such as sweeping the floor, washing vegetables, moving stools with chopsticks and so on. Many parents think that what children can do at such a young age is getting busier and busier. In fact, it is certain that he can't do well, but as long as he participates, if you always stop him from working, he will feel that his mother doesn't need me, and over time he will no longer be willing to do it. Moreover, the cultivation of work habits will make him cherish the fruits of other people's labor more, such as not littering toys, littering and so on.
(6) Create a learning environment for children and cultivate their study habits.
At one time, the family watched more TV, and Han Han watched more TV. Then I thought I couldn't do this anymore. So at this moment, my family learned to read, even if they didn't, so Han Han also learned to read. Although the time will not be long, the habit is cultivated slowly, and it will be fine to accumulate it bit by bit. As the saying goes, it is better to go to Wan Li Road than to study in thousands of books, so I will take my children out for a walk whenever I have time. Learning knowledge in nature is more acceptable to my children. Although education experts don't recommend children to learn ancient poems of Tang poetry at such a young age, I think reading these poems can cultivate children's aesthetic feeling and sense of rhythm, although children still don't understand them. As for children's songs and music, it is certainly beneficial to watch and listen more. The point is that Han Han likes these very much. I think it is most important to cultivate hobbies.
(7) Cultivate children's masculinity. B is unlikely to spoil children.
Han Han's father is often in other places, and Han Han doesn't see his father several times a year, so as a mother, I should be a good father as well as a good mother. So I always want to cultivate Han Han's masculinity intentionally or unintentionally, and I don't spoil him very much. For example, when Han Han fell, I never helped him up. I always encourage him to fall and get up, and then pat the dirty things on his body. If it's broken, even if it hurts, it won't show. Just tell him it's okay. So at this moment, Han Han fell down. As long as it's not serious, he hardly cries. Instead, he comforted me and said, "Mom, I'm fine!" " Although it seems that I am cold-blooded, I think I did the right thing, especially for a boy, we must cultivate his strong character and not be cowardly.
The above is my family education experience. Again, every child is an independent individual, so every child has his own unique personality. There is no universal education, only every parent keeps exploring and practicing in family education. Some people say that children are the second life of parents, and parents grow up in the process of children's growth. Let's grow up with them!
We believe that to educate children well, we must first set an example. Parents are the best role models for children. Only when they do it themselves will the children follow suit. If you just preach and teach, but you can't be a role model for your children, then this kind of education is just a treasure, and the defeated education won't work at all. At the same time, school education is equally important, and only the joint efforts of both sides can produce results.
My son's mother is currently a graduate student in a university. For children, this is something he is proud of and a kind of motivation. Although he didn't understand how hard it was for his mother to take the postgraduate entrance examination, he was deeply impressed by the sight of her reading quietly in the middle of the night. This is an example, which made him understand that only hard work can make his dream come true. The child has entered the first grade of junior high school. Although the mother is not around, under the inculcation of the father and the school teacher, the child has not only made progress in his studies, but also made gratifying progress in other aspects and became a sensible good child.
First, create a family learning atmosphere and let children develop conscious study habits.
My colleague told me that his daughter and niece were admitted to the university in the same year. His experience is to create a family learning atmosphere and let children develop a good habit of self-study. Every night after dinner, he and his wife go out for a walk. After the daughter and niece cleared the table, they went to do their homework. They went home. Children never watch TV when they are doing their homework. Everyone takes a book to read. After a long time, children will form a good habit of working and sleeping. Daughters and nieces often compare each other to see who studies well and who studies late. Last year, in the college entrance examination, both children passed the dream university with excellent results.
Second, cultivate children's interest, interest is the best teacher.
When my son was young, he liked playing computer games very much. I told him that if you can play, you can also play new tricks, such as making slides for other children. What a sense of accomplishment. So my son learned to make slides and often let other children appreciate and teach them. My son likes English at present. At the beginning, my classmate's daughter went to learn English and asked him to follow. Now, he is more and more interested and says to his mother, "There is a classmate in our class who speaks English very well. I want to be like him." I'm glad to see that children love learning English so much. I don't understand my son's Chinese very well, and I sometimes worry about him. I really hope that he can improve his Chinese to the first grade of ordinary X middle school, but my son said that he would continue to sign up for English, and I agreed happily.
Third, punish children appropriately, guide them with your heart, and be their good friends.
I remember when my son was a child, he once took money from his family and bought a lot of toys without his parents' consent. After we understood, we asked him to return the toy and gave him a good beating. He never made a similar mistake again. When my son was in grade X of primary school, his handwriting was very poor. I asked him to rewrite the words with wrong strokes x times. As a result, we quarreled. The son said that he had tried his best and it would be difficult to change for a while. I admitted my mistake to my son, pointing out that it was wrong for him to hit me, and my son admitted his mistake. At the moment, my son and I sometimes chat like friends and enjoy it.