Idolated, a middle school student, for the following reasons: 1 Worship psychology. Most of the stars chased by middle school students are handsome and charming, and most of them are brave and resourceful iron men. Women are ashamed of flowers falling in the moonlight, sinking fish and falling geese, and playing more charming, kind, gentle and graceful women; Stars also have heroic temperament, and they are more likely to have sex, which affects the overall situation on the field. These will inevitably make adolescent boys and girls envy, infatuate, worship and even crazy. 2. herd mentality. Among middle school students, idolatry is so common and powerful that those students who are not in much mood for idolatry have consciously or unconsciously entered this trend in order not to be regarded as "outdated" and "heresy". 3. Fashion psychology. "Idolization" is a fashionable thing in the eyes of many middle school students. As for whether it is reasonable and valuable, why care so much? As long as there are "stars" to "chase" is enough. Therefore, idolization is a normal psychological demand and behavior performance of middle school students, but we should grasp the discretion: 1. Don't idolize blindly. What you worship should be truly worthy of your worship. It shouldn't be superficial, but it should shock your heart. 2. Not crazy worship. Don't waste time and money on idolatry. Because the aura of a star should not cover your body, and idolization is nothing to boast about, let alone become the whole of your life. 3. Abandon the narrow mind. The idols worshipped by students have similarities and differences. We shouldn't be exclusive or even hostile to other students because of different idols. 4. Be good at learning positive life experiences from idols you worship. In short, don't lose yourself in idolization, because you can only be yourself in the end.
Six summaries
As we all know, without stars, the universe would be dark. Idols are called idols because they are excellent! "The power of role models is infinite", young people need role models, and idols must achieve great success in a certain field before becoming idols. Then, today's groupies may become stars tomorrow!
Life needs idols, and children need idols more. Idols enrich people's lives, make people's heartbeat stronger and make the purpose of life more clear! When a person dies, he looks back and finds that he has never had an idol. Doesn't he regret it? It's a pity that I didn't join the groupies in my life journey! Carefully choose a star worthy of chasing, take him as an example and idol, and while adding color to your life, the idea of "surpassing him and becoming a star" will stimulate your more potential!
Correctly understand the phenomenon of idolization and correctly guide the idolization complex, so that our middle school students can become the pillars and dazzling stars of building the country tomorrow.
Understand fashion and pursue beauty.
"Star" has become the goal and motivation of teenagers' life. There is no doubt that teenagers need role models. However, the traditional model education has always been based on the social tree, which is sometimes unsatisfactory, that is to say, the model of the social tree cannot win the sincere admiration and love of young people. The "idolization" of teenagers is different. "Stars" were discovered and established by themselves. They sincerely admire and worship it, willingly learn to imitate it, strive to improve themselves, and make themselves coincide with idols. This kind of learning is spontaneous, conscious and exists all the time, which is extremely important for the healthy development of teenagers' body and mind and is very beneficial to their future social development and career success.
The process of "idolization" enables young people to obtain the "secret" of success and the method of becoming talents. Almost every teenager is eager to succeed and become a conspicuous figure. They worship and follow the stars, find their hidden qualities in the success of the stars, gradually deepen their understanding of society, constantly test themselves, discover their shortcomings and consciously adjust themselves. They realized the reason of his success from the idol they worshipped, summed up the secret of his idol's success, and practiced it in combination with their own conditions. This will undoubtedly promote them to discover themselves as soon as possible and become talents. Showing one's talents to the society in this way is undoubtedly a contribution to society.
Discover talents for the society and introduce stars to the society. People must remember the "Wang Guozhen fever" that was all the rage in those days. At that time, the editors published some short poems in Wang Guozhen to fill in the blank space, which aroused waves in the hearts of teenagers. His poems deeply fascinated teenagers and regarded him as their own star. As a result, the manuscript of Wang Guozhen's poems and Wang Guozhen's later poems came into being, which finally set off a "Wang Guozhen fever". It can be said that they followed with their own enthusiasm and recommended Wang Guozhen to the society, which blew a youthful wind in the lonely poetry circle. This should be regarded as the contribution of the idolized family to society.
1 some singers are popular all over the country because of a song, which has aroused people's fanatical worship. Some singers' songs are beautiful, but the quality is far from the artistic conception expressed in the songs. The reason why people worship a singer is often attracted by his looks, temperament and singing skills, but how much do they know about his quality? Obviously, this kind of blind worship is not desirable. Idolatry has become a common and obvious problem among teenagers today. A 16-year-old Dalian girl committed suicide just because her mother didn't buy her a CD of her idol Leslie Cheung. This girl just can't stand her mother's criticism of idols, and even sacrificed her life for idols.
Blind worship, trendy games. Due to the particularity of teenagers' age, their knowledge level is limited, which makes a considerable number of teenagers lack in-depth understanding of their youth idols. Some teenagers don't even know what they really need or what their idols are worth emulating. They just blindly worship and learn, and as a result, they become unrecognizable and lose their precious nature and simplicity. Such idolization not only wastes good time, but also turns their idolization behavior into a new wave game of blind worship and boredom.
Lose yourself and waste your youth. I heard a story told by a friend: a girl had a brand-new feeling for rock stars because she listened to a rock concert. She collected all the songs and pasted photos of idols all over the room. She ran around like crazy and finally gave up everything to follow her idol. When she was rejected by her idol and sent home by her idol's friend, she said, it's over. I feel that my life has disappeared with her idol's rejection. In fact, everyone has your own personality and your beauty. You don't have to rely on the stars to light up your life. It is really not worth wasting energy for a distant "star" and wasting youth once in a lifetime.
Interfere with the normal life of a star. A popular female singer once told about the love of "groupies" for her: her doorbell broke down seven times in a month and the phone kept ringing. In fact, fans don't know that stars love fans, because fans make them feel the value of their existence; But stars are also afraid of groupies, because many fanatical groupies almost invade their private lives and interfere with their normal lives.
Spoil the stars. It is often said that XXX used to be a very good person, but now he is too big and angry. He accidentally offended people somewhere, and they said they wouldn't do it, and then they left, leaving you alone in a hurry. This is hard for most fans to think of and are unwilling to admit, but in fact there are many such things. Stars have to love themselves, which depends on themselves; But fans blindly worship and chase, which really makes them very light and ignorant. Therefore, don't think that "idolization" is only a personal matter, and others don't have to interfere.