First of all, pour out your heart. Talking is a kind of psychological demand of people, which can help you relieve psychological pressure and is the premise of analyzing and solving problems. Friends, classmates and relatives can all be people who listen to their hearts, but there are also inconvenient and inappropriate times. A psychological counselor who has no blood relationship or interest relationship with himself can listen to you patiently and have professional knowledge of psychology, which can help you analyze and solve problems.
Second, find the right problem. There are various types and properties of people's psychological problems, many of which are not mental diseases, but are caused in complex social life. Psychological counseling is to analyze the essence of the problems you are facing and find out the reasons.
Third, negotiate countermeasures. When a person is in the whirlpool of life, under the pressure of mental pressure, his thoughts are often blocked. The counselor is a bystander. He has a cool head and a more open mind. He can give you some reasonable suggestions to help you open your mind.
Fourth, balance emotions. Psychological counseling helps you to understand the essence of the problem and negotiate solutions by giving you an opportunity to vent your depressed emotions, so that your nervous mood can be alleviated and your mentality can be balanced.
Fifth, promote growth. The nature of school psychological counseling belongs to developmental counseling, which aims to help people grow up. In other words, we should not only help you deal with the current problems, but also improve your cognitive level, enhance your self-confidence, develop and perfect your personality by dealing with the current problems.
Of course, there is no panacea in this world, and the role of psychological counseling is limited. Therefore, in psychological counseling, the function depends not only on the knowledge and efforts of the counselor, but also on the wishes of the parties. Therefore, in order to achieve better psychological counseling effect, we should not only find a reliable psychologist, but also have the determination and confidence to cure ourselves.