Nowadays, it has become a social problem for children to play mobile phones, and they are getting younger and younger. No matter where you go and look around, few people, whether adults or children, have no mobile phones in their hands. Adults are intoxicated and children are fascinated. Playing mobile phone is probably the most tacit activity between adults and children.
But there are too many dangers and adverse effects of playing mobile phones, and almost every one is fatal.
First of all, it affects vision, so there are not a few babies wearing glasses.
Secondly, time is spent on mobile games, leaving little for learning. In the end, it is estimated that there is only a feeling that "young people don't work hard and the boss is sad".
In addition, distraction. Mobile phone is like a drug addiction in a child's heart, which makes him think about it all the time, unable to concentrate on limited time for learning and exploration, and the learning effect is further greatly reduced.
In addition, it also affects social interaction. They live in the virtual world of machines, divorced from the social interaction of the real world. In the long run, I am afraid that after entering the society, I will not even be able to deal with people.
Finally, how do you view your mobile phone? Bow your head for a long time? Atrophy "Ge You paralysis"? From the head, eyes, neck, shoulders, hands, waist, ischium to legs, most of them keep a posture for a long time, can they not get sick? At a young age, I fell into myopia, cervical pain, shoulder pain, hunchback and other diseases. When I was a parent, I didn't worry.
Therefore, there is not a parent who is not worried about this "disease". I am no exception. Dabao has been addicted to mobile phones since he was three years old. As long as you see your family playing, no matter who it is, come and grab it directly; If I take it back, it will cry and scream. In the community, too, when other children or adults watch, they gather together and stare without blinking.
I have a headache about it. You can't beat and scold, you can't rob by force, and it's unrealistic to lock your mobile phone. then what I have to look for answers from the internet and books. Unexpectedly, I really found an effective way to get rid of mobile phone addiction. Now the mobile phone and Ipad at home
It doesn't matter where you throw it.
0 1 If children don't play, parents should set an example first.
Where did children learn to watch mobile phones? Needless to say, it must be imitating adults. When I came back from work, my father buried himself in Tik Tok； like no one's watching. Mom stared at the phone and smiled. Adults play so high, how can they not attract children to watch curiously?
What's more, parents lose their mobile phones for their own comfort and not to make noise! It's easier to throw it in the past than to get it back! This irresponsible parenting style is absolutely unacceptable.
Therefore, in order to get rid of the child's cell phone addiction, my family made an agreement: don't take the cell phone in front of the child unless there is an urgent need to respond. When you have to use your mobile phone, please hide it and put it down immediately after use.
This time, you must not make any deal with your child on the condition of mobile phone. For example, don't show it to your mobile phone just to make her quiet or eat. Stop it!
Creating an environment without electronic products at home is very useful for correcting this bad habit of children.
On the one hand, I can seriously tell my children that mobile phones are not fun at all, and mom and dad don't play anymore. On the other hand, if you don't play mobile phones, you will spend more time with your children and do more interesting things with them.
Instead of playing games, it is better to brush online classes.
Children brush their mobile phones mainly to watch cartoons. Affected by the epidemic this year, online classes are hot. In order to do a good job in children's preschool education, I began to have a preliminary understanding of online preschool courses. Unexpectedly, those courses are all displayed in the form of animation.
I suddenly had an inspiration. Since I like anime, I might as well let her take classes online and learn something while enjoying anime. So, she and I started an online class trip. In fact, I didn't have any idea at that time, fearing that she would be more addicted to mobile phones. The family is even more unanimously opposed.
Faced with doubts and worries, I have to accompany my children to all online classes. Besides guiding her to think, I also supervise her. Don't let her lose her temper and waste her time. At the same time, make a good course arrangement, not only combining arts and sciences, but also taking a break in the middle, interspersed with games or dances, and don't let her face the electronic screen for a long time.
I watched it on my mobile phone at first. Later, I learned that the bigger the screen, the less damage to the eyes. I also bought a tablet for this purpose. At the same time, as soon as she punched in, I took away the tablet or mobile phone and couldn't let her continue playing.
Perhaps the class meets the demand for animation. She didn't cry even though I took the electronic products away.
When I bought a tablet at that time, I was worried that when I was not at home, my child would lock it in the cupboard with a tablet. Aren't many mothers like this? If you don't tell me, the child will watch it all day.
Therefore, I am glad that I am not afraid to put my tablet anywhere. When I come back from school, I will open it occasionally and listen to music. Most of the time, she doesn't remember.
This reminds me of Teacher Zheng's book Family Education. He mentioned in the book "What methods have I used to keep my children from indulging in the Internet" that if you don't want your child to play anything, just give it to him and satisfy him; The more you give this thing to your child as a prize, the rarer it is, the rarer it is to give it to your child, which can only make him addicted. So, his children like playing computer, so they buy them for him. Children have been addicted to games for a while, and the whole family will play together, even adults are playing. Children naturally feel bored and don't continue.
Maybe it's the same reason that I bought an Ipad for my children to watch online animation classes.
Outdoor activities are very necessary.
Why can children consciously not play mobile phones when they come back from kindergarten without my supervision? Because when the weather is fine, grandparents usually take her to play in the garden of the community, sometimes they will run wildly with other children, sometimes they will step on the car, and sometimes they will doodle on the court.
Let her spend her time playing outdoors, how can she still think about cold electronic products?
On weekends, my father and I drove her to Zhou Bianyou, such as visiting fields and parks, which is not only beneficial to physical and mental health, but also more harmonious parent-child relationship.
If you have time, you might as well take your children out to play more. Even if you are busy at work, make time to give your child a parent-child weekend. Children have only one childhood, and they can only regret missing their parents.
What's more, a family doing happy things together can also save children from cell phone addiction. What are parents hesitating about?
Home-based parent-child creative interaction makes the mobile phone cool.
At home, in addition to online learning, we also created many parent-child interactive games, such as origami, paper-cutting, plasticine rubbing, wood piling, graffiti, dancing and role-playing.
Although there is not much space at home, there are two playgrounds specially reserved for children, one in the living room and the other in the master room. Books, papers, pens and other toys are left in both places, so that children can play wherever they are.
Of course, it may look messy, but the advantage is that you can play with it at will. After the game, I will also ask her to clean up, or, accompany her to clean up and exercise her good living habits while playing.
Since the birth of these games, she only likes to drag her parents to play together. I don't know where she lost her mobile phone.
05 written at the end
According to the related articles in Psychology, people who are addicted to electronic products should be psychologically satisfied with the lack of emotional care. Emotions that cannot be realized in real life have to be obtained from the virtual world of electronic channels.
He who tied the bell must untie the bell. On the one hand, parents should be aware of the dangers of their children's addiction to video games, on the other hand, they should take the initiative to spend more time with their children, play all kinds of games that children like, take their children everywhere to eat, drink and have fun, and fill their children's time and eager hearts with their parents' love.
With the full love of parents, which child will be addicted to mobile phones and watching TV?