1995, 28-year-old Venus endured physical pain and ridicule from the outside world and had sex-change surgery. Since then, Venus has completely changed from a man to a woman. At that time, under the condition of extremely conservative thinking, it is conceivable how much mental pressure and inner pain Venus suffered.
But in the end, Venus, who firmly believed in her heart, got her wish, and her daughter lived more like the protagonist in the movie than before.
Venus is not the only transsexual person in China, but it is the most wonderful among transsexuals. Liu Ting, who is a transsexual with Venus, is different from Venus in that life in Liu Ting is more difficult.
In her early years, she experienced her mother's serious illness and her father's departure. Later, she was admitted to the university, but in order to accompany her mother to school. Finally, after suffering, she should have enjoyed the rainbow after the rain, but she was pushed to the forefront of public opinion.
First, unyielding flowers in difficult families.
1986, Liu Ting was born in an ordinary family in Sara Town, Huzhou City, Zhejiang Province. The birth of a child is happy for the mother, especially when the first child dies. Liu Ting's mother, like all mothers, sat in a hospital bed, smiling and holding an innocent Liu Ting.
But like all stories, the protagonist always has an unhappy childhood. Liu Ting's father is a laid-off worker. He was depressed all day because he was laid off, and he drank all day to drown his sorrows. Liu Ting's mother is a full-time wife. After giving birth to Liu Ting, she has to shoulder the burden of the family before confinement. She has to appease her depressed husband and is busy cleaning up the housework.
The newborn Liu Ting is obviously unlucky. When he was born, the days of suffering began.
Because of Liu Ting's birth, family expenses increased sharply. Maternity expenses, nutrition expenses and the pressure after the baby is born make the laid-off father very anxious. Especially when the family's meager income is about to run out, my father's temper is getting worse and worse. He began to quarrel with Liu Ting's mother. The quarrel between two people usually starts because of some trivial things, but in the end both of them will fight.
Women's skills are naturally inferior to men's. Liu Ting's mother has been covered with scales and mountains because of repeated beatings, but like all violent men, Liu Ting's father always coaxed Liu Ting's mother, hiding in the corner and crying silently after domestic violence. Liu Ting's mother decided to divorce every time, but every time she was softened by Liu Ting's father's apology and complaint.
It's the same routine every time, but Liu Ting's mother doesn't know it.
Of course, Liu Ting, who grew up in this environment, was also branded as afraid of men early. Perhaps it is for this reason that Liu Ting, who hates herself more and more, made up her mind to have a sex-change operation.
There is no doubt that this family will be broken, but with the help of Liu Ting's father, this family is still in a shaky state. So, what will happen after that, which will cause Liu Ting's father to leave this house and find another lover?
First, the family suddenly changed, and Liu Ting's father ran away.
In a blink of an eye, Liu Ting has grown from the four-legged little gold-swallowing beast to a young boy, but just as Liu Ting is about to be sensible, new changes have taken place at home.
When Liu Ting 13 years old, his mother was suddenly diagnosed with uremia. Because there is no suitable kidney source, and even if there is a suitable kidney source, this low-income family can't afford the high cost at all. In the face of Liu Ting's mother, there are only two ways, one is dialysis and the other is kidney transplantation. But obviously, the latter has long been denied by family income, but even the former, this family can't afford it at all.
This news is undoubtedly a bolt from the blue for young Liu Ting. Liu Ting wanted to hold her mother's hand and bury her head in her chest, but the sensible child knew that it would undoubtedly make her despair, so she silently held back the tears that would fill her eyes and showed the strength of a little man in front of her.
A good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts June. In the face of ruthless diseases, mother and son can still bite their teeth and struggle hard, but in the face of Liu Ting's father's remarks, they collapsed and cried.
Liu Ting's father said to Liu Ting's mother who was still dying, you will die sooner or later! This sentence is like a thorn in Liu Ting's mother and son's heart, but Liu Ting's father ignored it. After leaving this hurtful remark, he went home to pack his bags and left home.
Bad news keeps coming. Liu Can walked alone with her mother's burden?
In fact, Liu Ting has not been intimidated by successive setbacks. Instead, he became more and more determined.
Second, Liu Ting is unwilling to give in and face it bravely.
Facing the reality, Liu Ting will not change because of imagination. Liu Ting, like other children, has a healthy and happy childhood, but this is an extravagant hope for young Liu Ting. After finishing the course, he had to do odd jobs to earn a meager income.
But this 50-60 income is nothing compared with the high cost of dialysis. Fortunately, after Liu Ting's case was known by the school, the school organized students to raise money for the whole school.
This fundraising not only brought some medical expenses to Liu Ting, but also attracted some people's attention to Liu Ting, laying the foundation for him to launch a nationwide fundraising in the future.
With the help of the public, Liu Ting still takes care of odd jobs and studies. Finally, with the unremitting efforts of Liu Ting, Liu Ting was admitted to Zhejiang Agricultural University in 2005.
However, at the same time as the good news came, a realistic problem was also placed in front of Liu Ting's mother. Where does the tuition come from?
Tuition is a difficult problem, but Liu Ting is most concerned about her mother.
He is worried that his mother will be lonely at home alone and it will be sad to recall the past. Considering this situation, Liu Ting made a surprising decision: he would go to school behind his mother's back.
The fact that Liu Ting walked with his mother on his back in the middle of school has always touched many people's hearts. The story of him going to school behind his mother's back was reported to the media by the school, and the media quickly rushed to report it. With the media reports and the help of caring people from all walks of life, Liu Ting's life finally got better.
But public opinion is a double-edged sword, which not only pays attention to Liu Ting Modo, but also lays a thorn for Liu Ting's later degeneration.
Why does Liu Ting want to be transsexual?
It turns out that congenital heterosexual diseases are the culprit.
Third, the final decision was made after a fierce ideological struggle.
As early as a few years ago, Liu Ting had many psychological consultations because of his own problems. He told his counselor that he was troubled because although he had a man's appearance, he always had a girl's heart in his heart. When he was a child, he liked Barbie dolls. He likes to decorate his room with pink.
With the help of psychological counselors, Liu Ting was diagnosed as a congenital heterosexual disease in the hospital. After the diagnosis, Liu Ting turned herself into a girl through sex-change surgery. However, at that time, deformation was not widely recognized by the public. People regard people who want to be transsexuals as aliens and always look at these "men and women" in a strange way.
Liu Ting also had a fierce ideological struggle in his heart. He is afraid of being accused by others, and he is afraid of the strange eyes of others after transsexuality.
Fortunately, my mother is Liu Ting's strong backing, and she supports Liu Ting's idea of transsexuality. She warned Liu Ting that there was nothing wrong with strengthening her inner thoughts, so Liu Ting resolutely stepped onto the operating table with her mother's encouragement.
The operation was successful, and now Liu Ting, as a woman, looks slim.
Liu Ting is like a caged bird. Although she was bound by the hardships of life, she never gave up the struggle.
This may be the reason for her success.
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Public opinion is a double-edged sword, which can give economic support to Liu Ting and add a ruthless rumor to the transsexual incident in Liu Ting.
How can Liu Canting, who is in it, break through many obstacles and finally meet her ideal self when she can't firm her inner thoughts?
Life is a game against yourself, but unlike games, there is no chance to turn it off and start again. I hope each of us can strengthen our hearts and live our ideal life. Don't wait for yourself to turn around, leaving only regret and unwillingness.