In 2000, after graduating from a middle school in Sanming, Wu Mou in Meilie District "experienced life" everywhere. It is meaningless for him to start a company at home. After walking more than half of China, I finally got tired, so I took my parents' money to attend various training classes, which looked quite substantial. However, when he "studied" and went home, he still stayed at home and chatted online. Wu Mou's father told reporters, "When I was young, we all spoiled him too much. Now as long as he studies hard and doesn't make trouble, the rest will follow him. "
He, who lives in Beilu, has been unable to find a suitable job since he left the army last year. Besides staying at home surfing the Internet and sleeping, he just smokes, drinks and goes clubbing with friends. There are six or seven hundred dollars in expenses every month, and they still shout that they have no money all day. His family advised him to go out and look for a job, but he had his own reasons: "Those jobs are either manual labor or often overtime. Regardless of fatigue, the salary is not high. What can I do? "
"As soon as we talked about looking for a job, he quarreled with us. What can we do? Can't leave him alone, can only let him ... "Dad mentioned this matter, can't help but shake his head and sigh.
Physically, he is an adult, but psychologically, he is not weaned. This is the * * * nature of a "neet" like Wu Mou. The reporter learned from their families that because they are young, there are many employment opportunities, but they are either under too much pressure or think that their income is low, and they have fallen into a situation of too high and too low. Can you defend your "ideal"?
There is also such a group of people among the "NEET": they frequently change jobs and take postgraduate examinations, always thinking that they will have a better future in the future.
After Zhu graduated from a university in Xiamen this year and returned to Sanming, he changed three jobs in just four months. Every job was done for less than a month, and he left without getting paid. She either feels that the place where she works is not good, or she feels that the treatment is not good. She is bent on finding a foreign trade job in a big company, but her major is not right, so it is difficult to get it. At present, in order to find a job, she and her classmates rented a house with three bedrooms and one living room in Xiamen, which cost 900 yuan per month. Coming from a poor family, she just wants to get ahead. ...
Zhang, whose parents live in Sanyuan District, graduated from Jimei University Institute of Technology. After several disappointments in finding a job, he came to the conclusion that the salary of undergraduates is too low and they need further study to have a future. So, he rented a house near Xiamen University to prepare for the postgraduate entrance examination. The monthly rent plus living expenses is about 1200 yuan, which is paid by parents. Zhang doesn't want to go out to work or * *, thinking that this will affect his postgraduate entrance examination. Although his parents didn't approve of him very much, he agreed because his family was fairly well off.
Zhang told reporters that after graduation, he can find a better job than now, and his salary will be much higher than now. He will repay his parents twice.
The ideal "NEET" basically knows the hard work of their parents and expects to repay them, but they feel that it is not yet time. If they find a job casually now, they may not be able to support themselves, let alone be filial to their parents. It's hard to get a job by parents. Take it for granted?
What if you have a family and children, but you don't have a fixed income? At present, there are still a group of "neet people", who are vividly called "3040" and live on the meager retirement salary of their elderly parents. Lin, who lives in Baisha, was laid off again shortly after her husband died. Her parents saw that it was difficult for her to live alone with her children and asked her to move back to her parents' house. She found some jobs, but she was old, had no technical expertise and couldn't find a good job, so she had to live with her parents with her children. Lin occasionally does odd jobs and earns two or three hundred yuan a month. Her son has been in high school this year, and his tuition and living expenses are basically funded by his parents. After Chen Mou and his wife, who live in Dongxin Second Road, were laid off from the textile enterprise 1996, the couple set up a stall to sell needles, thread and brains in Meilie market. When business is bad, their daily net income is less than 10 yuan, and their life is hard. They had to foster their son, who had already entered middle school, in his mother's house. My mother is a retired worker in a textile enterprise, with a monthly income of only 500 yuan. It is this meager salary that supports the life of the old man himself, Chen Mou's grandmother and Chen Mou's son.
It is an unavoidable reality that employment is difficult and life pressure is great. However, the elderly support their adult children ... >>
Question 2: How to treat the NEET? It is said that there is a new generation-NEET. Simply put, the NEET is a group that has graduated but has no employment. Although they didn't get anything, they were generous. The emergence of this group has its own personal reasons, parental reasons and social reasons.
At present, the social phenomenon in China is the high-speed economic development as a whole, and on the other hand, the continuous flow of labor for the society. There seems to be inexhaustible potential and a large number of surplus labor. Especially in recent years, after the expansion of colleges and universities. There are more than 4 million college graduates every year. Great employment pressure is affecting China society. It makes it difficult for modern young people to find a job, and it is even more difficult to find an ideal job. The family planning policy has been fully implemented in China since 1980. Produced a large number of only children. Only child. That is the apple of my parents' eye. At that time, I was afraid of freezing in my hand, but I was afraid of melting in my mouth. I asked the moon not to give it to the stars. They grew up in an environment where their parents doted on them. Life is smooth sailing, sailing fast on this warm boat on the channel designed by my parents. Needless to say, there have been setbacks and blows, and even small grievances have never been suffered. Xin Wei, who has never experienced wind and rain, finally grew up in the greenhouse, but how can she become a towering tree without experiencing wind and rain? When it comes to employment, I suddenly find that the employment pressure and the cruelty of competition in the original society are unprecedented. They are fresh graduates and have no work experience. So the door to employment is often closed to them. Let alone find an ideal job. This generation can't eat this door. They simply chose not to work because they were not worried about food and clothing. The glitz of life drives the hearts of these young people, such as comparison, vanity and restlessness. So they reach out to their parents for money, and those who don't know how to make money are more generous. Therefore, there is a popular saying in the society that "I am unemployed, my parents are willing to light a lamp, I have had three full meals, my limbs are weak, my facial features are correct, my six parents deny me, I am willful, I am happy in all directions, I can't sit still for nine (long) days, and I am useless".
Of course, old people are not really useless. They have college degrees ―― glittering gold-lettered signs. This is a proof of their knowledge. It's just that they grew up in a doting environment. Faced with fierce employment pressure, they have repeatedly hit a wall and can't find an ideal job. Faced with setbacks, they chose to escape. And parents only know how to spoil blindly, but ignore their escapism, fear of difficulties and lack of guidance. You know, parents are old after all. When you are old, what about those children who have no ability to live? Say again, "It's my father's fault to raise and not teach." If parents only know how to satisfy their children materially, they will not guide them. It's not love that makes children unable to survive, it's wrong. Therefore, parents must guide their children and establish a correct outlook on life and values. This is to give children a lifetime of wealth, but also to make children become ideal and useful people.
What about the children who are gnawing at the old? You know the country, when you enter middle age, that is, the age when China's population is aging, you have a heavy task on your shoulders. A couple is carrying four old people and a child on their shoulders. Only when you work hard, face setbacks and difficulties, persevere, go forward and face reality objectively can you shoulder the heavy responsibility of the times, gain a foothold in society and prevent your parents from working hard for your simple life. You know, only the trees you plant will bear the sweetest fruit. Old people in need, you can only keep up with the times with confidence, courage and hard work. You know, today's society is an era of knowledge economy. If we stop studying and exercise our abilities in work and reality, the knowledge we have learned in the ivory tower will soon become obsolete. At that time, I'm afraid I was a real useless person and a real social burden. I'm afraid it's even harder to be useful and self-reliant.
In society, despite the rapid economic development. However, if the economic growth rate of 1 1.5% is subtracted from the inflation rate of 6.5%, the actual growth rate is only 5%, and China's economic growth is driven by investment, so the increase of new jobs is later than the economic growth, plus the expansion of colleges and universities in recent years. The difficulty of people's employment can be imagined, so I think in view of the current long-term economic growth model, which has brought so much pressure on resources, why not increase investment in high-tech industries and high-paying service industries? On the one hand, it increases the employment of talents, on the other hand, it makes our economic growth model more reasonable and scientific, and also promotes the harmonious development of society ...
Question 3: What do you think of the neet people who have the ability to work, but give up employment opportunities and live at home with the help of their parents? No matter to society or parents, it is selfish and irresponsible! Need to be old, a controversial phenomenon at the forefront of public opinion, shows the shortcomings and disadvantages of family education in China. Because of the overindulgence and preference for children, children lack independent consciousness and ability in economy, psychology and life after adulthood, thus forming the habit of relying on their parents' life. People in need are either self-righteous, uneasy about the status quo, lazy or ignorant, and subjectively lose their enthusiasm; Lack of determination has become the biggest obstacle and excuse for them to get old. The existence of NEET has undoubtedly become a stumbling block to social progress and economic development, which is unfavorable to individuals, families and life!
Question 4: What do civil servants think of young people's neets? "NEET" refers to those young people who have grown up and have the ability to make a living, but are idle at home and still rely on their parents for support.
Objectively speaking, some "neet people" don't take the initiative to "neet the old", they take the initiative to work and live. However, in real life, social and environmental factors, such as difficult employment, great social competition and high housing prices, objectively urge the younger generation to "get old" and "eat old". There are also some "neet people" who lack the courage to face the difficulties encountered in their work and life, can't afford setbacks and pressures, choose to escape, do nothing all day, and be "neet people".
The phenomenon of "NEET" has aroused widespread concern and discussion in society. We should analyze this phenomenon fairly and objectively.
On the one hand, the "NEET" exists because it has a corresponding material basis. This shows that since the reform and opening up, the living standards of China people have improved significantly, and their family income and wealth have also been increasing. On the premise of ensuring basic living, some families still have Yu Liwei children to provide financial assistance.
On the other hand, the "NEET" more reflects some problems existing in the current society: objective factors such as high living costs and difficult employment lead young people to be forced to "NEET"; For idlers, the existence of "NEET" shows that some young people in this era have not the ability and spirit of self-reliance. In the long run, it will not be conducive to the healthy growth of teenagers, to the formation of a healthy social atmosphere in the whole society, and to family harmony.
First, long-term "gnawing at the old" can easily lead to young people's low ability to live independently. Young people's excessive dependence on their parents will inevitably lead to their poor ability to adapt to fierce social competition. After entering the society, they have a serious idea of "waiting, relying on and wanting". Once they encounter difficulties, they will have a feeling of withdrawal and depression. Second, when the "NEET" changes from "helpless transition" to "active choice", the fighting spirit of the "NEET" will be completely dispelled, they will feel at ease, regard the NEET as their own living state, and become weak-willed, which is not conducive to the formation of a positive social atmosphere. Third, the emergence of gnawing at the old will also form a strong economic burden on gnawing parents, which is not conducive to family harmony and stability.
We must pay attention to the phenomenon of "NEET" and give correct guidance and help to the youth of "NEET".
First, * * *, the society should relieve the pressure on those passive "neet people", give them appropriate help in life, study and work, and reduce the living cost and job-hunting risk of young people. Relevant departments should encourage and support young people, especially college graduates from poor rural families, to register for unemployment through the cheapest and quickest way (such as the Internet), so that unemployed young people can get corresponding basic living allowances and employment guidance in time.
Second, families should adjust their educational concepts in a timely manner and should not spoil their children too much. Parents should learn to "let go" appropriately, gradually cultivate their children's viability, hone their will, mature and dare to face setbacks and difficulties.
Third, the most important thing is that the younger generation should strengthen their study and change their concept of employment, especially those "neets" who lack the ability to live independently. They should be able to establish a correct and pragmatic outlook on employment and life, learn to grow up in failures and setbacks, learn to stand on their own feet as soon as possible, and become a responsible and useful youth to society.
In a word, whether the younger generation of a country can grow up healthily determines the future and development of the whole country. We must pay attention to the phenomenon of "NEET", and all parties should make concerted efforts with Qi Xin to enable young people to find jobs smoothly, live independently and take responsibility.
Question 5: According to the social reality, talk about your understanding of the phenomenon of "NEET". Now, some young people are not unable to find jobs, but have voluntarily given up employment opportunities and stayed at home. They not only depend on their parents for food, clothing, housing and transportation, but also often spend a lot of money. Well-known fast food restaurants, fashion shops, high-end KTV, fashion hair salons, Internet cafes and game halls have become their gathering places. Fashion clothes, high-end mobile phones, brand-name cigarettes ... have all become the capital for them to compare. People often give such a group of people a name, called "old man", or more severely, called "old man".
On the one hand, they are hardworking, white-haired parents who work tirelessly to earn money to support their families, on the other hand, they are children who are constantly nursing in their parents' arms. On this issue, China is "in line with international standards". There is another phenomenon abroad. Adult children who have graduated from universities in their twenties still rely on their parents for support, but there are fewer. At present, the NEET in our country refers to those young people who do not go to school, work or participate in vocational training after compulsory education. Why do they become "neets" at a young age?
More than ten years of vocational education left a deep impression on me. In the face of today's adult children, an "older" child who refuses to wean, parents are miserable. "Too hard" and "too tired" not to make money are almost the reasons used by all "neet people" to refuse to work. In this way, young people squander their youth and energy, while elderly parents are immersed in "too hard and too tired" work to make a living. In modern society, the story of twenty-four filial piety is gradually forgotten. It is really sad that parents nowadays have no choice but to "cut meat and raise children".
Why is it difficult for "NEET" to find jobs? I think there are three reasons:
One is that you have the ability to get a job and don't want to get a job.
Such young people lack a sense of responsibility and self-confidence. For them, there is no job to escape from the immediate difficulties, but they don't live a chic life. After all, the future is uncertain, life is empty, and they bear greater psychological pressure than others, so they take game halls, Internet cafes and shopping malls as gathering places every day. With the increase of age and the extension of non-working hours, their communication with society is less and less, and their adaptability will also decline, making it more difficult to adapt to the requirements of work in the future.
The other is that parents spoil their children and make them unemployed.
At present, some parents like their children very much. They always think that there is some spare money at home, and they are afraid that their children will be tired. So they can't bear to let their children join the society too early, and always hold them in their arms too early. Therefore, they have become dependent on their clothes to make ends meet. Over time, they became unwilling to work and lost their employability.
Another is the current social atmosphere.
The current social employment atmosphere is almost afraid to mention. To get a good job, you have to have money. Some people can do it even if they don't have the ability. This has a bad psychological impact on young people today. When my classmates communicate together, they often mention these problems. Who has money? Some people can find good jobs without studying, but we have no money no matter how good we study. Some people can only do odd jobs and work hard for others all day. It is better to have enough fun now and be really sad after listening to things. I think this is also a failure point of employment and vocational education in our society today.
I think our society and parents should help them create opportunities, cultivate their skills and knowledge structure, and make them adapt to the needs of work and entrepreneurship. In addition, it is necessary to cultivate their sense of responsibility and self-confidence and let them take the initiative to assume social and family responsibilities. Of course, the key to changing their lives is themselves. Only by correcting the employment attitude can we get rid of the immediate predicament.
I appreciate the idea that "NEET" is like a pot of boiling water. When the firewood for social and economic development is insufficient, when the firewood for family education and school education is defective, and when the firewood of our own quality is lacking, can this pot of water be boiled?
Therefore, I think it is better to help them find jobs than to let their parents support them. This requires support and guidance in training, employment orientation and many other aspects. More importantly, the "NEET" needs to strengthen their study and change their employment concept. The fire was high when everyone gathered firewood, and the pot of water boiled.
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Question 6: How to evaluate the NEET refers to the young people who have reached adulthood and have the ability to survive in society. They also rely on their parents or relatives to support themselves and survive without "weaning". Is a negative phenomenon.
Reasons for the emergence of NEET:
1, the main reason is:
The economic downturn in the macro environment. The society's ability to absorb employment is insufficient, the conditions for starting a business are not ideal, and the economic foundation and network accumulation needed for starting a business are relatively high. The education received by the younger generation is divorced from social reality.
2. Subjective reasons:
Post-80s and post-90s generally have higher requirements for employment and poor psychological endurance. Social pressures such as housing and car purchase have a great influence on their physical and mental health, which leads many people to choose to support the elderly in order to escape the pressure. Secondly, it is also an important reason that the younger generation's own education and knowledge level are not too hard. Afraid of hardship, unwilling to go out to work to support themselves.
3. Objective reasons:
The doting families of "the second generation of power" and "the second generation of wealth" make them unwilling to work, and the social development in the transitional areas is unbalanced, which leads to the saturation of work in the eastern coastal areas and the shortage of labor in the western areas. Therefore, the employment pressure of young people in the eastern region has generally increased, and many young people can't find jobs, so they can only choose to "live on their laurels". Income is seriously out of proportion to prices. We are a rural family. When I was a child, my parents liked us very much. They don't need us to do anything, such as washing clothes, cooking, washing dishes and sweeping the floor. They only ask us to study hard and do our homework. Their idea is that they would rather suffer for themselves than the next generation. This is the background, but my brother doesn't study well. He graduated from junior high school and didn't go to senior high school, then spent money to go to a technical school in Hunan. No, I chose a computer major, fell in love at school, surfed the Internet for 4 years, and finally didn't get a diploma … I spent tens of thousands of dollars and went to work outside for about a year, which is to be continued …
Question 7: Experts believe that the characteristics of NEET, also known as "eating the old" or "near the old", or Nite, is the transliteration of NEET in Taiwan Province Province, whose full name is (currently not engaged in employment, education or training), which was first used in Britain and then gradually used in other countries; Refers to some ethnic groups who do not study, find jobs, pursue advanced studies, participate in employment counseling and do nothing all day. In Britain, Nite means 16 ~ 18 years old young people; In Japan, it refers to young people aged 15 ~ 34.
"People in need" are not unable to find jobs, but actively give up employment opportunities and stay at home. They not only depend on their parents for food, clothing, housing and transportation, but also often spend a lot of money. "NEET" is a young person aged between 23 and 30 who has the ability to make a living, but has not been weaned and depends on his parents to support him. Sociologists call it the "new unemployed group".
Question 8: What do you think of the "NEET" phenomenon among some young people in modern society? Because the social competition is too fierce, the only child is often beaten by this society because he is too loved by his family. Families and individuals have their own reasons. Personal reasons account for the majority.