First, stay away from greasy and bureaucratic people.
In college, there must be such a person around you: dressing up all day is a suit and tie, carrying a briefcase, and full of bureaucratic "Hello, Chairman Li and Minister Zhang". Without any skills, I will only lick my teacher, lower my grade, and be full of snobbery and superiority when dealing with people.
When you meet such a person, I advise you to stay away from him. I don't advise you to make friends with him, let alone fall in love with him.
University-is the second development and construction period of your world outlook. What kind of people you make friends with and fall in love with will often greatly affect your future life and social thinking mode.
When you fall in love with such a person, he won't teach you what maturity is. On the contrary, it will make you mercenary and annoying in the eyes of people around you.
When you fall in love in college, you can find those capable members of the opposite sex to make yourself excellent. But don't look for people who are "incompetent and only posturing". It is a fact that the people near Zhu Zhechi and Mexico are black.
Note: such people often hang out with unhealthy students' unions.
Second, it is best not to choose a long-distance relationship.
. I just suggest that you don't choose a long-distance relationship, but if you feel that "mutual love is really strong and you have enough patience and ways to deal with problems", then this long-distance relationship will also bring you growth.
But the reason why I don't suggest it is because of the high risk of long-distance love, low sense of love, short company time, and vicious behaviors such as derailment and deception.
After all, the university is a stage where you can enjoy the beauty of love quietly, regardless of material things. If you fall in love through the screen, you must learn to experience loneliness alone in college. You should learn to restrain your inner jealousy, and at the same time keep a distance from the opposite sex around you and be loyal to love.
Nine times out of ten, long-distance relationships are sad. If both parties are not higher than their peers in emotional intelligence and intelligence, then most of this relationship will be exhausted.
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Third, don't fall in love with people who are depressed and negative.
. I found an interesting phenomenon when I investigated the love concept in college: what kind of partner you chose in college actually profoundly affected your four-year trend.
If you choose a partner who is addicted to games, clubbing all day and telling you that "it doesn't matter if you fail the course", you will become mediocre for most of the four years in college and learn nothing.
However, if you choose a partner who is self-disciplined and positive, can enrich college time, but is not boring, then the meaning of your love is not limited to "finding someone to accompany you", but growing into a "better person" through mutual encouragement.
To be realistic, there are many people who can accompany you to play games to the king during college, but there are really few people who can accompany you to urge you to pass CET-4 and CET-6 and get straight A's.