How to face the problem of sex correctly?

First of all, you should have a correct understanding of sex. 1. What is sexual health? Sexual health should include four aspects: sexual concept health, sexual physiological health, sexual behavior health and sexual psychological health. It is an instinct of human beings to have a healthy concept of sex and realize that sex has duality and natural attributes. On the other hand, it has social attributes and is restricted by the laws, morals, traditional concepts and folk customs of the host country. It's not personal. You can do whatever you want. Sexual physical hygiene, pay attention to the hygiene of sexual organs, prevent all kinds of sexually transmitted diseases, especially strictly prevent unclean sexual intercourse and prevent sexually transmitted diseases. Sexual behavior is healthy, so we should have sex under the circumstances permitted by law, lead an honest and clean life, and there are degrading bad behaviors such as sexual harassment, sexual violence and sexual abuse, which we should put an end to all our lives. Sexual psychological health, we should always maintain the health of sexual psychology, face sex correctly, face sexual desire, face sexual impulse, face the opposite sex, face all kinds of sexual temptations, and always grasp the "degree" on sexual issues. Student: Sex science is a comprehensive subject, so sexual health has a wide range of scientific connotations, involving many sciences such as sex physiology, sex medicine, sex behavior, sex sociology, sex psychology, sex ethics, sex law, sex literature and so on. We should not take it lightly. What kind of views and attitudes a person holds about sex and the opposite sex can often reflect his moral consciousness and quality. From a biological point of view, everyone has secular desires, and when they reach a certain age, they will have sexual impulses. This is the natural attribute of human beings, and it is the instinct of human beings as well as eating. We never shy away from this question. However, people have their social attributes, and their thoughts and behaviors are restricted by society, law, morality, traditional concepts and folk customs. When it comes to sex, no one can do whatever he wants. According to the law of physiological development, the late adolescence is the period when men have the strongest sexual desire. We often get calls from young people of this age. Sometimes they say that they often masturbate, which is difficult to control, but they are worried about ruining their health. We understand these calls for help. But we are human beings, not animals. We must never hurt others in order to satisfy our sexual desire, especially those girls who think they like it very much. As mentioned above, we performed abortion surgery for xx girls in universities and middle schools. In the abortion room of a provincial obstetrics and gynecology hospital, hundreds of women undergo surgery every day, of which 70-80% are unmarried women and girls. This shows that a large number of men and boys, in order to satisfy their sexual desire, build their happiness on the pain of girls. There are also boys who claim to have had sex with many girls on the phone. That's playing with women. It's a sign of moral decay. College students in the new era should set a good example for the majority of teenagers in dealing with "sex" and the opposite sex. If a university only pays attention to teaching, students' academic performance is excellent, but if unmarried pregnant girls in your school are among the best in the city, it is always disgraceful, at least it shows that your school's moral education work is not done well. Sexual morality also includes: don't spread pornographic jokes and stories in public, don't sexually harass women, and girls should be self-respecting and self-loving. Some western countries are fed up with all kinds of sufferings and social problems brought by "sexual liberation", and now they begin to advocate the maintenance of women's "chastity". We are all boys and girls with higher education. We should stand up to all kinds of temptations on sexual issues, always take care of ourselves and be a good young man with morality, knowledge and cultural accomplishment.