If in terms of career development, a woman who is nearly 50 years old is a thing of the past in the workplace and has little chance of promotion, then why do they still like to go to work and even do better than young people?
Generally speaking, it is the most difficult time for lesbians to be around 40. At this time, the child is in junior high school and high school, and is in a rebellious period. Every day, there are various programs that want to fight with children. A phone call from the teacher will make the originally calm heart suddenly nervous, and the days when the chickens fly and the dogs jump will make the mothers feel at a loss and miserable. The husband at home is also the easiest age to cheat, and there are many temptations. The emotional state between husband and wife is also the most fragile time; In the unit, this age has either grown into an executive or an ordinary employee. Both senior executives and ordinary officials are the main contributors to the enterprise at this time and will be very busy.
The 50-year-old lady has passed the most difficult time, and everything is basically settled. The child is about 20 years old, has gone to college or worked, and the husband at home has passed the hormone peak, which should be under control. In other words, I think many older sisters in my unit have already released their husbands and don't care much at all. As long as they pay back their wages, everything else is negotiable. The work of the unit, if it is an executive, should also be live high's style, and ordinary employees have also changed from key positions and key personnel to unimportant positions. At this time, women go to work to enrich their lives and supplement their families.
When female colleagues reach the age of 50, they rarely compete with others for benefits, because most people have looked down on this part of interest disputes. At this age, there is no need to participate. Because they have no competitive advantage, they are basically outsiders in the face of various disputes in the workplace. An outsider will become more relaxed and indifferent, so his mood will be more comfortable.
I have a female colleague who is very good. At that time, many male colleagues in the office smoked everyday. I don't care about the harm of female colleagues smoking second-hand smoke. The office smells of smoke all day. When I got home, my clothes smelled of smoke. Our female colleague is miserable. She did one thing a day, and no one dared to smoke in the office from now on. There are nine gay men in the office. When I went to work in the morning, I found an A4 paper posted on their computer, which said, "Your ashtray is at the front desk, please take it away after work! If you can continue smoking regardless of other people's feelings. Then I can ignore you, just shut your mouth, grab your cigarette, step on your foot, and complain that you have damaged my health with my medical report. Try it if you don't believe me. Can you? I can! " She wrote her name in this paragraph.
At this age, female colleagues have experienced many workplace struggles that should be experienced, which has become commonplace. And they know how to deal with things that make them unhappy. Whether the method is proper or not, the result is very important. And at this age, you can say something that teenagers dare not say, do something that teenagers dare not do, and live the feeling of being a big sister, which is more natural and unrestrained.
50-year-old lady, the family is basically calm, there is no need to care too much. The unit can also cope easily. So why not go to work? Isn't it good to work to earn money and save money for consumption?
Different people have different situations and different reasons for going to work. Some people like to go to work, while others have no choice. I have met several women who are still working in their 50s.
The first one, about 50 years old, does some simple cargo handling work in the company warehouse. The daily work pressure is not great, and the workload is not great. Of course, the salary is not much higher. She is with us young people every day, talking and laughing. She is a native of Shanghai. There are several houses in her family, and her son has graduated from work.
We also asked her this question when we had dinner together. You are not short of money. Why do you come to work every day? How nice it is to enjoy life at home, but she doesn't think so. Even if he doesn't go to work, there is no one at home, and his son has gone to work.
Her husband is also at work. It's boring to stay at home every day. He doesn't know what to do. It's hard to be idle every day He works in a company, and his salary is not high, but he can do something every day and talk and laugh with young people. Physically and psychologically, he will be healthier.
The second one, in his fifties, is even worse after retirement age. Although she is also from Shanghai, she only has a shabby house. After her son graduated from college, she did nothing all day, worked uneasily and made no money.
So she and her husband are very anxious about what their son will do in the future. There is no deposit at home. Unlike other Shanghainese who have several houses, they get older and spend more money. My son has no ability to make money. Whenever he thinks about it, he is disappointed. So although she and her husband retired, they still found a job to support their families.
In addition to the above two situations, there are still some people who are unwilling to leave the company environment, especially those with strong ability in the workplace. Because they are in high positions and have certain rights, once they stop working, their sense of power disappears, and many people enjoy it very much.
Besides, people in their fifties are not old. They are 50 years old and still work in their hometown in the countryside. Look at the construction site outside now. There are many people around 50. Therefore, some 50-year-old women find something to do at work because they have nothing to do, some want to continue to play their own value, and a few are forced by life.
That's my sister. She really likes going to work.
She's almost fifty years old, and she won't retire for three years. Her family is not short of money, just want to go to work.
After in-depth communication, I found that women in this age group like to go to work mainly for the following reasons:
The closer I am to retirement, the more I understand the importance of providing for the aged, and the more I often regret not paying the old-age insurance earlier.
I hope to pay more old-age insurance a few years before retirement, and make efforts for the pension growth after retirement.
Many people didn't realize the importance of endowment insurance until they were 40 years old. Even some people, at the retirement age of 50, have paid the old-age insurance for less than 15 years, so they can only postpone retirement and continue to pay.
Conclusion: No matter whether the family has money or not, it is everyone's wish to get a little more pension. Women who are nearly 50 years old just pay more old-age insurance before retirement, which can make their retirement pension higher.
My sister said that it has been two years, and I didn't go to work because of something at home.
As a result, in just two years, I looked for a job again and found myself behind the times.
The interviewer asked her, what is the social security contribution ratio? What is the quick calculation of wage deduction? She looked blank, and these once technical terms had gone away from her in just two years.
Class is different. Be sure to study hard and keep up with the updates at work, such as improving all kinds of office software and office skills, such as learning to do PPT and so on.
In life, too, I work with my colleagues on weekdays, and some new things in society are unconsciously studied with young people. Like Taobao shopping, Alipay payment, and WeChat applet, my sister said that they were all learned from colleagues.
Conclusion: Going to class and studying constantly can help you keep up with the times, keep a young mind and keep in touch with the society.
At this age, after decades of hard work, women often have good economic conditions and don't care much about the thousands of dollars they earn at work.
However, at this age, children often go to college and are hundreds of thousands of kilometers away from home. Just make a phone call.
Husband is still early to retire, so he should go to work normally.
No job? A person at home, no one to talk!
It is better to go to work, after all, after decades of work, familiar work will not be too tired; Familiar colleagues can also chat and laugh at each other;
Busy going to work, getting off work, working and living every day, full of happiness.
If you live a regular life, you will be healthy.
To sum up, women who are almost 50 years old are actually more willing to go to work, because going to work can expose themselves to new things, keep themselves young, and will not be out of touch with society; It can also make life regular and healthy; You can also increase the payment period of old-age insurance and receive more pensions after retirement; More importantly, I have my own income every month, so why not?
Do you really like working when you ask a woman who is almost 50 years old? My answer is that we can't generalize, but analyze it in detail. Generally speaking, women in their fifties are basically divided into three categories. The first category is career-oriented successful women. When I was nearly 50 years old, it was a good period of prime of life. Rich experience, rich experience, is a good time to do a big job. What if you told her not to go to work? Like killing her;
Secondly, restless women. She has enjoyed a happy time from her years of working life style, and she doesn't want to give up this regular working style and live a life of square dance around the stove.
The last one is tired of working life and having grandchildren at home? Try to take care of it, maybe there will be some health problems? I will naturally think of retiring quickly.
In short, it varies from person to person and cannot be generalized.
Just like the scenery in the picture, each has its own characteristics and cannot be judged by a single standard.
Feng Ru's point of view My sister and I have a good relationship. She is 48 years old. Her son is now a freshman in Canada. Her husband is an executive in a public institution. She accompanied her son to graduate from junior high school and came out to work.
That is, when she was 45 years old, she came out to work and was still in a state-owned enterprise. Many women find it difficult to find a decent job at the age of 35. She is the husband of a public institution, with connections and background.
I think she lives in a sea view room and her family conditions are excellent. Why did she choose to work? Do you really like it?
This is what she said:
My sister now earns 3000 yuan a month. She said that there is no shortage of money at home, but men can support their families and raise sons, but they are not necessarily willing to raise daughters-in-law. It is her own income of 3000 yuan, which makes her feel confident.
She often asks me to go out for coffee and buy beautiful clothes for my children. Every time I say that my sister gets paid, she has to spend it. Anyway, my family is not short of money.
Every time, I think she is particularly cute.
She often says that work is waiting for retirement. At this age, she no longer thinks about her career (maybe not at all, haha). A place that pays social security has pension and medical insurance after retirement, which is basically enough.
I really think people should be able to calculate. Although they have no worries about food and clothing at present, basic social security is very important.
My sister's children went to school after they entered middle school, and my brother-in-law often went to work. She often stares at a big house. Judging from the interpersonal needs, she is eager to find a job and someone to talk to.
Last year, my sister's son went to Canada to study abroad. My sister said it's good to have a job, at least a regular life and hope. . .
To sum up, according to the 28 th rule, my sister belongs to 20% people, not because of economic problems, but because of other emotional needs. As for 80% of the public, it is not because they like to go to work, but because of life.
I think so, too. The work spirit of many 50-year-old women is really admirable, that is, they will retire tomorrow and still work as usual today. Even if you retire at home and call the company, you will immediately enter the working state. There are many such female colleagues around me, and most of them have these characteristics.
1. This style was developed in the 1970s.
These post-70s women basically joined the work in the 1990s, and that generation was particularly rigorous in their work, so they developed a style of being particularly responsible for their work. It is no exaggeration to describe their attitude towards work.
2. Fight for life
Women of this age think that work can bring them rewards, so they cherish it especially, and they have a sense of honor when they work, so even if they are tired, they are very satisfied.
3. Unwilling to admit that you are old
Now many 50-year-old women don't like young people. Sometimes they would rather do things by themselves than leave them to young people, or they are not at ease with young people. They prefer to create a rigorous working atmosphere and set an example for this.
Most 50-year-old women are more energetic than young people. They like to work. I think this is a tradition. We young people should follow their example and continue to carry forward this work style.
I'm Yao Yan, thank you for reading.
There are many people around me who are about 50 years old, both men and women. I think they all like going to work. The most obvious performance is: go to work early and get off work late.
First, the family has no burden. According to my observation, people who like to go to work generally have no family burden. Their children have graduated from college and joined the work. Some of them are married, but haven't given birth yet. For a 50-year-old woman, there is no need to help her children take care of the next generation. At the same time, these women who like to go to work, their parents have either passed away, or they are in good health and can take care of themselves without children. People who have no family burden have time and energy to go to work.
Second, the work is relatively easy. Women who are workers retire at the age of 50, and women who are cadres at or above the department level retire at the age of 55. For those who are about to retire, the development of their personal career has been finalized, and there is no need to work hard to develop themselves. They should give more opportunities to young people, and the unit will also arrange relatively easy jobs for those who are about to retire. Anyway, I have nothing to do at home and I am not tired at work. I can still go to work for breakfast and lunch. Why not?
Third, restless personality. There are still some people who really love their jobs and can't stay at home any longer, so they like to go to work and do something. An elder sister in our department will retire in one year, but she works harder and is more active than young people. It is very painful for us not to look at others' efforts at work, but we know that this is her character, cherish working hours very much, and there is no way to argue with her.
If there is no family burden, the work is also very leisure and it is not bad to go to work. If you have annual leave at work, you can take paid leave to go out to play. When you don't want to go out to play, it's much better to have a unit and meet more colleagues than to be alone at home.
Women in their fifties have reached retirement age. There are old people and children in the world. Some children are married and some are not. If the family conditions are better, such women don't want to go to work, take care of the elderly at home, travel occasionally, exercise and dance in the square dance. These are the wishes of women in their fifties.
Family conditions are not very good. Women in their fifties have no choice but to work to earn some money to support their families. Tell the truth. As you can see, some families are really not so good, especially women in their fifties who are laid off and unemployed after retirement. These women are still working hard, working as sanitation workers on the road, cleaning in the community, cutting vegetables in the canteen and doing chores. These are also forced by life and I want to rest at home.
Women in their fifties who like to go to work can be said to be all institutions with good working conditions and high wages. They don't like to retire, and their retirement salary is not in the unit, but they earn a lot.
This problem is two-sided. Some people like to go to work, while others don't. According to her own conditions, a 50-year-old woman is not old now. If conditions are good, she can travel around, take care of children at home and serve the elderly. I think it's the best, and it can also reduce the burden on her children and lovers.
Does a woman in her late fifties really like going to work? From my colleagues' point of view, I found that most of them still like to go to work. The reasons are different: some pass the time and increase your income by the way; Some families have poor economic conditions, so going to work can reduce the family burden and earn an income.
Tian Jie of the company is 50 years old and will retire in a few years. She is the storekeeper of our company's warehouse. Although the keeper is more than 3,000 a month, Tian Jie doesn't care.
Sister Tian's family conditions are better. Her husband works as a designer in a private company in other places. I heard that the annual salary is more than one million. My daughter also works in a local insurance company, and her income is also considerable. Because of his well-off family, Tian Jie has no worries about food, clothes or money.
In Tian Jie's own words, I don't worry about money. I have nothing to do at home alone. My husband and daughter don't have to worry. They are also very free. It is better to work in the company, not tired. And this group of colleagues, working together, chatting and living a thriving life every day. It's good to kill time and earn money to buy food.
Sheng Jie, a 48-year-old company, retired at the age of 45 because she was a harmful job. However, due to the poor family economy, considering that it is not easy to find a job outside at this age, she applied to the company for re-employment. Considering everything, Sheng Jie was transferred to the warehouse as an inspector.
Sheng Jie's husband is also an ordinary dispatcher, belonging to the ordinary working class, and his salary is not much higher than that of Shengjie. Sister Sheng also has a son who didn't graduate from college and needs money. According to Sister Sheng, after graduation, my son still needs to buy a house, get married and have children, and there are many places to spend money. Take advantage of what you can do now, earn some money to help your son, reduce his burden, and at the same time save more money for your own pension.
To sum up, a woman in her late fifties likes to go to work for different reasons. Some are to kill time, some are to reduce the family burden and earn an income.