The harm of long-term asexual marriage

1. What are the hazards of asexual marriage? 1. affected the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Because of the unfairness of asexual marriage, I took away the negative emotions and passed them on to my mother-in-law. When I have a problem with my mother, I choose to accept it and never give in. In the end, it was incompatible with her mother-in-law, making her mother-in-law a driving force for her divorce and an insurmountable obstacle when she was willing to remarry. 2, affecting the relationship between husband and wife, although the short-term asexual marriage can not see the emotional impact, but sexual life itself is the most wonderful core concept of marriage, is the lubricant of husband and wife harmony, so in this whole process, long-term acceptance of asexual marriage, then the impact on marriage relationship is obvious. 3, insufficient metabolism, in fact, it will really affect all normal metabolism of people in the long run. The loss of human function caused by such things is irreparable, and the harm to the body is obvious. Second, what should I do about asexual marriage? 1. Repair is to change the asexual status between husband and wife. To put it bluntly, the sexual aspect of marriage itself has no influence, but the quality of marriage relationship will affect sex. The further promotion of marital relationship after marriage can make sexual life full of vitality. The asexual marriage network tells people that marriage should not be the end of love life, but a gas station. 2. I strongly urge couples to shape the same preferences. Husband and wife have common preferences, so you can go to the asexual dating network to have a look, so there are always topics to discuss and chat with each other. Secondly, it is not easy for husband and wife to have a great sense of strangeness or difference. Compared with loveless couples, the communication in the human body is basically zero, so we should spend more time in life. 3, usually intimate personal behavior, some questions can not have a clear reference answer, for example, marriage and love are asexual, or a matter of opinion. From this question, I learned about six married couples of different ages, and four of them were outspoken even if they were asexual; If you have more intimate relationships, your personal behavior will be very happy. In life, more intimate personal behaviors with each other, holding hair and holding hands will greatly add points to everyone's feelings. The harm of long-term asexual marriage 2 Whether asexual marriage should be divorced depends on the reasons leading to asexual marriage and whether there is any way to change it. It's incredible that two healthy people live together without sex. Everyone has one side, and all men and women will always have sexual fantasies and needs. Asexual marriage will eventually lead to sexual relations with others, and a harmonious marriage will break down. Therefore, when one party in the marriage proposes asexual marriage, or has no sexual life for a long time, it is necessary to consider whether such marriage should continue. Homosexuals will get married and have children under the pressure of family and secular, and then there will be endless asexual marriages. Outside of marriage, he (she) has sexual relations with others, which is cruel to the other party. This marriage might as well end early, because he (she) is gay, and no matter how hard you try, you can't change his (her) sexual orientation, nor can you maintain a happy marriage. Long-distance love needs more contact, more care for each other, and end it as soon as possible. The bond of marriage is not children, not money, but spiritual growth. After having an affair, people have no interest in the other half, and of course, their sexual life is very little or even zero. In this case, we should think of how to ensure that our best interests leave him. Once you have an affair, the blow to marriage is fatal, and it is difficult to be as harmonious as before. Even if you insist, you should be prepared. The young is someone else's and the old is yours. Measure it well. What are the hazards of asexual marriage? 1 Asexual marriage affects family harmony. Sex is an indispensable part of married life, and it is also a lubricant to enhance the relationship between husband and wife. When these contradictions are not well resolved. Will threaten family relations and affect family harmony. Therefore, asexual marriage is not worth advocating, because it does not hurt the family a little. Therefore, young couples in marriage should have a certain sex life, no matter how stressful they are and how busy they are at work. This is not only the secret of maintaining marriage, but also can better promote the feelings of two people. Asexual marriage affects physical and mental health. Marriage without sex life is painful and helpless. For women, they haven't had sex for a long time. Will affect endocrine. Causes breast atrophy, mammary gland hyperplasia, decreased sexual desire, and also causes breast swelling and vaginitis. For men, not having sex for a long time will make them feel particularly agitated and seriously damage their physical and mental health. Moreover, if the psychological needs are not met at this time, extramarital affairs are likely to occur, so asexual marriage is very harmful to the physical and mental health of both husband and wife. 3 Asexual marriage affects family stability. We all say that children are the bond of family. With children, both of them focus on the children. There may be no time to communicate, and coupled with heavy work, couples spend less and less time together and communicate less and less. Then this kind of marriage is very fragile. They only maintain their marriage relationship for the sake of their children, which is called asexual marriage. Marriage cannot last long without sex. Asexual marriage will aggravate the relationship between husband and wife, cause many family conflicts and affect the stability of the family. Asexual marriage will increase the divorce rate. Asexual marriage is an unhealthy marriage, a problematic marriage and an incomplete marriage. Long-term lack of sexual life between husband and wife will affect the quality of life and lead to emotional breakdown. When the husband and wife have not communicated for a long time, even if this relationship comes to an end, the marriage will not last at this time. So many people will choose divorce at this time, but some people will do it for their children. Choose to continue the marriage relationship. Marriage at this time is actually a failed marriage, but compared with divorce, the maintenance of asexual marriage will not affect social stability. What about asexual marriage? 1 communicate with your partner. There must be consultation between husband and wife, so as to improve their sexual satisfaction. By talking about each other's views and preferences on sex, we can understand what they like and what they can't accept; On the other hand, perhaps in the dialogue about sex, the reasons of previous asexual marriage will be exposed (for example, partners may have doubts about enjoying sex), and communication is the basis for * * * to face problems together. Secondly, sexual exchange will make partners more intimate. When talking about sex, people will feel vulnerable and become sensitive to each other's reactions and evaluations. But it is precisely because of this sense of vulnerability caused by mutual exposure that we are closer to each other. In the intimate relationship of mutual trust, vulnerability is a very important part. 2 Planning the life of husband and wife We should plan when to have sex, just as it is necessary to plan our own work. This may not sound romantic enough, but if you want to squeeze time out of your busy life, planning ahead is an effective way. When discussing and planning sexual intercourse, two people should plan the details as detailed as possible, not only when and where to have sex, but also what new postures or new ways to try in this sexual activity. How to treat the sexual life in marriage is of course rational, correct and normal. Perhaps it is the sentence "All happy people are happy, and only unhappy sober people will seek happiness." It shows that more and more women begin to improve their awareness, ability and action of caring for themselves. There is too much helplessness in life. When people reach middle age, it's not what you want to do, but what you should do. Even if you want to share a bed, it is wishful thinking, and the two sides are far from hungry for each other. Love and marriage should be based on feelings. Without feelings, nothing can be said. Psychologist Freud once said: "For human beings, sex is not just sex, it is a language, a bridge, a place from loneliness to intimacy, and a melting pot for establishing mutual subordination." Hazards of Long-term Asexual Marriage 3 The three major hazards of husband and wife's lack of sexual life have caused various physical and mental diseases, which made her full of resentment and out of control. In her own words, she is "extremely irritable and easily loses her temper". In fact, some women tortured by asexual marriage are not only troubled by negative emotions such as anxiety and depression, but also prone to insomnia, loss of appetite, premature aging of sexual organs and hormonal instability, which in turn leads to various physical and mental diseases. Sex, which seriously affects the feelings of husband and wife, is the most exciting and core content in marriage, and it is also a lubricant for harmonious feelings of husband and wife. Normal sexual needs are not met, and the husband has no reasonable explanation. She vented her anger by "scolding him and telling the two families about it", which not only damaged her husband's face and feelings, but also made the relationship between husband and wife more tense and fell into a vicious circle. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is influenced by the "inner grievance" of asexual marriage, and negative emotions are vented and passed on to mother-in-law. "When there was a conflict with his mother, he chose to be tough and never gave in." In the end, it was incompatible with her mother-in-law, which made her a promoter of divorce and an insurmountable obstacle when she wanted to remarry. Facing the siege of "asexual marriage", modern people face three ways: First, mending is to change the asexual state between husband and wife. Frankly speaking, marriage itself has no effect on sex, but the relationship between husband and wife will affect sex. The further deepening of the relationship between husband and wife after marriage can make sex have vitality. Marriage should not be the end of love life, but a gas station. Second, the disintegration liberated itself and liberated the other side. People's life is very short, and the time to enjoy sex is even shorter, especially for women. Why should a lifeless marriage be delayed? I have talked to many female friends who are in asexual marriages. Even if they have put up with it for a long time, even if they still have a year to enjoy it, they can still fight for it. This is a positive attitude towards life. Third, to maintain this, both men and women, whether married or extramarital, can live for themselves, and marrying for themselves is in line with the true nature of life. However, many influences, such as moral influence, cultural influence and social influence, are affecting the sovereignty of marriage. Too many marriages are accustomed to social responsibility and give up self-rights. Actually, I think this is a kind of sadness.