Every child is different, and I believe that every child deserves parents to establish a set of tailor-made parenting methodology for their children.
There are many books written by excellent mothers in the market that can provide us with reference, but there is no way to use them directly, because the methods that are suitable for the children of that excellent mother may not be suitable for your children.
So we need to know our children first.
Every child has his own unique personality and his own unique preferences. We must first respect his individual characteristics.
Here, I would like to introduce some useful educational methods to you.
1, tell a story.
Sometimes, when looking at children's obvious shortcomings, parents often choose to force them to correct, but this is not easy, because it is not that children realize the problem and need to change, but that they are inexplicably asked to correct it, and children may not understand why.
We can use stories to tell children why this shortcoming needs to be corrected, and it will not cause children to resist.
2. Accept your child's imperfections.
Every child has imperfections and always has various shortcomings. The key is parents' attitude towards these shortcomings. If parents always emphasize their children's shortcomings, they will be strengthened. If parents emphasize the advantages of their children, the advantages will be strengthened.
Therefore, parents should learn to accept their children's shortcomings and help them correct their mistakes instead of forcing them to change.
3. Respect the child's personality.
Every child is an independent individual. He has his own independent personality. Never forcibly change a child's personality because of personal opinions. You know, there is no difference between good and bad personality, and personality cannot be forcibly changed.
Parents should understand their children and don't force them to do things according to their own wishes.
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