It is polite to go out and deal with strangers, and you will be tolerant when there are contradictions. Because they don't get along for a long time, there will be a kind of pleasing and pleasing to outsiders, which will eventually lead you to lose yourself. For example, when you get along with your parents at home, you will be unreasonable because of a trivial matter, and you will have conflicts with your parents and argue irrationally. Because you have been with your parents for most of your life and watched yourself grow up, what is your personality like? It's hard to play another role in front of relatives. At the same time, most parents choose to accommodate and let their children lose their temper. However, losing your temper with your parents hurts your loved ones and hurts yourself. They become the blamers without knowing the situation, because they are afraid of not being recognized and affirmed by others, and want to gain their own values, they will choose to please strangers.
These people are forced to wear social masks in society. Wear it for a long time, getting more and more tired and uncomfortable. They hope to reduce the pressure in front of their parents, and they can tolerate and support themselves. But please don't treat your parents as? Emotional trash can? Control your temper and don't argue with your parents at will. Parents always lend a helping hand to protect themselves when they are in the most difficult time. In their eyes, you are a child who will never grow up, and they can tolerate your small temper. Therefore, while being friendly and polite to outsiders, you should also seek common ground while reserving differences and be kind to your parents, which is a good move in your own life. Your parents' health is your greatest wealth, so don't be a frog in the well.