There is a famous saying in ancient China: "All virtues and filial piety come first", which shows that children's filial piety to their parents is above all else. Parents are at home and can grow up with their children. When parents are old, all kinds of diseases strike, and birth, illness and death are the most heartbreaking. In today's society, the network and communication are increasingly developed, and a lot of information rushes to people's eyes every day. When people are receiving information, it has gradually become a part of people's habit to comment on the received information by tapping the keyboard.
However, the authenticity and credibility of the information obtained through the media are doubtful. What the reporter pursues is timeliness and explosiveness. In order to release press releases as soon as possible, many journalists will inevitably be inaccurate because they can't understand the facts well.
Perhaps many media are blindly pursuing the traffic brought by news and don't care whether the content of the report is true or not. It is also for this reason that when people accept fragmented information, they are likely to be guided to use it. Today, the earth-shaking news emerges one after another, and more and more people realize that "the whole picture is unknown, so don't comment". However, due to the large base of netizens, the average education level of netizens is low, the network information is updated too quickly and the attention is too fast, which leads people to fail to understand the reason for an invitation.
Especially when someone asks for help online, there are always some people who support it for the first time and find it a scam; There are also some people who feel that the other party has ulterior motives, indifference and selfishness for the first time. 1995 years later, Feng Shuangshuang claimed that "whoever can save my dad, I will marry him", which was one of the "help-seeking events" that caused widespread concern.
With the development of modern social networks, more and more people turn to netizens for help when encountering difficulties. It's as small as doing a problem, and as big as solving a difficult problem in life, it seems that as long as enough people pay attention, they can get the correct answer. In the case that Feng Shuangshuang's father is seriously ill and his family's financial situation can't afford medical expenses, there are also online platforms such as "Water Drop Raising" that can be used to help the society.
How many online platforms are trustworthy and how many people get financial support in this way? These problems are shown in the following table. Feng Shuangshuang got more attention than others because she chose a more surprising way to ask for help.
/kloc-a girl after 0/995, working in a beauty salon. Life was calm and happy at first, but a serious illness of my father changed all this. For this ordinary family in Pingdingshan, Henan Province, the cost of treatment is as high as 400,000 yuan. On the one hand, it is my father's emergency, and on the other hand, it is a huge medical expense that people around me can't raise. Feng Shuangshuang and his family are in a dilemma.
Feng Shuangshuang came up with a solution for online help. She posted a video of a helper on the Internet. On one side, she took a selfie with her makeup, and on the other side, her father was lying unconscious in the intensive care unit, filled with medical equipment. The contrast of these photos gives people a strong visual impact, and what Feng Shuangshuang said in the video is also surprising. In the video, she said that if someone can spend 400 thousand to treat her father, she will marry this man.
The help video is controversial. This video has aroused widespread concern among netizens, but most people don't want to pay 400,000 yuan, but just stand by and watch and want to know the truth. In the final analysis, this kind of thing is to save my father, as if it happened in feudal society thousands of years ago. In modern society, many people take advantage of the sympathy of some uneducated people and the lack of legal knowledge to create a scam of "selling their bodies to bury their fathers", that is to say, Mr. Feng's statement did not win much trust at first.
At first, netizens had many questions about Feng Shuangshuang's incident, such as whether Feng Shuangshuang's father was really seriously ill? This thing looks very tearful. Will there be another scam behind it? Others wonder if anyone is really willing to pay 400 thousand. After all, it is not a small expense. Whether Feng Shuangshuang will really decide the rest of his life for his father is a hot topic among netizens.
At one time, there were so many people discussing their videos, which was good news for Feng Shuangshuang, because it meant that more people understood her family's predicament, more people understood her predicament and her willingness to ask for help, and her hope of getting funding was greatly increased. However, despite the fermentation, no one took the initiative to bear all the treatment costs.
Feng Erniang's father, who moved netizens to accept funding, was in a coma most of the time because of his serious illness, but the pain when he was awake was far more than that. He saw that all the people in his family who treated him were very sad, and he didn't want to drag his family down. He tried to pull out his stomach tube several times and wanted to die.
Although no one stepped forward to bear his father's medical expenses for Feng Shuangshuang and asked to marry Feng Shuangshuang, Feng Shuangshuang still got the help of all good people who cared about this matter. Her filial piety to her father touched everyone and won her last chance. The family relationship between the two became very harmonious, and all this had a better ending-Feng Shuangshuang's father was rescued by the society and had the opportunity to receive treatment.
Although no one stepped forward to bear his father's medical expenses for Feng Shuangshuang and asked to marry Feng Shuangshuang, Feng Shuangshuang still got the help of all good people who cared about this matter. Her filial piety to her father touched everyone and won her last chance. The family relationship between the two became very harmonious, and all this had a better ending-Feng Shuangshuang's father was rescued by the society and had the opportunity to receive treatment.
It can be seen that when people face the pain of others, most people will choose to convey goodwill. The lyrics sing "As long as everyone gives a little love, the world will become a beautiful world", which is the state that most people help each other.
In fact, after this incident, looking back at the video released by Feng Shuangshuang once again, we can also see that the reason why she speaks amazingly is to spread the news to the maximum extent. If she just sent a crowdfunding link at the beginning, maybe no one will find someone who needs help here, and no one will pay attention to whether his words are true.
Back to the issue of news dissemination, now people can receive all kinds of information, and they will give priority to those news that are interesting. If a news can be seen from its title that there is nothing to see, then no one will order it. For this reason, many articles and news are criticized as "headline party" nowadays, because an eye-catching headline can really attract more traffic to some extent. If the title is good and the content is more exciting, naturally no one will criticize it. After all, even the best content should be packaged.
The problem now is that many unscrupulous media, in order to gain exposure, do whatever it takes to provoke disputes and create shocking headlines. It's a pity to click in to see the content. Output so much non-nutritious content, wasting the time of works and readers.
When Feng Shuangshuang was killed, he could have released the video of the disaster directly, but publishing ordinary video without traffic may sink into the vast network ocean and cannot be seen by people. This time, she chose to attract everyone's attention with a more amazing sentence, which is actually very clever, because she knows that only in this way can she spread the news that she needs help to more people as soon as possible.
In this case, we certainly can't deny Feng Shuangshuang's filial piety to his father. Of course, we also lament that this post-95 girl can think of such a way. Really smart. Although the network content is mixed, which has caused all kinds of chaos in the title party, as long as these popular skills are used in the right direction, they can become an effective way to spread knowledge and positive energy.