1, communication is the premise, so we must communicate.
At this time, if your wife is not filial to her in-laws because of her laziness in nature, then you can make some efforts to make her realize the importance of filial piety. If it is not for this reason, you should persuade her in time. Communicate and tell her your thoughts and attitudes in time.
You can guide her if necessary.
When relatives and elders come, take the initiative to ask their wives, and they can directly and boldly order their wives. Under normal circumstances, your wife will choose to accept it out of pressure. At this time, you will take the opportunity to praise your wife and praise her in front of everyone, so that your wife will definitely accept it silently.
3, attitude is the most important, the key is how to transform.
In fact, in general, if you think your wife's character is ok, it is ok to guide her in a positive way, and sometimes, you might as well play emotional cards and try to touch your wife. If your wife is moved by you, you will definitely make sacrifices. At this time, the best way is to actively reform.
In fact, in any case, active guidance is necessary. If you don't like it, you can boldly tell your wife. If you think you can, you can also directly order your wife. But the wife's unfilial to her in-laws generally depends on your attitude towards her.