With the gradual growth of the body, children's psychology is constantly changing, and gradually establish their own personality. However, not every child can grow up easily, and psychological problems may occur at every stage of the growth of children and adolescents. What are the general manifestations of children with psychological problems?
1, plucking. Some children often scratch their heads when they are nervous, especially when they encounter problems, and gradually form the habit of scratching their heads every time they do a problem, or even pulling out their hair. Not only hair, but also some children will pull out eyelashes, eyebrows, nose hair and so on. Some children even eat their hair pulled out.
2, hyperactivity, inattention. In class, I often look around, or stare blankly, or play with pens and books.
So, what are the factors that affect the establishment of children's healthy psychology?
1. When parents discipline their children with threats such as yelling, indifference, beating or cursing, or expressions of disappointment and anger, it is easy to cause unhealthy psychological problems of children.
2, children can only listen to praise, can not stand a little criticism. Children are often easily praised, especially when they are young. Parents and teachers will say "you are great" and "you are so smart!" Such things make children suffer from "praise dependence" and don't listen to any negative opinions. Such children lack the experience and motivation to resist setbacks and are often emotional.
Mental health is the premise of a person's intellectual and personality development, potential development, moral formation and active adaptation to society, and the basis of the formation and development of a person's comprehensive quality. However, if parents despise their children's mental health problems, not only now, but also their children's future will be unpredictable.
1. Bad interpersonal relationship: People with unhealthy psychology generally have bad interpersonal relationships. Not only teachers but also students hate it.
2. If it is not corrected for a long time, and it is not relieved and channeled for a long time, some children will develop ADHD or obsessive-compulsive disorder, and even develop anxiety.
The causes of children's psychological problems are complicated, and it is difficult for us to give a specific suggestion, but we can pay attention to children's psychological health in simple and effective ways, so as to face children's psychological problems correctly. How do parents guide their children's healthy physical and mental development?
1, establish a good relationship with children. The more parents blame their children, the more they feel unloved, the more they resist, and the more they will express their anxiety with self-injury and self-harm behavior.
2. Create a good family environment. The basis of children's comprehensive quality is the subtle influence of their parents since childhood. A good family environment and harmonious and democratic family relations help to cultivate children into confident, open-minded, lively and cheerful people.
3. Help children control their emotions and behaviors. Let children know under what circumstances they usually lose control. If they are reading, they can try to hold the book with both hands while reading. If you are watching TV, when your child feels his hand raised, you can ask him to get something else. Over time, children can correct this habit.
In the process of children's growth, not only the body will undergo earth-shaking changes in a short period of time, but also the psychology will continue to grow. If parents want their children to grow up healthily, they must care about their mental health, pay more attention to it, and make systematic adjustments from the aspects of children themselves, family education, the relationship between teachers and students at school, and family environment.