Second, start with small things and optimize your personality. "If you don't accumulate small streams, you can't become rivers and seas." Many people's excellent personalities are formed bit by bit. Starting from childhood is the starting point of everyone's efforts. Optimists often see the bright side of life, are full of hope and confidence in the future, have a strong interest in their work or study, and exert their wisdom and ability in it. Even in the face of difficulties and setbacks, I can be fearless.
Third, we should integrate into the collective. Marx said that only in the collective can individuals obtain the means to develop their talents in an all-round way. By interacting with others, we can see the advantages of others, make up for our own shortcomings, and gain the understanding and positive joy of others. People with healthy personality are willing to associate with others, establish good relations with others, and be respected and accepted by others.
Third, we should form good habits. Habit is very important. Good habits are invincible, and bad habits are enough to ruin a person's life. In our life, we should constantly cultivate good habits. As a person, we should develop good habits of sincerity, honesty and trustworthiness, earnest and responsible, self-confidence and self-improvement; In doing things, we should develop good habits of obeying rules, paying attention to efficiency and friendly cooperation; In learning, we should develop the good habits of active learning, independent thinking, combination of learning and application, and summary and reflection. At the same time, we should constantly break away from bad habits, don't let bad habits damage our bodies, don't let bad habits such as spitting, littering, dirty export and careless behavior damage our image, don't let bad habits such as procrastination, carelessness and wasting time affect our quality of life, and don't let bad habits such as infatuation with the internet, impetuousness and shallowness pollute our hearts. In the process of life, only by constantly "saving three times a day" and constantly removing the thorns that hinder us from perfection can we have a broad road to go, and we can continuously narrow the gap with success and gradually form our own healthy personality until success.