Abstract: Migrant workers have peasant household registration, but they are engaged in labor that is inconsistent with their peasant status. Due to the long-term separation between the two places, many "temporary couples" have formed. This paper first analyzes the definition of temporary husband and wife of migrant workers, and then puts forward some countermeasures and measures to solve the problem of temporary husband and wife of migrant workers through the intervention of case social work.
Keywords: migrant workers; Temporary husband and wife of migrant workers; Case social work
At present, in the process of urbanization in China, the population flows frequently, and a large number of migrant workers flock to cities to work. With the rise of the tide of migrant workers, although migrant workers have brought income to farmers and changed the economic poverty of families, most migrant couples have been separated for a long time, with children, elderly people to take care of and fields to farm. Many families have to choose a person to go out to work, a person to stay at home, husband and wife separated for a long time. In order to solve the orphans' spiritual loneliness, physical sexual hunger and psychological problems, a kind of "temporary couple" has quietly appeared in some floating population families. To solve the problem of temporary couples of migrant workers, in addition to the support of society and government, social workers need to use their own work skills and methods to understand the current situation of temporary couples of migrant workers, the causes of temporary couples and how the government can solve these problems.
First, the necessity of case social work involved in temporary couples of migrant workers
(A) the concept and characteristics of temporary couples of migrant workers
The biggest feature of "temporary couples" is not to change spouses, but to keep the legal relationship between husband and wife and not to break up the original family as the moral bottom line. Men and women who work outside or stay at home form a temporary home with the opposite sex and live in a "sexual partner" or "temporary husband and wife" lifestyle. They live together implicitly or explicitly and take care of each other to fill the lack of emotional life and sexual needs brought about by the long-term separation of husband and wife; When the husband and wife reunite, the "temporary husband and wife" dissolve by themselves, and both men and women still live together with their spouses [1].
(B) the concept and function of case social work
Case social work is a professional social worker with professional knowledge and skills related to people and society, who provides material or emotional support and services for individuals and families, with the aim of helping individuals and families to reduce stress, solve problems and achieve a good welfare state for individuals and society. In case social work, in the harmonious relationship of mutual trust and cooperation with the case owner, workers fully mobilize the case owner's own and external resources to improve the case owner's ability to solve problems [2]. The functions of case social work include: the actual effect and influence on individuals, families and society.
Functions of individual case social work: rehabilitation, resource provision, prevention and construction. The role of case social work on families: relieving family pressure, harmonizing family relations, enhancing family functions and adjusting family structure. The role of case social work in society: maintaining social justice, promoting social stability and harmonious social relations.
(C) the necessity of case social work involving temporary couples of migrant workers.
Temporary couples of migrant workers violate social morality and family norms. Although temporary couples solve the temporary emotional needs of migrant workers, they are actually extramarital affairs, which will cause harm to both families and bring great hidden dangers to society. Case social work is a professional social work method with its scientific ethical model and physical method. The rise of social work specialty and its combination with China's national conditions make it have its own model and solution to the problem of temporary couples of migrant workers. Therefore, it is particularly important for social workers to intervene in the temporary couple problem of migrant workers.
Second, case social work involved in temporary couple cases of migrant workers and case analysis
(1) Background of the case
Li, male, 1968, from Zunyi City, Guizhou Province, Han nationality, with low education, works in Shenyang Footwear Industrial Park. The case owner, 20 1 1, came to work here in August and has not returned home for more than two years because of the long journey. It has been more than a year since Zhang, a shoe-making female worker from Guizhou, came to Shenyang to work as a "temporary couple".
A few days ago, my son, who was studying in Beijing, came to Shenyang for a holiday and was reunited with his father. He accidentally saw an intimate photo of his father and his temporary wife Zhang on his mobile phone. Unable to accept the fact that his father, who has always been a tall figure, has a temporary wife, Li's son telephoned his legal wife Liu in his hometown. For a time, Li felt sorry for his wife and son when his family broke down. However, Li felt so guilty that he could not face his elders in his hometown. At one time, he was suicidal, but all of them were discovered and stopped by the workers in time.
(B) the source of the case-receiving the source of the case
On October 5th, 20 13, 10/kloc-0, I went to the private house rented by the case owner in Wang Jiazhen to communicate with the case owner and his son. In the initial contact with the case owner, get a preliminary understanding of the mental state and problems faced by the case owner; Through the introduction of the staff in the industrial park, we gained the trust of the case owner, let the case owner know that social workers are here to help him solve family problems and contradictions, and obtained the contact information of the case owner, his temporary wife Zhang and his legal wife Liu, so as to facilitate the next step in the service.
Case study-evaluation
In Li's case, social workers used casework to intervene to restore his normal working and living conditions. First of all, because the case owner can't adjust his homesickness well during his work in the shoe garden and can't find an effective means to eliminate loneliness, the case owner is extremely eager for the warmth of the family, so he found a "temporary wife" Zhang to form a temporary home. Therefore, social workers take the internal psychology of the case owner and the causes of its problems as the starting point of treatment.
In addition, the legal wife of the case owner has a low education level and is usually busy maintaining housework and taking care of the elderly; In her mind, as long as everything at home is kept in order, a long-distance call once a week is a great support and concern for her husband; In addition, the case owner paid 2,000 yuan into the bank card on time every month to give flowers to his hometown. Liu did not find the change of the case owner at all. At the same time, the surrounding environment of the case also has a great influence on him. The life and cultural atmosphere in the construction site made the case owner accept the "temporary couple" quickly. Therefore, the interaction between the psychology and social environment of the case owner should be fully considered when intervening.
Maslow's needs theory has five levels: physiological needs, security needs, emotional and belonging needs, respect needs and self-realization needs [3]. The case owner faces two shortcomings: first, the physiological needs, working outside for a long time, and the physiological needs are insurmountable obstacles for the case owner. Second, there is a lack of communication with his wife on emotional and belonging needs.
According to the situation of the case owner, establish the main problems of the case owner. Judging from the current situation, the litigant needs to establish good social relations, including repairing family relations and husband-wife relations. Let the case owner realize his improper way of venting his emotions, learn to express his feelings in an appropriate way, solve the problems he needs, and relieve his inner loneliness and homesickness; And return to normal family life, prevent the division of marriage and family, and play the social role of a husband and father.
Third, the implementation process of case social work involved in temporary couple cases of migrant workers
(A) service objectives
In the contact, communication is the main way to create a harmonious atmosphere, eliminate the awareness of the case owner on my prevention, and better understand the true feelings and needs of the case owner.
Through the contact with the case owner, we can fully understand the psychological status and family situation of the case owner; Through emotional counseling, anxiety and anxiety can be eliminated, so that the case owner can build up confidence, help the case owner realize his mistakes and take actions to save his marriage and family.
(2) service plan
1. Ask the case owner from the side by going to the shoe garden to understand the basic situation of the case owner. 2. Through telephone communication, understand the true thoughts of the legal wife of the case owner and her emotional foundation for the case owner. 3. Communicate with the case owner, understand his inner thoughts, discuss with the case owner, establish a task plan, and help the case owner realize his mistakes and responsibilities as a husband and father according to the established task plan. 4. Solve family conflicts, make the case owner return to the family, sever contact with his temporary wife, resume normal life, and revise and improve the task plan according to the completion of the case owner's task plan and emerging problems. 5. At the closing stage, negotiate with the case owner to end the service, evaluate the case owner's consciousness and family responsibility, and end the service work.
(3) Intervention
(4) Evaluation
1. Evaluation of the establishment stage of professional relationship: After many times of communication with the case owner and his family, a good professional relationship has been established with the case owner. The case owner can open his heart and face up to his mistakes, so that I can better understand the psychology of the case owner, adjust my plan according to the ideas of the case owner and his family, and better serve the case owner.
2. Evaluation of service plan implementation stage:
Evaluation of the problems: the problems in this case are: first, the lack of good social relations, especially the lack of communication in family relations; Second, there is no correct way to vent emotions; Third, I don't know how to control myself and ease my loneliness.
Target evaluation: Through the intervention of social work, we can collect the basic information of the case owner, gain the trust of the case owner, and initially establish a professional relationship. In the process of achieving the goal, the case owner and his family cooperated very well, and the tasks at all stages were completed very well, basically achieving the service goal.
Evaluation of the plan: There are many problems in the implementation of the plan, including time, conversation content and place. Have existed. After multi-party coordination, the scheme was successfully completed and achieved results, basically achieving the expected purpose.
Results Evaluation: Through this intervention, the case owner felt the warmth of the family and returned to the family, which enabled the case owner to regain his conscious ability and family responsibility, saved the case owner's marriage and family and avoided the breakdown of the marriage.
(5) Closing the case
1. Change of case owner:
Through treatment, the case owner recovered his conscious ability and sense of family responsibility, was full of confidence in his future life, returned to his family smoothly, and wrote a new chapter in a happy life with the help of social workers.
2. Achieve the case objectives:
Lao Li found a new life, returned to his family, avoided the breakdown of his family and marriage, and returned to his former humor, and achieved his goal.
(6) Reflection
Through the case intervention of temporary couples of migrant workers, migrant workers can return to their families, communicate with their families better, vent their emotions reasonably and regain their confidence in life. Carrying out case work for migrant workers to solve their psychological problems and family conflicts plays an important role in restoring their mental health and relieving their pressure. As a practical work, social work is an art based on the people-oriented concept, which respects the privacy and dignity of every migrant worker and helps them help themselves.
Of course, due to the limited level and energy of research materials and researchers, the study of temporary couples of migrant workers is still possible and needs further exploration. The mastery of language and the extraction of effective information in case interview are also parts that need to be improved.