It is often said that companionship is the best education. In fact, to be exact, high-quality companionship is the best education.
So, what is a high-quality accompanying child? Just put down the phone and accompany the children? Actually, this is only part of it.
Real "high-quality companionship" has three characteristics:
1 Whether parents devote themselves to accompanying their children;
2 Whether the child had a happy time;
3 Whether parents and children are happy and peaceful.
High-quality companionship can not only make children feel happy and enjoy this wonderful time, but also lay the foundation for physical and mental health, self-esteem and self-love.
It can also make parents and children get carried away because they devote themselves to games and play, thus establishing a good parent-child relationship during this time.
Therefore, high-quality companionship is the best way to unconditionally love children and the best education for children.
Write down these 12 ways to accompany children ~
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X accompanying children to watch TV and eat jiaozi is not high-quality companionship.
√ Teaching children to pack jiaozi and tell folk stories is a high-quality companion.
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Staring at children's homework is not high-quality companionship!
√ It is a kind of high-quality companionship to discuss learning sentiment and learning plan with children.
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× Watching crosstalk with children is not high-quality companionship.
√ Say a few tongue twisters with your child and learn a cross talk. This is high-quality companionship.
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× Playing mobile games with children is not high-quality companionship.
Teaching children to play badminton and table tennis is a kind of high-quality companionship.
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× Telling children other people's gossip is not high-quality companionship.
√ Talking with children about their inner emotions and psychological feelings is a kind of high-quality companionship.
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X accompanying children to watch cartoons is not high-quality companionship.
√ Telling children stories and reading picture books are high-quality companionship.
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× Taking children shopping to buy clothes is not high-quality companionship.
√ Taking children to visit zoos and science and technology museums is a high-quality companion.
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X accompanying children to watch documentaries is not high-quality companionship.
After watching the documentary, discussing and exploring with children is a kind of high-quality companionship.
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× Being in a daze with children on the sofa is not high-quality companionship.
Walking and chatting with children is high-quality companionship.
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X accompanying children to watch kung fu movies is not high-quality companionship.
√ Take children to jump rope and run. Exercise is a good companion.
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× Accompanying children to eat, but looking down at the mobile phone, is not a high-quality companion.
√ Talking with children during the day while eating is a kind of high-quality companionship.
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× Helping children dress and eat is not high-quality companionship.
√ Teaching children how to match clothes according to the weather is a high-quality companion.