People are talking about it, and there are different opinions. According to the survey, 50% people think that "sharing each other's problems" can best prove whether two people can enter a formal relationship. It is a sign of formal love, and 39% people think that "for the purpose of marriage" is formal love. Basically, if you can't share your problems, even if you get married, you still need to improve your relationship in this direction. This sounds incredible, but it is very reasonable.
In love, the will to run in is very important. Love requires us to make some compromises and adjust some usual action habits, so that two people can get together better. And this compromise is for our own sake, and it is voluntary. If you don't realize this, sometimes it is easy to produce contradictions. Because people will think that they are compromising for others, and they will not blindly think that they have to pay more than each other, and this idea is often the fuse that triggers the struggle.
When you are in love, people are very rational, and there is a feeling of despair about the result, that is, they want to get the result they want. Or you are unhappy in love, but you don't know why you just can't let go and give up. Maybe we haven't figured out the role of reason and reason yet. Rationality can make us experience more sweetness in love, and rationality requires us to consider how to make this sweetness persist for a long time. Therefore, if you want to have a healthy love relationship, you must leave a place for reason in your mind and consider the issue of love with reason at the right time.