The first killer: money
Many people may think that talking about money in marriage is a bit too tacky and powerful, but in fact, the biggest killer that causes problems in marriage life is money! There was no money before marriage, so I had to live by my feelings. The expenses of falling in love before were not very large. But after marriage, it is different, such as living expenses, clothing expenses and daily necessities needed at home. If you buy a house, you may have to pay the mortgage every month. There are too many places where money is needed, which makes people anxious.
The second killer: trust
It is a maddening thing not to trust your partner, whether male or female. Nobody wants to live under surveillance every day. When going out, they need to report where to go, with whom and for how long. Then, when we arrive at the appointed place, we will also receive a phone call for post inspection, and we will receive a chain button when we go back a little later. Under such circumstances, I believe that anyone will feel depressed and easily lead to derailment. This can refer to Luo Zijun and Chen in my first half of life.
The third killer: elders
Sometimes, two married people live well and are very happy. But maybe the parents of the man or the woman are not satisfied with each other, or their expectations are too high, so it is easy to confuse the feelings between the two mistresses. For example, a man loves his wife very much and is willing to love his wife, but his parents have been educating his wife behind his back, thinking that his son is hard, and then they sow discord in front of his son, which eventually led to the breakdown of their marriage.
The fourth killer: values
Whether in love or marriage, the same values are important. Many people think that the consistency of values is to pay attention to the right door, but it is not entirely true. I think people with the same values agree with each other's needs more. Otherwise, if the woman wants to buy an expensive set of cosmetics, she will be complained by the man. Then the man bought a better electronic product and was nagged by the woman, which easily led to emotional problems.