With the right person, you will feel particularly relaxed and happy, and you don't need to have too much scruples. People get along with others, let their guard down, and always get along.
Secondly, it is to see if the other party can tolerate you and understand you.
No one is perfect, and there are always various shortcomings. If two people stay together for a long time, they may become husband and wife for life. What is most needed at this time is tolerance and understanding:
For example, I like to drag my shoes on the sofa when I go home. People who can tolerate you will respect you and let you communicate with you in the future. At this time, you will be willing to do other things because your needs are given priority;
For example, many girls encounter unpleasant things outside and like to come back and tell the other half. People who know you will listen to you quietly, because you just need someone to talk to and your other half will stand by you, and you will be fine after talking. Many couples just can't do this, causing a lot of quarrels.
Third, it depends on whether you can understand and tolerate each other.
Two people are two-faced together, and people with high temper and high emotional intelligence can't stand blind acceptance and understanding, so you have to show something. One party keeps giving, and the other party just enjoys it without giving, which is not helpful for the long-term stability of feelings.
Then, it is to build mutual trust.
Another important factor for the long-term stability of bilateral relations is trust. Trust can also be said to be the sublimation of feelings.
Because we are very happy together and have a tacit understanding; Because of mutual tolerance; Because of mutual understanding, the feelings of both sides naturally sublimated to the stage of mutual trust. Trust is very important for couples, especially couples. Many quarrels and breakups are due to distrust.
Finally, it is whether the two sides can be loyal.
Nowadays, the society is full of colorful temptations, and the most test of traditional marriage is loyalty, which can also be said to be a sense of responsibility. Because of marriage, I have the same property; Because of marriage, there is the crystallization of love-children, to stick to this family is not divided, we need mutual loyalty, no matter what we do, we must take this family as the premise.