Are you a mentally healthy mother? I don't know. Come and find it with me!
What is the standard of mental health? A mentally healthy person can control his emotions, maintain a good mental state, be strong-willed, actively adapt to and transform the environment, have harmonious interpersonal relationships, have a sound and unified personality, and have psychological development in line with age characteristics. In fact, a mentally healthy mother should also meet these standards.
The common unhealthy psychology of mothers is mostly manifested in the following aspects:
1. Not good at psychological adjustment. Difficulties and setbacks are inevitable in everyone's life, but many mothers are not good at comforting themselves emotionally. They encounter some troubles in their lives or suffer some grievances in their work. After returning home, they took it out on their children, and as a result, the children became direct victims.
2. Not confident. Many mothers always lack a sense of security and belonging and often deny themselves. Therefore, when they educate their children, it is not easy to see their' advantages'. They tend to focus only on their own shortcomings and magnify them infinitely.
3. Lack of optimism. Due to objective conditions, some mothers are pessimistic about life and sigh all day. This will hurt children's self-confidence and make them pessimistic about society and life.
4. Ask too much of children. Many mothers expect too much from their children and can't tolerate their children's failure. They often only take the test scores as the standard to measure whether children can become talents, but don't pay attention to their learning process. This view of education often makes children lose the fun of learning and then get tired of learning.
5.lack of initiative. Some mothers lack enthusiasm for life and the goal of struggle, can't keep good contact with the real environment, and stay in a daze all day, leaving themselves in a state of stagnation, while others think that they have passed? The age of study? ,? No need? Then improve yourself. So they refuse to learn and accept new things, and naturally they don't understand many words and deeds of their children. It is hard to imagine what positive influence such a mother can bring to her children, let alone what mental health she can bring to her children.
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