Living healthily is more important than anything else.
When I came back from shopping yesterday, I met my neighbor's aunt and talked a few words. My aunt's son will go to college next year. After studying hard for ten years, I am about to come out, but what worries my parents is that my son is not in the state at this critical moment. Children who do well in the senior high school entrance examination feel tired of learning from the beginning of entering high school. Recently, they are always in a daze for no reason. The school teacher asked them to drop out of school for a while, but the aunt didn't elaborate. Now the child is taken home to rest. Aunt is anxious and worried. I am in a bad mood.
I really don't know what to say after listening to my neighbor's aunt. I also have children, and I will also face problems such as accompanying students, school districts, key middle schools, further studies and exams.
As children grow up day by day, they enter school. I also began to know more or less a series of questions about children's schooling. It's really stressful Just by entering primary school, we have not created a good environment for our children. Because my husband and I have limited ability, we can only choose the third-rate school closest to home. Now that our children are in the second grade, we have no school district and no financial resources. We are only strict with our children in their studies.
But in recent years, through various media and things happening around me, I have heard a lot about the depression and autism of good children because of the pressure of study, which really makes me have to reflect on myself.
I think psychological sunshine is more important than intelligence when children grow up. So I'd rather not let my children go to a famous university. I will let her live happily. I am an only child. It's too difficult to raise a child. I'm not going to have a second child. I can't afford two children. Just this one.
But now many of our parents don't think so. They are pushing their children. Sometimes, the potential of this person can be pushed out. But it is this kind of compulsory education that has caused many problems for our children. The first is that he doesn't know how to be grateful. He thinks his success is his own. The second is that although a child has reached a certain height in his life, he is too high to be cold, and he will not solve some problems in his heart, because his social development has obstacles, so these two kinds sometimes make the child reach a high level of intelligence, but he has depression and other problems because of psychological sunshine.
Every child is different. "Since God has given talents, let them find jobs!" So I want to emphasize this point. What is human success? It lies in his self-confidence and other issues. Our parents should not only pay attention to their children's study, but also consider their psychological development.
Our parents must first have a correct outlook on life and values. Children are the pillars of our country, so we should serve the motherland. If not, wouldn't it be nice to have fun? Because living healthily is more important than anything else.