Children are sensitive. How do we care about their mental health?

Everyone knows that "a good word warms people's hearts, and a bad word hurts people in June", not to mention that children's hearts are very fragile and sensitive. Sometimes a casual word from our adults will cast a shadow over their hearts. Therefore, adults regulate their own words and care for their health.

1, I hope you are a boy (girl).

This sentence denies gender, and children will naively accept their parents' verbal demands. This kind of negative words will make them feel confused and sad, because they have not met their parents' expectations.

2, just know to play.

Playing is children's nature, and they can learn a lot from it. This sentence will dampen the enthusiasm of children. Parents should not impose their values on them.

3, you are still young, you can't do it.

Protecting the healthy growth of children is the responsibility of every parent, but too much protection will be counterproductive. Sometimes they should be encouraged to do things that suit their age boldly, instead of doing everything at once.

4. Don't fail.

Everyone, old and young, will encounter setbacks and failures. If parents insist on perfectionism and ask their children to succeed in everything,

5. While playing, you don't know anything about adults.

This is obviously a negative tone. Drawing a clear line between adults and children will make children feel neglected and psychologically depressed. They will be timid in future.

Therefore, parents should treat their children as an independent individual, treat them equally with you, and give them respect and courtesy. Rather than an accessory to your life, you are vulnerable to abuse and injury.