The truth of emotional breakdown
Too many marriage stories tell us that love is the most unreliable, and the marriage formed by love will die because of emotional breakdown. Although the previous feelings were true, the previous vows were also serious. But under the erosion of years, he has new requirements for marriage and new expectations for the other half. And you, however, have been staying where you are, without growth or change.
Marriage is a reality. He can spoil you for life or take back his kindness to you. When you choose to rely on others and give up self-growth, you should be prepared to be eliminated at any time.
Marriage imbalance
When I first got married, the two sides were very loving. Later, because of having children, the husband asked his wife to resign at home. Later, my husband felt that her income didn't increase much, but she asked for more and more money every month, so let her save some flowers. This situation is not uncommon. The husband has the initiative when he has the only family income, and the relationship between husband and wife is unbalanced.
Marriage needs the efforts of both parties.
Xue Zhaofeng, an economist, once shared a view: Marriage means that both parties take out their own resources, run a family business together, and sign a life-long wholesale futures contract. Maybe everyone has different resources, different functions and different effects, but we must work together to achieve a win-win situation. Marriage is the same as a company. You should have the core value in it and the ability to be needed by others. Otherwise, your happiness and your life can only be controlled by others.
The importance of relationship equivalence
Marriage is more about getting what you want. No one wants to pay all the time, and no one can lie flat forever. All efforts and dedication are based on mutual assistance. In other words, you are equal in relationship and independent in economy. It is not an unbalanced structure, one side is above others, and the other side is Nuo Nuo. In marriage, if the two sides maintain a mutually complementary relationship, they may go further and last longer.